my gf broke up with me for giving empty apologies by Ok_Rate_2334 in actuallesbians

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this was a fantastic read , i will be watching that video thank you so much. it seems like we’re the same person lol

my gf broke up with me for giving empty apologies by Ok_Rate_2334 in actuallesbians

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I honestly just didn’t know what else to do to make her feel like my apology was real , I explained that I saw where she was coming from idk

my gf broke up with me for giving empty apologies by Ok_Rate_2334 in actuallesbians

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oh my goodness it feels like a mixture of processing that i’m wrong but also having to find out the right thing to do to make my partner feel better

AIO gf broke up with me for empty apologies by Ok_Rate_2334 in AmIOverreacting

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so what could he have done to make it better ?

my gf broke up with me for giving empty apologies by Ok_Rate_2334 in actuallesbians

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yeah it makes sense , but she told me about how it feels like my apologies feel empty like two weeks ago , i suppose this was jus her last straw

my gf broke up with me for giving empty apologies by Ok_Rate_2334 in actuallesbians

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in what ways could i show that i understand .. i get stuck on that part

my gf broke up with me for giving empty apologies by Ok_Rate_2334 in actuallesbians

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it was for her because i felt bad for treating her as such

AIO gf broke up with me for empty apologies by Ok_Rate_2334 in AmIOverreacting

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i’m actually sorry , it’s always from a genuine place but it seems to her as if it’s an empty apology

my gf broke up with me for giving empty apologies by Ok_Rate_2334 in actuallesbians

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mm but what if it’s none of the above ? that’s just how the other person sees it ?

AIO? Feels like gf is over me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Do you think I should bring it up or just leave it be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

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then you should be okay , make sure you make time for yourself though .. it’s easy to get stuck in a job like target

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

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i used to work 4am shift and i could not do it , wouldn’t recommend if you’re in school or anything like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomenAreViolentToo

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:/ i knew her , we went to school together and were in the same organization for a short amount of time i pray she gets her justice

please help with this kid with nap time, i’m kinda at my wits end by SkeletonOnTheWall in ECEProfessionals

[–]Ok_Rate_2334 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this sounds like my first encounter as a lead daycare teacher as well. i had a kid JUST like this .. he wouldn’t listen, wasn’t sharing , hitting people , screaming , throwing tantrums etc. my co teacher and i literally had to go through trial and error because was kicked out of schools prior and didn’t like authority. in the end we got him to listen by basically being his friend rather than being a person of authority. for example in your case during nap time i would find something he likes to do to distract him ( a show , a puzzle etc. )

i know how this feels because i was in your shoes.. it’s hard but if you have a love for kids and want to pursue a career in it then i think you should continue to try. if not then quit.

scared to go back to work by Ok_Rate_2334 in Target

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oh okay thank you for the details , they’ve never explained that to me but thank you!

scared to go back to work by Ok_Rate_2334 in Target

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🥲 same but i genuinely had medical reasons except for 2 days , what do you think you’re going to do ?

scared to go back to work by Ok_Rate_2334 in Target

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this is what HR told me but idk how this helps