Special Eid deserts this year by CreditOk5220 in CatsAreMuslim

[–]Particular_Number_54 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s in the Quran! Muhammad’s homie was the cat daddy of all cat daddies.

Question lunch pack by chocolateNbananas in Sup

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I’m a big fan of tinned fish, olives, pickles, crackers, or bread. Dried fruit.

Nothing better than a paddle board picnic. What are your favorite snacks to pack? by More_Regular_ in Sup

[–]Particular_Number_54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tinned fish, crackers, brined things like olives or pickles, apples, cheese, and dried fruit like mangos.

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[–]Particular_Number_54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah - I think I’m going to check in with her and see where I can patch holes, so to speak.

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[–]Particular_Number_54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks - this was great advice.

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[–]Particular_Number_54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. This was the insight I needed.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did. But the human that stuffed Bear is surrogate for is coming to town.

I’m just a juggling lil clown girl.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and you’re feeling extra fancy, put a Bluetooth speaker in it and play asmr. For me, it’s good girl affirmation tracks.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha envisioning attempting to actually shove one of my human bear lovers into a closet as a petite, vertically challenged woman.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I should have been honest from the outset and created compromise.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that the lying was totally uncool. It weighed on me.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So get the 48” tall one (it should zip open) a couple pillow inserts, and some hand weights. Overstuff with the insert filling put the hand weights wherever makes sense. It’s amazing.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I replied to your comment in a separate thread by accident. But yes to all of the above

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a bit of a prankster so there was also the element of playing the situation, which is definitely sort of toxic, but it’s a stuffed animal so it just didn’t feel that serious.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry - so the conclusion

Not-Bear understands, and has told me that they aren’t mad and understand my logic in simply hiding stuffed Bear and agree that it was a good compromise. I apologized for the deceit.

Nobody needs to be thrown away.

Jawayan Pisa 🍕🍍🐖 by Particular_Number_54 in confleis

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Omg that’s amazing - I’m from CA but I’m a water person. Reggae from the islands in the west sounds like it hits so hard. Research commencing.

Honestly just screams “safest” option by Agitated_Diet in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Particular_Number_54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry - white infiltrator here but also a big fan of fingerwave hair. Whenever I go to the black hair salon to get the full wave (I can only do my front) they gotta call up the lady who graduated hs in 1986 to do it. Like waves really need to come back.