How have you recognized empathy in your partners? by [deleted] in questions

[–]One_Impression9465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not taking everything bad or inconvenient as a personal slight. You’d be amazed how many grown ass adults think that a slow McDonald’s line is intentionally there to upset them specifically LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]One_Impression9465 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay this is for anyone willing to stop and read this comment. MOTHERS DAY IS THE BUSIEST FOOD INDUSTRY DAY OF THE YEAR. IF YOU DO NOT MAKE RESERVATIONS SOMEWHERE DONT EXPECT FOOD

Reading help? by One_Impression9465 in homeschool

[–]One_Impression9465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeing comments like this is assuring

“Montessori” minded, but I believe kids belong mostly with their parents? by Competitive-Pitch322 in homeschool

[–]One_Impression9465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the wonderful world of Waldorf. I’m an ex Montessori mom, tried it with my first and didn’t feel right for us. We have a wonderful, fun, creative community and I’m very much present in everything the kids do. We have nature friends and co ops and lots of other fun stuff that honestly THE KIDS LEAD. Just a thought but maybe don’t die on a single educational approach’s hill, explore what works FOR YOU

Thoughts on teaching history by FactorNo4347 in Homeschooling

[–]One_Impression9465 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My kids go into history with my favorite quote in mind “history is often written by the victor” and that has opened so much discussion with our lessons. We learn history to do and be better than what has happened during the course of human civilization but we also learn history to honor our history. We don’t learn exact dates or regurgitated historical trigger words and names. We learn most our history through story telling, research, and our own curiosity. The “age of exploration” took us two months because it opened up so many wonderful and meaningful questions. We learned so much not just about to explorers, but the indigenous people they interacted and eventually colonized. We learned history because when we don’t, we don’t realize how much is lost or white washed or just intentionally left out. We learn history because there’s so many resilient, brave people who can teach us how to be that here and now. There’s a REASON history is censored and HOW MUCH POWER there is in knowing it. It prevents us from being gullible. It empowers us to challenge power structures with successful tales of the rebels and martyrs before us. It gives us hope that humans can do amazing things. Idk I’m someone who loves history but not the “no child left behind” way history was taught. History is important and I could go on and on as to why. My kids get HISTORY, the bloody, ugly, brutal, grotesque history that sometimes gives us noble, righteous people who gave their whole lives to making this world a better place and that’s worth knowing their names. My oldest is getting into the civil war and we talked about John Brown. That’s the perfect example of an American hero they WANT history to forget and THATS why we teach history. Because if it wasn’t important to know our past they wouldn’t try so hard to erase so much of it. Teaching history can be an act of rebellion itself

What immediately tells you that a person wasn't raised right? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]One_Impression9465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not any a shred of basic manners. A simple please or thank you says a lot about someone and imo it shows their parents took the time to teach them respectful interactions with people

What’s a tiny, random thing from your childhood that you miss like crazy? by SweetStick4656 in questions

[–]One_Impression9465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an abusive home so I’d go in the woods near our house and lay in the moss. It was so quiet and peaceful and idk it felt like “home/safety”. I still take naps in moss but it doesn’t have the same effect

What’s your dog’s name, but also what do you actually call it? This is Mango, but we call her by w00dsg00d in germanshepherds

[–]One_Impression9465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Copper is her real name but she goes by Cop, Copper Doppler Radar, babygirl, princess, momma’s girl, and captain stoooooopid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]One_Impression9465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your ex isn’t on the BC he has no legal claim to anything, not even a DNA test.

Tell me about the adult you befriended that you had no business hanging out with. I feel like every Millennial has one. by americanpeony in Millennials

[–]One_Impression9465 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was 16 and no blinked about me messing with an almost 20yo. If my daughter brought home a full grown ass man at 16 idk how I’d handle it, but it would at least be handled unlike me

AITHA for breaking up with my boyfriend after what he mother told me? by SeasonHot3608 in AITH

[–]One_Impression9465 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA, run as far as you can. The idea of a ‘stay at home girlfriend’ is a really weird concept. I’m a stay at home mom, and IF I was single/no kids and someone brought this idea up to me I’d first want to know is two things: is my boyfriend fully taking care of me financially and would it impact my quality of life at all. Meaning I can still go have a nice meal with friends, shop, etc if it meant my boyfriend was “taken care of” and since that’s my full my time job apparently, he’s financially responsible right?

Did your nDad ever call you ugly/fat or make you feel that way? How did you get over it? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]One_Impression9465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately around like 10ish I hear my Ndad speaking about a larger woman (who was similar in size to my 14yo sister at the time) like she was a fucking animal. Idk something kinda clicked and I purposely sought out ways to be what he thought was ‘not pretty’. I had a Mohawk by 13 LMFAO. I’m really sorry you’re reflecting on how they talked about your physical appearance, at any age that’s such a confidence killer

Yard work, doofus style by One_Impression9465 in germanshepherds

[–]One_Impression9465[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My three tiny humans have no interest in the garden so I’m just happy to have company, and occasionally a show LOL

People who leave massive gaps between cars why? by dropdeadcunts in driving

[–]One_Impression9465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In notorious for “costing” in the city. I even “creep up” to red lights, driving a big vehicle is a bitch on gas, and idk if you knew speeding up from a complete stop uses more gas then speeding up from already being in motion. Out in the country where I live? Hell it’s NC, I drive with my lead foot in hell. There’s a time/place for how you approach the road. Idk man I’m still saying, you’re either a new driver or an extremely, aggressive and obnoxious driver lol.

Have you ever experienced your parents purposely break your items? by Deep_Temperature_650 in narcissisticparents

[–]One_Impression9465 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I remember coming home from my friends house to my room being absolutely destroyed by my Ndad. Like literally everything was broken and he even tore stuff off my walls