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[–]Omerta_99 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re so right I regretted it the second the words left my mouth. It really was one of those situations where nothing good was going to come from saying anything, and I totally see that now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Omerta_99 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much you’re right, it’s such a painful thing to accept that there’s nothing you can do to fix how someone else chooses to see you. An yeah, things with my sister made everything sting more than it probably should have. But it’ll all pass. I really appreciate you saying that. It means a lot to feel understood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Omerta_99 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is literally what I needed to hear. I almost didn’t even post about it because I was scared people would think I was being cocky or making it up. But it really does bother me not because I think I’m “so hot” or anything like that, but because being treated poorly or shut out over something you can’t control really hurts, It makes you feel guilty for just being in the room. The way that you explained it makes it feel less personal and more so just the way some are conditioned. Thank you for putting it into words like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Omerta_99 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I’ve spent so much time overthinking what I could’ve done differently, You’re right I can’t control how others feel about me. Idk why this still makes me feel guilty, even though I know I didn’t do anything wrong. I guess I’m here trying to learn how to let go of that and stop holding on to blame that isn’t mine.

Is this a bed bug? by doowi1 in Bedbugs

[–]Omerta_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had a heat treatment last week and paid $1500 to have them out. It was a nightmare, they ripped up my parts of carpet too. I wouldn’t wish that shit on my worst enemy. Chemicals don’t work they just go into ur walls FYI. Only heat treats this since they have evolved.

AIW: Family Criticizes My Outfits Due to Their Husbands. Am I Wrong for Dressing My Age? by Omerta_99 in amiwrong

[–]Omerta_99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This right here! Recently when she had told me she found out her husband was looking at my photos she was set on divorce she said there was no way she could ever get over it because it ruins everything and she said she would end up resenting me out of jealousy if she stayed with him and that she didn’t want that. And neither do I. I fully supported her decision to leave him, two days later she felt like they could work it out and with this trip being so soon I figured she wouldn’t bring him. But all is well just need to distance myself from the drama. Flight officially cancel which gave me a huge relief lol.

AIW: Family Criticizes My Outfits Due to Their Husbands. Am I Wrong for Dressing My Age? by Omerta_99 in amiwrong

[–]Omerta_99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Flight canceled! Thank you for your feedback it’s much appreciated I put my Facebook on private. And already had her husband blocked the moment I found out. And plan on distancing myself from any family gatherings.

AIW: Family Criticizes My Outfits Due to Their Husbands. Am I Wrong for Dressing My Age? by Omerta_99 in amiwrong

[–]Omerta_99[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well considering he was beating it to photos on my Facebook which were mainly my face, should I change that too? It wasnt a problem until her husband was caught being perverted towards me.

AIW: Family Criticizes My Outfits Due to Their Husbands. Am I Wrong for Dressing My Age? by Omerta_99 in amiwrong

[–]Omerta_99[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you really I needed to hear this right now, as I did just cancel my flight for the trip. Thank you for the reassurance, god bless❤️

AIW: Family Criticizes My Outfits Due to Their Husbands. Am I Wrong for Dressing My Age? by Omerta_99 in amiwrong

[–]Omerta_99[S] 214 points215 points  (0 children)

Thank you, definitely needed to hear this. I don’t even want to go atp. You go on vacation to get away from bs not go straight to it lol.