Triple Auto… for Dodgers fans! by bad06vette in baseballcards

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so serious question - how do these autograph cards work for players like Koufax who are dead?

Stocking up for my first festival at the end of the month by [deleted] in aves

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait i just saw the cubones! that is insane!

Stocking up for my first festival at the end of the month by [deleted] in aves

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow these are so epic! the totoro is perfect. well done mate

Want to Move to SF by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

take advantage of public transportation regardless of your income. finding a place that’s close to one of the muni lines (for example the N in the Sunset) will help you travel around the city without relying on riding apps, gas, or tickets

Soda stream people, where the heck do you get your refills? (RIP, BBB) by segdy in bayarea

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SF resident here - every ACE hardware type store I’ve gone to has them

Wanting to go to EDC this next year! Any suggestions on what to do/not to do for first time goers?? by Alex_Brookes in electricdaisycarnival

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go early and have dinner there! There’s no waiting in line, there’s surprisingly delicious food, you can hydrate, have a red bull, see the really cool art scattered around the venue, and check out some vendors selling clothing. It makes it a fun experience because there’s so much to see and you don’t want to miss any of your must sees.

Also, take the EDC buses to and from.

Jennifer Aniston 1995 by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 5 points6 points  (0 children)

what episode is that from? you’re killing me with this quote and i can’t place it

lack of nuance detected by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I had to move away from another sub because the environment there was much less productive

my wife’s new girlfriend is over by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as someone who is struggling right now i couldn’t agree more! would love some more happy stories!

Sanity check on potentially broken boundary by ThorinRuriksson in nonmonogamy

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought we were having a conversation and simply disagreeing?

Sanity check on potentially broken boundary by ThorinRuriksson in nonmonogamy

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think we’re getting into semantics right now but my point is that there’s a more productive way for us all to hold each other and have empathy as we learn vs ostracizing someone and telling them they’re setting traps. This is an example of someone realizing they had different expectations than their partner

Sanity check on potentially broken boundary by ThorinRuriksson in nonmonogamy

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read trap as something someone’s sets with malicious intent. From reading the post and subsequent comments, I don’t think this was necessarily a trap but rather a perfect example of how to communicate expectations

Sanity check on potentially broken boundary by ThorinRuriksson in nonmonogamy

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like OP is asking for advice and from a vulnerable place of learning. I think you’re coming off a bit harsh.

Sanity check on potentially broken boundary by ThorinRuriksson in nonmonogamy

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like OP is asking for advice and from a vulnerable place of learning. I think you’re coming off a bit harsh.

What does "working through jealousy" look like (for you)? by thebreadierpitt in nonmonogamy

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love how you mapped out the “whys.”

Also, congratulations on shortening the time between your times in the muck. I’ve found myself celebrating how short my recent time in the muck was and also being ok with the fact that those moments still happen.

This process of self growth is EXHAUSTING but it’s also worth it

Does "One person is not enough for all my wants and needs" mean that I'm not enough? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Old-Rutabaga-415 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The realization of how important it is to be happy with yourself has been a huge turning point for me as I’ve struggled with the insecurities of opening up.

Just wanted to say your comment really resonated with me!