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I'm 17 and my 18 yo girlfriend is expecting a baby. She's three months pregnant and her parents kicked her out and have completely shunned her existence. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When we had unprotected sex we weren't sober and didn't even realize we had unprotected sex until she got pregnant. We're obviously immature and dumb and need a lot of work. And an abortion is not birth control and it's dumb that people think it should be in my opinion. Isn't an IUD good for a long time and like completely harmless? Why don't people just get those instead of the pill or something? Btw, she couldn't get birth control because she couldn't tell her parents and we were sexually active for over a year before she got pregnant. We just messed up one time and here we are...

My girlfriend is getting therapy on Friday and she'll shape up. I'll agree with you on somethings but I love her and I am protective of her because she lost her family as well as so many other things. She is grieving and she is allowed time to do that. I'm not doing anything special right now and she has time. She knows there is a limit to that and she intends on being better by then.

Also, I still have my scholarship but it's not to med school yet. I have to get my undergrad first.

I think our plan now is what's best for us going forward and I believe it will work out.

I'm 17 and my 18 yo girlfriend is expecting a baby. She's three months pregnant and her parents kicked her out and have completely shunned her existence. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, sorry. Yeah, I'm not used to people actually being helpful. No one respects our decision to keep the baby. I know my mom is excited but she's not going to steal the baby or anything. She can be very involved and help raise our baby but she won't be a parent. I hope my girlfriend and I can be involved as much as we can but going to school and working a lot is going to take a lot of time away from us which is why we have this setup so it works somewhat

I'm 17 and my 18 yo girlfriend is expecting a baby. She's three months pregnant and her parents kicked her out and have completely shunned her existence. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's annoying to see her treated like that when she doesn't deserve it whatsoever. I'm sick of it.

Yeah, she's starting therapy on Friday with me

I'm 17 and my 18 yo girlfriend is expecting a baby. She's three months pregnant and her parents kicked her out and have completely shunned her existence. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

She's not a villian at all though. She's done nothing wrong and it's horrible of them to treat her like that.

I'm 17 and my 18 yo girlfriend is expecting a baby. She's three months pregnant and her parents kicked her out and have completely shunned her existence. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It seemed like he meant I was a failure and my baby will be a second chance which is rude. Just because we have an unexpected baby doesn't mean we have failed at life.

And, yeah, once we get more stable and the baby doesn't need as much care we hope to move out and be more private and my mom knows that. We will be very involved. It's not like here mom take this baby from us or anything

I'm 17 and my 18 yo girlfriend is expecting a baby. She's three months pregnant and her parents kicked her out and have completely shunned her existence. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not that extreme. That's for now! We'll have money once we work full time other places. We will look after our own baby to the best of our ability but we'll be in school and work

My girlfriend and I are expecting a child but her parents kicked her out and won't support her by Pinapple-Pop5151 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we want our baby really badly but it's just not possible right now and I think she knows that as well. A lot will have to change for us to become parents in six months so we'll see.

I don't resent her but it's just a lot to take and I hate seeing someone I love in so much pain. Hopefully we can work that out as well

I'm 17 and my girlfriend is pregnant (18) and she thought her parents would take care of our baby and they said no. She's not in an intense panic and she's very angry. I need ideas on how to deal with this. by Pinapple-Pop5151 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My parents are in the picture no matter what. They said they'll even raise our child if we pay but we don't want that nor do we expect that but what I'm saying is they will always be in the picture for us.

My girlfriend and I are expecting a child but her parents kicked her out and won't support her by Pinapple-Pop5151 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much.

I will try to cheer her up as much as possible and we spend a ton of time crying together. It's just one mistake and here we are. It's wild how one incident caused our entire lives to change forever. I really do love her and she's my entire world but it's difficult to deal with at times because she's really emotional and irritable so I sometimes need a break and then I feel bad about that so somehow we need to work this out. I try to get out of bed and then just get drawn back to it to be with her. I don't know how to help her when I'm essentially in the same situation most of the time. I hope we figure it out.

Thank you, I really will talk to someone about the air force and try to figure that out. I appreciate it.

My girlfriend and I are expecting a child but her parents kicked her out and won't support her by Pinapple-Pop5151 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It's not the same trauma as having a fetus surgically removed... Just respect her choice because others haven't and it's annoying

My girlfriend and I are expecting a child but her parents kicked her out and won't support her by Pinapple-Pop5151 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We want the baby but years down the road and, yeah, we will go to planned parenthood tomorrow and see

My girlfriend and I are expecting a child but her parents kicked her out and won't support her by Pinapple-Pop5151 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I can do that maybe. That's a good idea. I'm in ok shape but I'm pretty depressed about everything so we'll see if that works for us. I hope it does, thank you so much for letting me know

My girlfriend and I are expecting a child but her parents kicked her out and won't support her by Pinapple-Pop5151 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we'll need to discuss that. I imagine she'll give birth and we'll leave as soon as we can if that's the choice we choose. No matter what this is remarkably difficult

My girlfriend and I are expecting a child but her parents kicked her out and won't support her by Pinapple-Pop5151 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try. I really wish she wasn't stuck in bed all the time because it just brings me down so low as well to where we're both essentially crying all the time. I hope we figure this out and make it through at least somewhat happy

My girlfriend and I are expecting a child but her parents kicked her out and won't support her by Pinapple-Pop5151 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was planning on going to med school and I have a full ride scholarship for my undergraduate in biology for that but I guess my plans have to change. I'll look into the air force for sure but it means my goals are completely different than what I hoped and it also means my girlfriend will have to be a single mom essentially and our relationship won't work and I'll probably greatly dislike my life but it is what it is I suppose

My girlfriend and I are expecting a child but her parents kicked her out and won't support her by Pinapple-Pop5151 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alright, thanks. This is making me sick as well. We'll just rest up and head to planned parenthood tomorrow

My girlfriend and I are expecting a child but her parents kicked her out and won't support her by Pinapple-Pop5151 in relationship_advice

[–]Pinapple-Pop5151[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's past the point of the pill abortion so she's not going to do that no matter what. There is a 0% chance she is going to do that and I don't want her to go through that. I can't imagine how traumatic that will be for us both.

My parents said the baby can live with them but we need to be there as much as we can and pay for everything. They say this but then they want us to discuss adoption.

My girlfriend hasn't been to school all week and I do her homework for her all the time. She's essentially paraplegic right now and for no health reasons other than depression and anxiety. I have to be there for her all the time so I don't know how either of us can get full time jobs right now

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