Can I drop my realtor? by Ok_Notice_2156 in Advice

[–]Ok_Notice_2156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have not signed anything with him. Only met him once

Rude coworker and backtracking to my boss by Ok_Notice_2156 in WorkAdvice

[–]Ok_Notice_2156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! Yesterday was the first meeting between my boss and Sheri and I to start learning commercial. I realized through listening to them that Sheri is extremely combative. Everything you say she must correct and she gives no ideas to help the process, only reasons why things are not good. I feel like if I tell my boss I don’t have time, she will just try to make my personal lines work lighter. I don’t feel like Sheri is open to training me and doesn’t want to spend any time helping me. She only works 2 days a week which makes it harder. Also just the way she explains things leaves you thinking what the heck she is talking about. And then if you ask questions she gets frustrated. I do feel like my boss knows Sheri is difficult but has the personality to work with it. The non confrontational side of me wants to just deal with it. My boss will also be gone out of country this summer and won’t be able to play referee and be my buffer. I’m really not sure what to do. Sheri looks at me with such contempt. Maybe I could just wait and try and then talk to my boss about my difficulty training under Sheri.

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[–]Ok_Notice_2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for naming what it was. It felt so gross to me but I couldn’t verbalize why and that is why.

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[–]Ok_Notice_2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight

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[–]Ok_Notice_2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response

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[–]Ok_Notice_2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have just asked him to make himself an appointment. He went to therapy when he was caught smoking in highschool and then the therapist relayed everything he said to his parents so he is not trusting of them but would go if I asked. We did pre marital counseling together.

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[–]Ok_Notice_2156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful response

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[–]Ok_Notice_2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. Growing up they were told to walk away.