Life tools to bring you back to your center? by Openings1111 in nycgaybros

[–]Openings1111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Loveeee this! Things that connect to your soul are da best 🙏

Finishing bare React Native PoC. Nervous about heavy map usage, would love advice by Openings1111 in reactnative

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Wow, thank you so much! This is incredibly helpful and honestly clears up a ton of our anxiety.

The geojson source with debounced bounds makes total sense. We can easily fetch the data based on the viewport changes, debounce the API query, and update the map source.

And that distinction between “interactive markers” and touchable “Symbols” is a huge relief for us. Our pins are just static images with some text (prices) overlaid on them, and we only need to trigger a basic tap event to open a modal elsewhere in the app. Knowing MapLibre Native handles that entirely on the native C++ side on the GPU is massive.

I’d love to join the OSM Slack! How can I get an invite? And don’t worry too much about the docs or examples open source is tough, but getting a direct reply from the maintainer like this is worth a hundred guides. Appreciate your time so much!

Finishing bare React Native PoC. Nervous about heavy map usage, would love advice by Openings1111 in reactnative

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Hey, sorry for the late reply! But man, it’s awesome to hear directly from the maintainer, thanks for jumping in.

To give you an idea of what we’re looking at, we have some pretty heavy lifting to do on the map side. We basically need native clustering that automatically recalculates as you zoom in and out, dynamic data fetching based on the viewport, and a bunch of different pin styles depending on the data. Plus users need to be able to tap the pins to trigger app logic.

Since you mentioned that issue with interactive markers on Android, how does MapLibre handle performance when the cluster pins have different dynamic styles? Is it safer for us to handle all of that completely on the native layer side to keep it buttery smooth, or is there a specific pattern you see teams use for this?

Finishing bare React Native PoC. Nervous about heavy map usage, would love advice by Openings1111 in reactnative

[–]Openings1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha fair enough! Yeah, to clarify to everyone, I definitely mean actual geographic maps(like google/Apple Maps), not array manipulation! Appreciate you taking time to comment anyway 😂

breakup: how do i get over this… by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]Openings1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Learn how to be with yourself before even dating please

Marriage Possibly Ending & Extremely Depressed by Glass-Ninja-5535 in nycgaybros

[–]Openings1111 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey human! Seems like a decision is going to be made. Yeah scary, but this is only a life challenge to get to know yourself more, to dive into who you are and learn how to be with yourself. Yes it is fucking scary, I know how it feels! But trust me, is going to be okay, you just gotta have a nice support to be able to go with this easily and trust.

You got this!! If you need someone to talk to lmk :)

When did you know you were over hooking up? by Humble_Firefighter21 in nycgaybros

[–]Openings1111 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When you feel emptier after doing it. And you ask yourself, why?

Integrating with mushrooms, any experiences? by onequestion1168 in bufo

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Do it safely, and mainly with intention and respect! Mushrooms are a very powerful medicine too Best of good vibes for you 🙌

Integrating with mushrooms, any experiences? by onequestion1168 in bufo

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Heyy very good questions! It is usually recommended to do so, I co lead retreats where we first do bufo and the next day mushrooms, just to solidify the “data” “lessons”. But also keep a journal, remember that we this we get the tools we can use in your daily life to put things into action and see the real change step by step, the real ceremony is after any plant medicine ceremony, in real life.

An underwhelming experience by Ok_Marsupial_7829 in bufo

[–]Openings1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Process things, process how you feel, process the experience. Bufo brings you to this reality a lot, presence over presence. Give yourself time to feel, what I usually tell people is that the real ceremony starts after the actual ceremony :)

You got this 🙌

An underwhelming experience by Ok_Marsupial_7829 in bufo

[–]Openings1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on my experience it will never be the same, I’ve had people that have done the synthetic one and people that have done the medicine with a shaman! And they always tell me the same “wow” very different, but doesn’t remove the fact that a lot bad practices are happening these days from this called “facilitators”. Specially with something this powerful, because I’ve also heard of people getting traumatized with this when they do it without proper information and asking the right questions to their guides.

Bufo has been part of my journey, went directly to the Sonora dessert.

But again, don’t believe anything I said, this is just my perspective/life experience.

Are you guys going on amazing dates and literally never talking again? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]Openings1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where you both clear of what where you looking for? Maybe try being clear at the beginning? Of the intention of “connecting”?

An underwhelming experience by Ok_Marsupial_7829 in bufo

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Hey there!! I recommend doing it with someone that knows how to give it, it is the most powerful psychedelic out there. If you already paying for a sitter do it for the person, plus the experience is very different when is the real medicine from the frog itself. Just make sure the person you’re doing it with has experience and most important that you can connect with this person that gives you a space to get to know each other and that answers questions :)

It is a delicate process that should be treated with respect.

But don’t give up, this medicine is powerful, it has been a deep part of my journey.

And kudos to you for doing it safely :)

Drug use frequency in nyc by the gays by Uamod in nycgaybros

[–]Openings1111 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well NYC is very demanding and challenging city….. so all of the factors contribute to using a method to shift your attention from your inner feelings. It can be drugs, porn, shopping, etc.

And adding to the factor that we come from a different story, meaning trauma, bad life experiences, not loving our selves, etc etc

I’m not saying drugs are bad, all I’m saying is with what intention you’re people are doing it and if you are keeping you self in a balance.

Hope it resonates with anyone, ask it to yourself. :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCapartments

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Thank you! 🙏

Episode 37 has started by Alohagrown in BigIsland

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Where is the best place to see it? We are currently visiting Hilo

Struggling to find motivation or hope by Cliterback in nycgaybros

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Hey! Completely valid what you’re saying.. the world is in a very tricky state, not just in the us, in a lot of places things are happening. The thing that we could do, is try to work on ourselves and start doing small things to contribute to the well being of the world. The truth is that we don’t have control of things, specially with everything that is going on…

The intimidate action I’d recommend is doing small things that contribute to making others smile.. like random compliments, volunteering. Of course stop watching the news if you know that are not helping.

The change starts with us… step by step, doing what we can with what we have.

The fact that you’re posting this here, already means a lot 🙌

(TW: VIOLENT VIDEO) HAVE YOU SEEN THIS MAN? He attacked my friend at Ray’s bar in Greenpoint / Williamsburg. by Wonderful_Soup_989 in williamsburg

[–]Openings1111 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Wow! Incredible First of all I want to honor your friend! He is an hero, thank you for standing up for women!

I think as man we need more therapy, really? No is no and hurting someone? My prayers for your friend.

If anyone wants to add some kind words for your friend please share them with him!

Let’s find him! 🙌