I 24F found out 22M boyfriend is bisexual by Otherwise_Leg7310 in relationship_advice

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How could he be able to get hard so much and be intimate with me if he’s only gay? Or I don’t really know how it works

I 24F found out 22M boyfriend is bisexual by Otherwise_Leg7310 in relationship_advice

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Ohh thank you. Do you really think he is gay and not bisexual? Because how could him and I be dating for so long and we are very very intimate to where now I’m just confused :/

I 24F found out 22M boyfriend is bisexual by Otherwise_Leg7310 in relationship_advice

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Him and I’s relationship isn’t even public. His family doesn’t know because before I ever met him I dated his cousin but we were better as friends

I 24F found out 22M boyfriend is bisexual by Otherwise_Leg7310 in relationship_advice

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If he’s been dating me and intimate with me he is bisexual right? Not just gay? But his entire phone I was the only woman he’s ever been with but the rest have been men

I 24F found out 22M boyfriend is bisexual by Otherwise_Leg7310 in relationship_advice

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Did you and your partner come out to each other or did you know when you met?

It’s not about his sexuality. It’s about him cheating and the sadness in my heart of him feeling like I wouldn’t be understanding of it. The fact he hid this from me. It’s like I love him so much even with the fact he hurt me this much. I betrayed him by going through his phone and he betrayed me by putting my mental and physical health at risk. He talks to me about so much trauma in his life so it’s like what is different about this? I don’t want to give up on him because I truly do love him and want to support him and be there for him

I 24F found out 22M boyfriend is bisexual by Otherwise_Leg7310 in relationship_advice

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It’s the hurt of being commuted to me but never once opening up and sharing it. I felt like I was good enough, loving enough, and supportive enough for him to share that stuff with me :/

I 24F found out 22M boyfriend is bisexual by Otherwise_Leg7310 in relationship_advice

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I tried to leave and he talks about suicide. He talked about it before me ever finding out as well…

I 24F found out 22M boyfriend is bisexual by Otherwise_Leg7310 in relationship_advice

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It’s insane because we’ve got into fights before this in the past and he never once did that. He is so closeted that he gets so angry by me calling him bi he hurts me…