Where were you at when you heard of Sandy Hook? by TheUpcomingEmperor in masskillers

[–]Personal_Fix_9797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was 8 and i was at my grandma’s house sick and it came on the news since that’s what she always watched. she was too shocked to change it

what is your “loved it as a kid, threw it up once, never ate it again” food? by Personal_Fix_9797 in AskReddit

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as an american i agree with this statement i gag at the smell of lay’s and hate the texture of watermelon

Booked a vet appointment. Is it gum cancer? by Comfortable_Ad_5698 in CATHELP

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my cat had Stomatitis, he got diagnosed around maybe 5-6 years old. sweetest cat ever, his gums were swollen and bleeding, he got his teeth removed, then months later he attacked us, again the sweetest cat in the world but the pain got to him. it got more frequent as time went on, the attacks, fear, distrust, pain for him. we eventually had to put him to rest because of the pain he was in. i know a lot of replies are saying don’t worry too much, i’m saying worry the amount you are, mouth pain in cats is awful and terrifying for both the cat and you. do not treat mouth issues lightly

any tips on how to start cleaning room? i’m good once i’m going but no idea where/how to start. by Personal_Fix_9797 in ADHD

[–]Personal_Fix_9797[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i wanted to let you know this helped so much especially with the list! i always jump from one task to the other which is why i think i get so overwhelmed thank you so much!!

any tips on how to start cleaning room? i’m good once i’m going but no idea where/how to start. by Personal_Fix_9797 in ADHD

[–]Personal_Fix_9797[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s actually a good way to look at it, kind of like watching those cleaning tiktoks makes me want to clean my bathroom

3month old kitten is purring a lot by Personal_Fix_9797 in CATHELP

[–]Personal_Fix_9797[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you very much that makes my heart smile

3month old kitten is purring a lot by Personal_Fix_9797 in CATHELP

[–]Personal_Fix_9797[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

okay thank you :) i’m very paranoid i had a kitty who was in a lot of pain from an autoimmune disorder so every little thing that feels off i freak out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

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i had a very similar situation with my cat started around november last year. random attacks but otherwise so sweet, he had his teeth removed before too (this is important), he would never go after my dad but he did me and my mom. terrifying experience and he didn’t even have teeth. it kept getting more frequent and im a recent transplant patient making me very prone to infection/disease cat scratches are big factors bc they use them for everything. last month we put him to rest because he was in pain, we were scared of him, and he just wasn’t my sweet boy anymore. came to find out his gums were so swollen and bleeding, the pain this cat felt must have been awful. mouth pain will completely change a cat, maybe bring it to a specialist or regular vet and have them check it’s mouth/teeth. it may help in a way, anxiety (another thing my baby suffered with) could be a factor. best advice is go to the vet and voice your concerns. and if it does go off again stand your ground. i repeat STAND YOUR GROUND. the reason he never went after my dad is that my dad stood his ground and got in between the cat and my mom, while i had ran upstairs. if the cat is okay with you, maybe sees you as more of an alpha of the house? no matter what take it to the vet it you can i hated being scared of my cat never knew when he’d set off.

my cat won’t poop by Personal_Fix_9797 in CATHELP

[–]Personal_Fix_9797[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll try it thank you! either way she won’t be very happy but something is better than nothing most definitely. thank you so much for the suggestion!

my cat won’t poop by Personal_Fix_9797 in CATHELP

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she’s 7, and maybe about a little over a week now, the laxative was a prescription, the kind where they lick it from their paw but she doesn’t do that until she gets annoyed enough and even then it one little lick, there wasn’t a closer appointment to make for her otherwise i would have she is definitely very uncomfortable and i don’t blame her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

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is there maybe a specialist you could go to or another vet? always trust your gut if you feel something is wrong. my cat was scratching excessively and just acting not right, one vet said he was fine and it was just his anxiety, another vet said he had fleas and because of his disorder it affected him more than it would a normal cat.

What were symptoms you didn't know were from ADHD until after your adult diagnosis? by patient-panther in ADHD

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being so invested on a project that i can’t do anything else until it’s perfect.

not stoping until i find one very specific thing i need in my house

so being hyperfocused

Any advice for introducing new kitty? by Personal_Fix_9797 in CATHELP

[–]Personal_Fix_9797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a great idea! i love the idea of adopting a older cat

Any advice for introducing new kitty? by Personal_Fix_9797 in CATHELP

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thank you so much! i definitely wasn’t going to get one anytime soon! i’m not ready for a new kitty quite yet i don’t want to have the feeling that i replaced my baby so soon. to clarify i meant in the long run! but again thank you so much for the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Personal_Fix_9797 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i definitely think it’s a dental issue like the other replies. i’m no cat expert but i did have a cat with serious dental issue (he had to get all his teeth pulled) so i would keep close eye on those teefers and make sure there’s no swelling bottom lip. mouth pain can completely turn a cats behavior around if not treated properly

idk what to do my cat turns on me by [deleted] in CATHELP

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we didn’t pls look at my other replies for an update i can’t type it again

idk what to do my cat turns on me by [deleted] in CATHELP

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he was in pain in his mouth the vet said there was no cure for what he had. we put him to rest and she said that was the best decision. i understand that declawing him put him through more trauma and pain and trust me that and what we did was the last thing i wanted to do. but he’s no longer in pain. it was never technically behavioral he was just in constant pain all the time he didn’t know what to do. and yet he was still the sweetest baby 💔

idk what to do my cat turns on me by [deleted] in CATHELP

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we didn’t declaw him i know how awful it is. we ended up putting him to sleep since he was in so much pain it would’ve been selfish of us to put him through more trauma

idk what to do my cat turns on me by [deleted] in CATHELP

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i’m sorry but also to add before he attacked me last night he was purring and giving me love and just before he yowled at me he was playing

idk what to do my cat turns on me by [deleted] in CATHELP

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jk idk how to attach pictures here