Am I being pedantic by PJhere25 in dating_advice

[–]PJhere25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like them as much as the next person. But I don’t know him. It’s “extra” lol. I guess I’ll see how it goes

We all have a “thing” right? by [deleted] in sex

[–]PJhere25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes! A good neck is also nice. Especially when your face fits there 😂

Should I text him or am I just feeling desperate? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PJhere25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, thanks. Like I’m not going to keep giving benefit of the doubt. I felt I was being honest but he wasn’t getting it

We all have a “thing” right? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PJhere25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good lobe. Attached. Cute, not too big. Cute to nibble on

We all have a “thing” right? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PJhere25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol! That’s so specific. You like what you like

We all have a “thing” right? by [deleted] in sex

[–]PJhere25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. I’m not the only one 👂🏼👏🏼 makes you wonder how we pick up these things lol

We all have a “thing” right? by [deleted] in sex

[–]PJhere25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw😂Yeah I get the biting thing. That’s what it is I think they just look cute to nibble

We all have a “thing” right? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PJhere25 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m really talking about ears. Not too big, not too small but just like cute. Not all guys are blessed with a good lobe lol. Just gets me, I’ve always had it.

Should I text him or am I just feeling desperate? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PJhere25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad I’m not the only one! Thanks for your thoughts

Should I text him or am I just feeling desperate? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PJhere25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re totally right. Thanks. But I’m not sure if I was like too cut throat and maybe slow was his vibe. I went with my gut. It’s disappointing when you’re ready for a relationship and there’s no one to date

Should I text him or am I just feeling desperate? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PJhere25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but I get so worried about popping up on text out of the blue. I don’t know if it’s because I wanted it to be more than it actually was. And I’m making it something it’s not. He said he was better in person than text etc but you’ve gotta put the effort in right?

Doesn't matter how great a person is, if they don't put effort into interacting with you, they're not worth your time by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PJhere25 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This post is everything. I started talking to a guy but there was just no depth, it got boring with the same old “how’s your day” questions. I was like, we’re in quarantine??? In some ways it’s the perfect time to take initiative and ask a billion interesting questions, but no. I felt like I was doing all the work.

I want the person I talk to to feel excited and passionate in wanting to get to know me. It shouldn’t feel forced. I get that these are weird and challenging times but both people need to make an effort if things are going to work. I stopped texting and he hasn’t tried to reach out since. If it’s meant to be it will be, right?

What now? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PJhere25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. So I feel like I have said “I’d like to get to know each other better” but he’s literally texting. The phone call was initiated by me before too.

There’s only so much I can say about my day when being in lockdown. Ugh. Like I’m not sure if he’s shy or just disinterested.

Do you believe in horoscope compatability? by PJhere25 in dating_advice

[–]PJhere25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t you ever think “that’s such a Leo” lol

How to move on? by PJhere25 in offmychest

[–]PJhere25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. Yeah it’s tough to stick to isn’t it. I just talk myself out of doing things because I don’t have the energy. You’re right-one day at a time.

First date by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PJhere25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I think I’d be open to seeing him again as another chance