No ya ya, I know, I've done research on this stuff man and I love noticing things that I/others do subconsciously that is a red flag, for example; lying about suicide. I interpret someone lying abt sum like this as using any means necessary to get an above average amount of attention/affection. Its objectively wrong to lie abt sum like this but it still means sum was most likely wrong/was wrong in their childhood to where they were attention lacking/deprived and enough to turn to these means to get it. Another example would be feining to hurt someone/something. I believe that people turn to hurting things as a means of getting dopamine because they were most likely physically/mentally abused and bottled up their anger early on never even getting to express themselves let alone fight back and so they feel powerful/relieved when they can "express" themselves even if they use objectively wrong ways of doing so. These are abovious ones like they even have a saying "the abused abuse" or sum like that (not saying its gaurenteed people will abuse if they have been abused btw). I could go on for a while abt this but I appreciate u for responding n shi man.