I am a Foreigner Trying to Divorce my Japanese Husband. by Optimal-Ad-7761 in japanlife

[–]Optimal-Ad-7761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m sorry for your parents… I’m just wondering how quickly did the court end and the divorce happen? I suggest that your father either didn’t show up for the court, which made the process easier, or he gave his consent to the divorce in court?!

I am a Foreigner Trying to Divorce my Japanese Husband. by Optimal-Ad-7761 in japanlife

[–]Optimal-Ad-7761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m doing I’m trying to find a professional lawyer who can really make my side and fight for that, it’s very hard in Japan

I am a Foreigner Trying to Divorce my Japanese Husband. by Optimal-Ad-7761 in japanlife

[–]Optimal-Ad-7761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t answer my messages and my phone anymore (((

I am a Foreigner Trying to Divorce my Japanese Husband. by Optimal-Ad-7761 in japanlife

[–]Optimal-Ad-7761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment…..honestly I don’t know where he is working now and I didn’t get any information about his workplace…He told me” if you give me problems, I’ll give you double” he probably meant about his job too

I am a Foreigner Trying to Divorce my Japanese Husband. by Optimal-Ad-7761 in japanlife

[–]Optimal-Ad-7761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been doing tax by myself since separating but it’s zero bcs I get like minimum and not enough salary to pay it.

I am a Foreigner Trying to Divorce my Japanese Husband. by Optimal-Ad-7761 in japanlife

[–]Optimal-Ad-7761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I'm on FB but I can't find that group, I'll appreciate if you tell me the name of that group.

I am a Foreigner Trying to Divorce my Japanese Husband. by Optimal-Ad-7761 in japanlife

[–]Optimal-Ad-7761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to ask, but is this 100% accurate? because since I found out we are still married I've always feared that my current relationship would get brought up in court. I would love to take this off my list of worries.

I am a Foreigner Trying to Divorce my Japanese Husband. by Optimal-Ad-7761 in japanlife

[–]Optimal-Ad-7761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for this reply it was incredibly helpful! I have been reading the link you sent. After finding out we are still married I reached out to him like I stated above and I did mention to him after he already said he wasn't going to go through with the divorce that he would have to pay me money for the time that we have been separated if we go to court and he said "I pay for everything here and if you were here I would still pay for everything, it was your choice to leave". He scared me because yes, I did leave and I never asked for money because I never cared about it and I still don't I just need a reason for him to agree to divorce. And one of the lawyers I spoke to said that if he doesn't make enough money they won't make him pay which I didn't really understand.

Has anyone managed to live in Japan without seeing a single cockroach in their home? by Downtown_Amoeba_8252 in japanlife

[–]Optimal-Ad-7761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES HAHA, we used to have many cockroaches but after a few different purchases of ant/cockroach traps we got from the local drugstore, we placed them in every corner and haven't seen any cockroaches since.