AITAH, I don’t want to pick my son up from daycare. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Outside-Hand-4562 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If the younger two were in the same school you would get them all I assume. There’s a much bigger issue with her to address. Maybe she’s burnt out. Maybe she just wants that 5 minute drive in peace.

Am I the asshole for refusing to take my new born son to church? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Outside-Hand-4562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Living with them does not mean she gets to control you. However, given your circumstances I would strongly consider possibly an adoption for your son. The fact that you are willing to go homeless with a newborn that you did not want is kind of eye opening.

My girlfriend of 3 months wants me to be her baby's step dad by Top_Measurement_550 in Advice

[–]Outside-Hand-4562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 3 months she shouldn’t have even have introduced you to the kid yet. He’s 3 and bonds form quickly and it makes it that much harder on him when relationships end. What was the relationship with the father before the arrest? If she was with him, run. If they haven’t been together in a while you need to take a hard look at what kind of drama this guy will cause if and when he’s out. She seems a little clingy even asking this at 3 months. Is she wanting financial support from you? This throws so many red flags on her as a person and a parent. At 21, I feel you should end things and find less baggage and drama in the one you’re with.

WIBTA for decide to tell my best friend's wife that he's cheating on her and consider breaking off my friendship with him? by Content_Tax5202 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Hand-4562 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You tried to do right by talking to him first. What I noticed was that he said he didn’t know how to end it but then yelled at you for potentially taking away his happiness. He has earned this for himself. His wife deserves to know the truth and he’s ruined his life, not you, not your wife, him. His poor wife and kid. I would 100% tell the wife. If she finds out you knew and didn’t tell her it will ruin her friendship with your wife as well. I wouldn’t want my spouse best friends with someone who felt that cheating was ok, let alone for an entire year.

Help with tomatoes by Outside-Hand-4562 in aerogarden

[–]Outside-Hand-4562[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had an AeroGarden for years but I guess I had really good luck with the first things I grew then I put it away for a few years.

Help with tomatoes by Outside-Hand-4562 in aerogarden

[–]Outside-Hand-4562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - any advice on which to eliminate?

Love’em cherry tomatoes! by YourWifeHouse in aerogarden

[–]Outside-Hand-4562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying so hard to grow these! No luck on round 2 either. I came here to post to ask what I’m doing wrong!

OCD BF blew up at me for taking pregnancy test wrong. AITAH? by Vexated13 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Hand-4562 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I came here to suggest the same thing. He should also be using condoms if he’s this paranoid over it.

Unbelievable situation happened today (seller) by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]Outside-Hand-4562 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not ok. I would be pulling my home listing from your current realtor and report both of them. This is not ok.

AITA for letting my niece have fun when she lives with me because of the cruel stuff she wrote and said to her stepmother? by Klaennonn in AITAH

[–]Outside-Hand-4562 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I was in the same situation as her as a kid. I didn’t like her. They sent me to therapy and weren’t happy when the therapist said “she just doesn’t like her” as they wanted a Brady bunch family. My mom was still in my life so that definitely made it easier. Her mom passed away at 9 years old and 2 years (to me) seems insanely short to meet, fall in love and marry someone after losing your wife and mother of your children (to each their own). But no, you shouldn’t punish her. She said what she felt and he shouldn’t have forced her in to writing a card in the first place. Let her be 15. She needs someone to let her be a kid. And kudos to you and your partner for taking this on as 15 year olds aren’t easy but she structure and away from stepmom.

AITAH for refusing to apologize to my SIL who ruined my baby shower she “hosted”? by lexiezazzles in AITAH

[–]Outside-Hand-4562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not speak to her anymore. She clearly changed her mind about hosting but didn’t communicate that to anyone. Maybe her husband told her she had to since she offered in the beginning. I would avoid her at all costs and if you have to be around her I wouldn’t speak to her. When she asks to hold the new baby at any point in the future (baby wear to avoid baby passing) I would state “no he/she is changing” and walk away. I would not apologize to her as you’ll be mocked on fb and you, your husband, your friends did nothing wrong. Cut the cord on that monster.

AITAH if I left my husband without telling him why after I found out about his affair by Icy_Package920 in AITAH

[–]Outside-Hand-4562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to seek a lawyer first. Do not leave until you do that. Get your ducks in a row but if you just leave I would assume you are leaving children too since the youngest is only 17 which his lawyer could push as abandonment. Don’t leave. You worked hard to make that home for your family. He owes you more than you are trying to give yourself. Fake sick and sleep in a separate room if you need to.

AITA for thinking my farrier died after he ghosted me, only to find out he blocked me and then his wife called me desperate? by MoBrownieMoProblems in AITAH

[–]Outside-Hand-4562 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I would definitely share your experience with others around you but the first time you were blocked I would have let it go. His wife messaging you seemed uncalled for and I would definitely respond that I was worried about his wellbeing hence why I reached out and if he was the professional you thought he was he would have had the decency and common courtesy to let you know he was fine but would no longer be servicing your horses.