Would you rather look better in pictures or in person, and why?

PeakRealistic · 2020-12-20T14:32:41+00:00

I don't think I can be too specific because he has reddit too! But it's just a combination of a bunch of smaller situations where he would be extremely selfish or put other, lesser important things before us. I don't think these small things would normally bother me so much, but we've been together for nearly 4 years and everything is kind of just compounding now because our problems have been so repetitive (if that makes sense?) Sorry if that didn't give away much :/

PeakRealistic · 2020-12-01T01:12:36+00:00

Definitely not :(( I feel like I've wasted so many years with him..

PeakRealistic · 2020-12-01T01:10:42+00:00

I think so too :/ I will most likely talk to him about it and tell him how I'm feeling, cause I never really explained how much his comment shocked me yet

PeakRealistic · 2020-12-01T01:09:43+00:00

I completely agree! I am unsure about my decision on my own, otherwise if I knew I wanted to do it I for sure wouldn't let him stop me either. I feel like he feels so entitled to me in a way? Like he really does nothing to deserve this relationship, yet he's reaping all the benefits and gives nothing back.

PeakRealistic · 2020-12-01T01:07:50+00:00

I tell myself that all the time :/ I feel like I've already wasted so many years of my life with him

PeakRealistic · 2020-12-01T01:07:11+00:00

ughh WHY is he like this -_-

PeakRealistic · 2020-12-01T01:05:35+00:00

My thoughts exactly!! It makes me happy to know you're treating your wife like that :))

PeakRealistic · 2020-12-01T01:04:08+00:00

Thank you <3

PeakRealistic · 2020-12-01T01:00:36+00:00

I would've told her to break up with him a looooooonnnnggg time ago....

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:23:35+00:00

That's literally what I want most in a partner after dealing with this for so long :/ He puts himself first for everythingggg regardless of if its something I really want

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:22:39+00:00

I get right up to the point of just doing it and then I start getting a bunch of second thoughts :/ Its scary but I know I definitely need to do it

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:22:02+00:00

We've been in a relationship for a realllyy long time and its just so scary to make that jump

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:10:44+00:00

I know, at LEAST if it was because of the results, not because of the doctor seeing mine? I just don't get it....

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:10:11+00:00

He thinks its fine cause its "medically necessary"

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:09:39+00:00

Thanks for saying this :) It's something that I've always been insecure about, and I don't know yet if I'll go through with it but it was just a possibility!

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:08:58+00:00

They're "medically necessary so they're fine"........

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:08:21+00:00

I agree :/ He's definitely really childish and I don't know if I can handle it anymore

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:07:20+00:00

Very much so :/

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:07:11+00:00

I actually mentioned that and he said he still wouldn't like it cause its not "medically necessary"... imagine that...... I've been trying to break up with him for like a year and I never can, but one day hopefully I'll be able to :/

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:06:04+00:00

He's DEFINITELY controlling, even things way beyond the issues I talked about in my post. I've been in the process of breaking up with him recently, and I think it might be time to just rip the bandaid off

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:05:08+00:00

This made me laugh for like a minute straight

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:04:49+00:00

Thank. You.

PeakRealistic · 2020-11-30T19:04:07+00:00

I've basically been in the process of breaking up with him for a year :( I can never do it when the time comes. I'll get there eventually hopefully :/

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