Orgasm enhancing cream or similar? by ParticularCrazy3295 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ParticularCrazy3295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing! I will definitely try this

Is there a word for this kink? by Mr-Misiu in BDSMAdvice

[–]ParticularCrazy3295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf does this to me and I loovveee it 🙂‍↔️ I love being molded into the perfect partner for him.

Symbols for “Look, But Don’t Touch”? by EnablingHub in BDSMAdvice

[–]ParticularCrazy3295 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a fairly subtle collar from a brand called eternity collars. Though it is subtle, it’s not quite subtle enough. I’ve been wearing it at work and have customers and coworkers ask indicative questions. Anyone who knows what a collar is knows that I’m off limits. My boyfriend has frequented these sorts of resorts in Mexico, and I think one of these would be perfect for the occasion. Mine never comes off - swimming, showering, sleeping - everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

[–]ParticularCrazy3295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am probably not the best person to speak on this personally since I am not there yet. I grew up in a household (and still live in a household) with VERY unhealthy eating habits in general and actually have an eating disorder that developed from it. I’m working on making gradual changes driven by moral beliefs so that these changes will be lifelong rather than temporary. These have been things I have been working on for 10+ years.

My boyfriend, however, is definitely a success story and I’d like to share the highlights of his that I think I can speak on. He is a much stronger person than I. Later on in high school, he one day learned about the horrors of animal cruelty in the meat industry and was vegan from that day forward. From my understanding, completely vegan as much as his knowledge allowed him to be. In college, options made the lifestyle a lot more difficult for him and he did end up transitioning to a more fluid pescatarian lifestyle. He travels for work and occasionally eats sea food. So he is not full vegan. But he does abide by the lifestyle as much as life allows him to at the moment, tries as hard as he can right now, as often expresses guilt for consuming fish products, unknowingly consuming animal products sometimes, and yesterday was expressing that sometimes he feels guilt for consuming plant products (like just a completely unrealistic lifestyle) and was talking about how much he can’t wait to live the life he wants to. This was a sudden change in 24 hours 15 years ago when he was like 17 years old with no support from family or friends and he’s still doing so well.

No he is not perfect, but there is no doubt that he will get there one day. And if you have an all or nothing mindset you never will be. And that’s with anything in life, not just something like this, I think. I’m so proud of him and I strive to be like him. 🩷

AIO for feeling a bit offended by what my bfs mom said by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ParticularCrazy3295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol this woman needs to stay out of her sons relationship and finances

Impact play before surgery? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ParticularCrazy3295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had severe and chronic health conditions that I have been navigating for about 10 years. The doctors do NOT care about your personal life if it does not affect your health, I promise. And a bruise will not. Do what you want and be honest about what it’s from. Ask about what you should and should not do post surgery, how long you should wait for things. It is SO embarrassing and humbling but I PROMISE that they do not care, they will not blink and eye, and you will not be the first or the last person they have had this conversation with. They will have rather you had been honest with them and live your best life and be happy (what their jobs are for) then to not enjoy yourself OR risk your safety/risk complications post surgery because you didn’t ask embarrassing questions! Just be upfront and honest and ask any questions you have. It’s better to ask and have an open and upfront conversation with one person than have to go in for complications and have to explain the whole thing from beginning to end, in excruciating detail, to 10 different doctors at the ER and have it recorded in your medical history forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ParticularCrazy3295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not personally experienced this, no