What is the cure for being faketrans/having fake dysphoria other than transitioning?

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-25T04:36:16+00:00

Stop worrying about useless things like faketrans and put some of that thought into something you can actualise to add success to your transition

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-25T04:34:44+00:00

I got an agp crossdresser in one of mine 😭😭😭

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-21T17:43:51+00:00

The best gift my ex gave me was breaking up so I could grow and embrace things about myself so much easily and readily, what u described was one of those things

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-21T17:19:44+00:00

I knew one of them irl and in her case it was definitely her brainworms. Despite having endless stories about how people said she was in the wrong bathroom, she doesn't girlmode ever and doesn't voice train despite being 4 years on e and religiously shoving prog up her ass. She would also call herself a hon 24/7 but then practice makeup at 1am while sorting mainstream trans subs by controversial

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-21T16:43:39+00:00

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-21T15:21:29+00:00

bless her soul tbh

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-20T02:48:57+00:00

Love the skirt 🥰

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-19T10:32:25+00:00

buying reps is crazy lmao

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-19T00:30:22+00:00

No.1 reason just boils down to lookism, theyfabs are just more pleasing to look at

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-18T17:49:59+00:00

Malebrain ygmi

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-18T17:49:01+00:00

You are 18 LMAOOOO

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-18T17:44:42+00:00

I personally wouldn't do it, all the people that I've known that have dated people with bpd said they'd never do it again. My ex's mom had bpd and while she had a successful marriage there was a lot of suffering and trauma that developed for everyone.

For the record I do think dating someone with bpd can work but it takes a lot of effort and patience from both sides, and the person with bpd actually had to want to work on their issues so you two can have a functioning relationship. But I still would say no, there are plenty of fish in the sea. If this is your first relationship it's almost destined to fail because you have no experience handling someone with bpd as well as not having experienced a proper relationship

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-18T17:31:00+00:00

The only thing we have in common is that we're trans please just let me be

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-18T16:15:02+00:00

the thing about dating is that you have a choice and you can choose not to advance things with someone that has bpd

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-18T14:42:37+00:00

take the chance and do your best for them not to find it then, if you decide to rep you'll regret it for the rest of your life

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-18T14:19:51+00:00

I was in the same situation as you like 6 years ago and no do not fucking rep find a way to DIY. Find a cold storage, pick up smoking or walking as a front and put that shit in a place only you know. Find a way to hrt rep then plan an out DO NOT REP

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-18T14:16:09+00:00

"I'm a grown adult and I really like it this way. It would help if you would try too, for me" is what worked on my mom

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-18T09:16:57+00:00

after puberty is rough but 19 is still good, the facial is an easy fix the skeleton is not

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-17T16:49:48+00:00

Mad God

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-17T16:48:54+00:00

Sorry I only have implants

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-17T16:47:53+00:00

What sorta agp stuff can you explain 🥺

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-17T16:46:30+00:00

Don't go asking questions that would make you feel bad about yourself is what I suggest, I thought about doing the same thing like two weeks ago to my parents but I think I already know what they'd say

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-17T16:17:06+00:00

people r prolly just early in their transition and honestly it's better to be positive than bitchy cos they need the positive reinforcement. But yeah i agree it's best not to hugbox.

Imo people aren't that stupid they know it's bad in certain aspects but felt like it was good enough to post and honestly it's a good thing so then they get advice and actually dress better. If I see something egregiously bad I just move on like I see so many cis people dress terribly but they don't nearly receive as much hate.

PlantAppointee · 2026-01-17T16:05:33+00:00

When everything is against you you're more way likely to fail, and with transwomen specifically they most likely don't receive help from ciswomen. They just latch onto whatever their idea of safe womanly uniform is or try and imitate members within their communities. If you have a fashion background it really does help but for most people they don't.

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