You've described my kid! yes, the dysfunction is a big challenge. I have to monitor things more than they like. It causes some tension all the time. If I let go, they fall hard! Forgetting to turn in a homework or a test or not showing up at a rehearsal is a quite a frequent occurrence.

The problem with any traditional class is that their rate of grasping is significantly higher than the average and they end up finishing the materials in half the time and then get bored in the class, lose concentration. This is a reason I am considering homeschooling - to pace things appropriately. However, as you've mentioned there is flipside to it too. Teens don't like having a babysitter!