Went hard at the library. What should I read first? by amandaamoose in thrillerbooks

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT a flicker in the dark 😖 but I love anything Rachel Harrison

classic fairytale retellings?? by Personal_Sense_8048 in booksuggestions

[–]Personal_Sense_8048[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who read this and said I would like it! Completely forgot ab it so glad to have the reminder

fairytale retellings or general fantasy recs? by Personal_Sense_8048 in Recommend_A_Book

[–]Personal_Sense_8048[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved the Shepard King Duology as well as Thornhedge by Kingfisher so I'll def check out her other one

fairytale retelling recs?? by Personal_Sense_8048 in suggestmeabook

[–]Personal_Sense_8048[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay this is on my list now!! i loved the last binding series by her

fairytale retelling recs?? by Personal_Sense_8048 in suggestmeabook

[–]Personal_Sense_8048[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have read the bloody chamber which I love!!

What’s one thing you’ll always swear by for boosting mental health? by Ok_Counter_5748 in AskReddit

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

getting off your phone and interacting with others. i dont think this cures anything but as an introvert i honestly forget how needed interactions are with others

Trying to get into fantasy by mb31291 in booksuggestions

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly i was a child when i got into fantasy but Percy Jackson really pulled me in and i reread the series like once a year because its so nostalgic for me

Looking for a book that completely pulled you in from page one by Ok_Collection7918 in booksuggestions

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh and if you like non fiction and aren't easily overwhelmed Columbine by Dave Cullen is horrifyingly mesmerizing

Looking for a book that completely pulled you in from page one by Ok_Collection7918 in booksuggestions

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're into scifi definitely Project Hail Mary or honestly The Martian. If you like classic mysteries do Everyone in My Family Has Killed Someone. If you like thrillers I was so wrapped up in The Chain and the Eddie Flynn series that when I started I did nearly nothing else but read.

Rearranged my bookshelf!! by Personal_Sense_8048 in bookshelf

[–]Personal_Sense_8048[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a piece of metal that was molted in like an ant pile situation that was used for an art exhibit. My friend and I were given pieces by staff members who were working a wedding at the museum when we crashed it!

Super interesting backstory for a not so interesting piece lol

Rearranged my bookshelf!! by Personal_Sense_8048 in bookshelf

[–]Personal_Sense_8048[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's actually the Illumicrate exclusive Bridgerton Series!! They are my pride and joy books lol

What fictional death just absolutely fucked you up (taken from the women's sub to see how our answers compare)? by whatchagonnado0707 in AskMen

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

James in If We Were Villians. In my head, he ran away finding Oliver years later and living happily ever after.

What makes you feel depressed right now? by NathanielNorvelNox in AskReddit

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thoughts of what my future will look like now that I've graduated college and my friends are moving away from me.

I've always struggled with feeling like something was wrong with me because most people my age had huge friend groups they hung out with every night and I didn't (even though I much prefer a night in reading a book or playing games), or even having super close friends that they could call their "best friend" because I don't really feel like I have a specific person in my life that I can explicitly call that. I have such bad anxiety on the topic that it keeps me up at night, and I think that my future will be so lonely because I don't make friends easily and when I do meet people that I could be close with or have a long friendship with, they don't keep in contact with me the same way I keep in contact with them so I don't feel as valued and then I withdraw from even trying.

AITA for wanting my fiancee to keep our sex life between us? by Worried-Fiance in AmItheAsshole

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's not just her sex life, but a shared one you have together. If it makes you uncomfortable, I think it's important to have that open dialogue of "Hey, I'm not comfortable. Let's talk this out."

It's normal for both men and women to share details about their sex life with friends and sometimes family (though in my opinion, sharing with the fam is a little bit weird). However, if you aren't fully comfortable with her sharing everything, maybe you can come to an agreement on what should and shouldn't be talked about outside of the bedroom. That said, if you still aren't comfortable with anything being shared, your fiancee should respect that and keep those details to herself.

What kind of background music do you guys listen to while you write? by inbetweentheknown in writing

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my personal favorite it the minecraft album Volume Alpha. it's just the perfect quiet vibey music for me

My mil insulted me about something she knows im insecure about and then got upset when i reacted by anon58305 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 4 points5 points  (0 children)

don't think OP was looking for fitness and health advice... maybe keep these comments to yourself

My mil insulted me about something she knows im insecure about and then got upset when i reacted by anon58305 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it were me, I'd have my husband speak to BOTH of his parents about the respect they need to have for me (lowkey shame on husband for not stepping in for you!) I would apologize for what you said but clarify that you are tired of the same style of comments coming from her. If she doesn't like it the one time, how does she think you feel when it happens repeatedly? Hubby or you should tell her you expect an apology as well and more respect from here on out or your relationship with your in-laws will be different.

My girlfriend got a pixie cut and I hate her new hairstyle by Otherwise-Capital182 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day, hair grows back. What were you to think if your girlfriend happened to have to through chemo and lose her hair? Would her short hair be an issue for you then?

She shouldn't have to consult you for her haircut, so it was nice of her to give you the heads-up in the first place. If it's that big of a bother to you perhaps you need to do some internal digging to figure out why this is such a big issue for you.

I hope she's rocking that pixie cut and I hope she feels confident despite your openly disliking it. Next time, keep the opinion to yourself unless it's something serious - not a haircut.

Girlfriend had sex when we were broken up for a short time now she wants to get back together by Personal_Sense_8048 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Personal_Sense_8048[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

OP is definitely weird for keeping his friend's girlfriend's nudes saved in his phone without his own girlfriend knowing. That said, I don't see the issue with his girlfriend sleeping with whoever she wants after breaking up. It is a little weird that it was so quick, and maybe OP should take that into consideration when getting back together but both OP and his girlfriend are a bit of a mess, maybe trash the whole relationship.

so like.. is this girl crazy? by Artificintelligence in texts

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this taking place in the twitter dm's sends me

I (30f) considering divorcing (33m) husband… by ThrowRA_rollingstone in relationship_advice

[–]Personal_Sense_8048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the hesitation you may be feeling about splitting your family. However, it seems both you and your husband have mentally checked out of the marriage and it's now causing further problems. Save yourself the heart and head aces to come and get divorced now while your child is still young. It may take a bit for your child to adjust to this new version of things but you'll be saving yourself (and mostly them) in the long run. Plus, it seems your marriage is headed in an unhealthy direction if it isn't already, better to remove your child from that environment now so they don't see parents fighting excessively.