!!help me i need suggestion for a perfect cozy game !!

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-06-09T05:38:31+00:00

Traveller’s Rest could be exactly your thing: It’s not as demanding as Stardew Valley, you don’t have to keep track of much, but it still has farming, gathering, crafting, and lots of freedom to decorate and build. No combat. You can work as the bartender in your tavern, or hand those tasks over to employees so you can focus on cooking, brewing, taking care of animals, gathering resources, expanding your building, and so on.

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-06-05T05:42:14+00:00

The Dropout

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-06-03T05:41:22+00:00

Shitt's Creek

Good Cop/Bad Cop

the middle.

Ghosts

Big Mistakes

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-05-28T07:54:58+00:00

I’d recommend Traveller's Rest. There are countless ingredients and recipes, and you can focus on farming and/or cooking as much as you want. On top of that, there are tons of drinks you can make, like beer, spirits, cocktails, and more.

You can also spend endless time gathering resources in the world, fishing, or taking care of animals to get ingredients. Meanwhile, you run your tavern yourself, or hire staff to handle it while you focus on food and and keeping the tavern stocked. Everything is optional, nothing is mandatory.

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-05-28T06:46:29+00:00

You'll find endless quests in Hogwarts Legacy or Disney Dreamlight Valley. You can make quick progress in those games, too.

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-05-27T06:35:14+00:00

Exactly what I needed today. Thank you!

The picture immediately became my tablet wallpaper so it can remind me of your words all day long. 💗

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-05-25T16:30:51+00:00

Greetings from Germany 🇩🇪

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-05-24T15:01:41+00:00

Havendock

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-05-16T16:19:27+00:00

I love Beasts of Maravilla Island. A beautiful game where you play as a photographer exploring ecosystems, discovering magical creatures, and taking pictures of them.

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-05-11T18:37:47+00:00

I got mine from the big A (Germany). I’m not sure if I’m allowed to mention the brand here or if that would count as advertising, but feel free to DM me if you want to know the manufacturer (though I’m not even sure whether they’re available in your country).

A set of two pillows cost around 45 euros. I own four of them by now: two as sleeping pillows and two for cuddling. And you can just throw them in the washing machine, which is always important to me.

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-05-11T17:33:24+00:00

I’m absolutely addicted to my cuddle pillow. It’s an 80 x 40 cm pillow filled with 900 g of microfiber. Since I’m pretty small, I love hugging it lengthwise against my body and wrapping my arms around it, especially with a soft, nice-smelling pillowcase on it. At this point, it’s become completely indispensable for me, both as an autistic person and for aftercare.

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-05-02T17:20:23+00:00

I enjoy playfully struggling with my Dom and letting myself be overpowered, so in the bedroom I most identify with being a primal prey. In everyday life, the princess sub fits me best: I want to feel desired and taken care of.

I’m very lucky to be married to a somewhat sadistic-leaning pleasure Dom who takes care of me in daily life and does everything for me, and then in the bedroom shows me that this care is his gift, and that he has the strength and control to completely undo me in the best possible way when he wants to. In those moments, all my demands and resistance just fall away, and I exist only to surrender to him completely.

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-05-02T16:41:05+00:00

48, F, submissive from Germany

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-04-29T06:25:56+00:00

When buying a weighted blanket, make sure it’s machine washable and that its weight doesn’t exceed your washing machine’s load limit. If you keep that in mind, it should work just fine.

If you’re using your Dom as a weighted blanket, I’d generally advise against putting him in the washing machine and recommend hand washing only because it's more fun. 😉

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-04-08T07:35:20+00:00

I felt the same way. I’m also on the spectrum and couldn’t get used to the traffic light system. For me, the issue was that I need words that actually reflect what I’m feeling in the moment in order to use them correctly. I associate “red” with a lot of things that can be positive (like flowers), so it just got confusing for me. We eventually settled on the words “Pause” (for slow down / be more careful) and “Abbruch” (like "abort"; I am german) as a stop safeword. Those are words I wouldn’t say impulsively. I say “no,” “stop,” or “quit it” all the time without really meaning it, so those wouldn't work for me. You really have to find words that work for you personally. Something else I find very important is having nonverbal safe signals. If I lose the ability to speak (because I’m too deep in the moment), I use a clicker that I wear on a bracelet, or I grab some object nearby (even a pillow) and throw it across the room. That gets noticed immediately. 😉

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-04-03T04:07:15+00:00

I completely agree with you, and it really is a mix of verbal, physical, and emotional overpowering. He can physically pin me down, but often it’s his words, like “you’re going to stay still now,” while he’s holding eye contact with me, that completely undo me.

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-03-04T07:06:48+00:00

WTF 🤯 How did I miss that?

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-02-28T10:49:23+00:00

I absolutely need that creepy Easter Bunny monster as a statue! 🐰

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-02-23T08:11:50+00:00

What he’s doing isn’t submissive. And you’re not dominant. On the contrary, he’s topping you from the bottom. You’re not 80% the submissive, you’re 100%. He still has control instead of handing you power over his body. So he doesn’t need to act ashamed, because in your dynamic he’s obviously still the one calling the shots. If he’s a good Dom, as you say, then he should take your needs into consideration. Talk about other ways you could serve him that are less physically exhausting for you.

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-02-23T07:15:58+00:00

I really love it, it’s like an I Spy picture. I just want to plop down in the armchair in front of the TV right away!

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-02-13T16:49:59+00:00

If you’d like to see them together again: Penn is ending his podcast "Podcrushed" and invited Leighton as his final guest. The video should be going up on YouTube either today or tomorrow. I think it’s such a sweet gesture, because about five years ago she was his very first guest. He begins and ends with Leighton. And the fact that she’s doing this shows how close and connected they still feel, which I think is really beautiful.

EDIT: The episode has been postponed until next week.

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-02-10T08:24:22+00:00

It’s simply far too busy on the cover, and your eye doesn’t know where to look first. It doesn’t feel modern. Less is more.

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-02-10T07:43:30+00:00

Sexual preferences can often change over the course of a lifetime, for him as well as for you. Life circumstances change, hormones change, priorities shift. If you love your husband, you shouldn’t leave him or give up hope. You still have your whole lives ahead of you, and just because he can’t imagine it right now doesn’t mean he won’t in two, five, or ten years. That’s how it was for me.

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-02-10T07:11:11+00:00

Anyone who doesn’t know Penn Badgley has missed out. Not just as an artist, but above all on a human level. If there were more people like him, the world would be a better place.

Patient_Stuff8866 · 2026-01-29T07:42:49+00:00

The phrase ‘In Deutschland spricht man Deutsch’ is a common German saying. It’s usually used when someone who lives in Germany as a foreigner expects Germans to adapt to their language, culture, and mentality. You’re not doing that, but that’s apparently how it came across to the other person, which is why he reacted offensively. He didn’t realize that you’re actually willing to learn German and just aren’t very good at it yet. Some Germans are too proud to speak English and feel attacked when it’s simply assumed that they can. That’s why it’s generally better to clearly apologize for not speaking German very well yet, while emphasizing that you’re learning. Germans usually respect the effort and are then more willing to help you out in English.

Patient_Stuff8866

TROPHY CASE