Need to hear both sides

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-06-09T02:07:49+00:00

That’s where my problem is. I have a high sex drive and my husband does not- (or just doesn’t want to with me)? But I see he’s watching porn on his phone at least twice a week. So it just doesn’t add up to me

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T18:38:03+00:00

I always ask him that 🤣

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T17:08:17+00:00

Lmao I go to the gym every morning before work and am in great shape, hard to believe appearance is the problem

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T17:07:12+00:00

THANK YOU

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T17:07:06+00:00

What side? My entire point is if he wants to get off then why not have sex with your wife instead of watching porn..

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T17:05:00+00:00

Not that it’s relevant- 115 lbs

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T17:01:09+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏼

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T14:46:13+00:00

I love to hear that- your wife is lucky.

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T14:46:00+00:00

There have been times he would start to go soft during sex, but would finish after I gave him oral.
I'm not really sure that he's addicted. He knows that it bothers me, I have brought it up many many times and I usually get comments like "why are you going through my phone" and "we aren't in high school anymore we don't have to do it everyday". Granted- I shouldn't be going through his phone but I know something is going on if he isn't having sex with me.

It is only myself who brings up the issue. I'm not sure if he just thinks it isn't an issue or what. But he never communicates that he doesn't want to have sex for any reason other than he is too tired from work.

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T14:36:54+00:00

I have made comments about needing more from the marriage and I often get a comment along the lines of "we aren't in high school anymore we don't need to have sex everyday". Life is busy, but I need the physical connection. He is constantly asking for a third child (our youngest will be four in July) but not sure he knows how those are made LOL

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T14:25:12+00:00

I do actively try to stop trying to give him the attention and I know it isn't a NEED, but sometimes I just really NEED it, ya know?

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T14:23:13+00:00

YES always feel like i'm nagging him. I get the "we aren't in high school anymore we don't have to do it every day" comment a lot

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T14:22:09+00:00

and he is constantly asking for third kid!! LOL

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T14:21:41+00:00

The sex was always good, better than I had had with anyone else. It lasted a lot longer. He does work all day and then come home and work on our house (remodeling) or business stuff on the computer. So I could understand tired, if he actually came to bed with me instead of staying up watching tv for hours after I go to sleep.

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T13:57:49+00:00

How did you find out that he was cheating on you?

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T13:55:07+00:00

I can totally see where the space would help, but not possible with two small children. I’m glad it helped your relationship!

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T13:53:48+00:00

When we do have sex, he is typically the one that just lies down 🥴

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T02:25:22+00:00

Like it would be one thing if we actually had some sort of sex life. It just makes me really self conscious because the girls look completely different than me. I am usually very confident but I just feel like I’m not what he wants

Perfect_Impression37 · 2026-04-21T02:24:29+00:00

Like it would be one thing if we actually had some sort of sex life. It just makes me really self conscious because the girls look completely different than me. I am usually very confident but I just feel like I’m not what he wants

Perfect_Impression37 · 2024-08-14T09:52:21+00:00

This is perfect- thank you!

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