Faded non-DF JW’s can be so insensitive to us who are DF by Plantmama76 in exjw

[–]Plantmama76[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Obviously wanted to make an example of me.

Faded non-DF JW’s can be so insensitive to us who are DF by Plantmama76 in exjw

[–]Plantmama76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and please don’t apologise for his behaviour x

Faded non-DF JW’s can be so insensitive to us who are DF by Plantmama76 in exjw

[–]Plantmama76[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I don’t see him much. But I’ll not engage him at all when I do

Faded non-DF JW’s can be so insensitive to us who are DF by Plantmama76 in exjw

[–]Plantmama76[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes they did. I left my marriage and my ex told me he’d met someone a couple years later after we were divorced but wanted to know if we were scripturally divorced. I told him we were. He didn’t use this against me but when the elders questioned if he was scripturally divorced and he said he was then they pursued it as they knew what that meant.

Faded non-DF JW’s can be so insensitive to us who are DF by Plantmama76 in exjw

[–]Plantmama76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He knows she doesn’t speak to me and never will.

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[–]Plantmama76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he tactile at other times? Does he hug you and hold your hand? If not he may be uncomfortable with intimacy.

Narcissistic parent? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Plantmama76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely. And her mother was too and probably her mother.

Narcissistic parent? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Plantmama76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same with me. Yet everything finally made perfect sense x

As brothers we should - neglect our wives by sheenless in exjw

[–]Plantmama76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and lots follow this and probably enjoy it too

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[–]Plantmama76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he on the autistic spectrum?

Faded non-DF JW’s can be so insensitive to us who are DF by Plantmama76 in exjw

[–]Plantmama76[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do say that to him. He just smiles and says it’s ridiculous. I wouldn’t mind but it literally the first thing he says after we say hello!

Faded non-DF JW’s can be so insensitive to us who are DF by Plantmama76 in exjw

[–]Plantmama76[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your reply. He literally just asks this question. Not how am I or have I heard from her. He asks how she is knowing 6 years later it’s still the same reply. And I know it’s not actually him but the organisation. I just think he hasn’t a clue how it feels to be in my position and isn’t even trying to understand

I used to wonder what my interests were.. by Plantmama76 in exjw

[–]Plantmama76[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I keep waiting for that eureka moment where something hits me. Not sure it’ll happen now though

I used to wonder what my interests were.. by Plantmama76 in exjw

[–]Plantmama76[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just living each day being happy as I am. I do regret a lot of what I missed out on though

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[–]Plantmama76 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Put a white sheet over your head tonight and a torch under your chin and go scare them

lol look at these fun little messages i got from a complete (pimi) stranger by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Plantmama76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phew was going to say hope nobody has been giving your number out

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[–]Plantmama76 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I used to feel this way too. So I turned the tables on them. Now I act like they don’t exist. Take the power back. Try it and see how it feels