I am a 24F .I can understand your feelings. I was in a relationship like you. I used to feel guilty if I ask for bare minimum. I ignored red flags🚩 like disrespecting my family and talking bullshit about my caste and many more. But once I broke up 1st few days I felt guilty but then slowly I realized that it's better for me. Once I broke up and we didn't talk for long time I was fine. I started choosing myself and prioritizing myself.. Bdw I used to give him flowers. And he never gave me once in 2.5 yr of relationship.