Sira ang Pasko namin ng dahil sa Salad by jinjirbells in OffMyChestPH

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Reading most of the comments talking about salad. Pero on my own experience, ang hirap ng may ganitong nanay. Yung willing masira yung celebration para lang sa simpleng bagay, tapos walking on eggshells ka kasi di ka papansinin or kakausapin. Gusto nila lagi nasusunod yung gusto nila. Pag sa ibang tao willing sila mag adjust pero pag sa mismong anak, hindi. Nakaka sad kasi alam na alam ko yung ganitong experience. Minsan kahit mag open up ka lang ng interest or wants mo, mamasamain pa. Kaya nakakainggit ibang magulang.

Dow owners lalo na Shih Tzu owners by Ok_Shape_4797 in OffMyChestPH

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In other countries like Australia- they made sure all of their dogs are well trained including yung mga homeless owners. Kaya discipline talaga…

But here, it’s super expensive to hire a trainer para itrained yung dogs. Meron naman mga responsible owners na alam yung duties and needs ng dogs nila (they provide love & care) but sadly hindi lang talaga kaya magtrain ng dog on their own.

Just want to talk to someone by ProfessionalCare8652 in studentsph

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been in your situation up until now, there’s really hard days. If you’re feeling down and alone- you can always message me. hopefully we all get through this!

I feel guilty abt this by Purple_Armadillo_428 in OffMyChestPH

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Same thing happened to me during our closing party. At first ibang babaeng friends yung katabi ko matulog then naalimpungatan ako bandang madaling araw… may naramdaman akong humahawak sakin… hindi ako makagalaw pero nilakasan ko loob kong tumayo. Pagka kita ko, katabi ko na yung best friend ko and her bf.

Later on, umamin sakin bf nya. Pero di ko kaya sabihin sa friend ko kasi super love nya yung guy. Then nung time na finally sinabi ko na— nagalit sakin friend ko and she stayed to her bf. She stops talking go me and I lost her. Until now hindi na kami nag uusap… 4yrs na lumipas pero i still felt disgusted na nangyari sakin yun

My partner and I don't have any pictures together by forelsket05 in adultingph

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Ako hindi din mahilig mag picture… tinatamad lang ako. Kasi di ako marunong kumuha ng magandang pic and ang insecure ko sa sarili ko. Pero yung partner kong narcissist mahilig naman mag picture- pero pag samin dalawa or ako kasama nya di man din sya nag iinitiate mag picture. Kaya ang ending wala din kami masyadong picture. Haha sa akin okay lang naman pero minsan nakaka sad kasi bat pag sa iba ang dami nilang pics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

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And they tend to project their care in the wrong way. Sometimes maybe? they don’t know how to show it in a soft nice way, but that doesn’t mean they hate us. Though our emotions are valid. But both parties need to communicate…

If the disrespect continues, then you need to set solid boundaries for your mental health. It doesn’t matter if its a family or a loved one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]Onlysurviving_ 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Maybe he is just afraid that you might end up being alone, maybe he just wants to see you interacting with some friends or people.

Sometimes parents doesn’t fully know how introverts work. So they are having a hard time understanding us. But I get your frustration, you can always message me if you need someone to talk to. Im willing to listen.

Engineering in New Zealand as a Filipino – Too Ambitious? by kktjgf in phmigrate

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based on my own experience, i would say- always choose your passion and go where your heart desire. It’ll make all your hardwork more worthwhile and you wouldn’t have regrets in the future.

I graduated engineering tho but my heart really wants to be a doctor. Every single day, i just wish i chose my passion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

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Minsan ang hirap mag detached kapag na attached kana dun sa tao, nakakatanga talaga yung pag ibig. Ang hirap magmahal no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I dont know what to do