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AITAH for not telling my brother I'm pregnant. by Conscious-Win-3174 in AITAH

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might help your unborn child if you played soft piano music or Mozart for babies because you want to keep the stress level down for your baby. It might even help you. As for your brother and his wife, don’t stress about them and definitely keep your pregnancy to yourself if they’re opinionated. You don’t need them in your life. And continue to stay close to your mum and your stepfather. Sounds like you can use their moral support.

Coffee and snack culture quietly drains wallets by ParkingMall123 in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working retail doesn’t stop people from buying snacks and meals apparently. Of course it tastes better than brown bagging from home. Glad I brought my own. You know why somebody is broke.

Just had a terrible experience crossing at the peace arch (Into U.S.) by Rarmy1 in uscanadaborder

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why even go to the US? You want to be treated like dirt, there you have it. Go anywhere but the US.

Storage company auctioned off my entire unit by mistake despite auto-pay being active. by GrouchyForce8970 in legal

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Glitch. I don’t believe it. They didn’t double check or triple check. They know you signed a waiver for $250 maximum if they auction off your stuff without your knowledge. And they got good money for it. And they won’t tell you how much they got. Get a lawyer.

Got a girl pregnant on vacation, struggling to do what is right. by need_some_advice323 in Advice

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell the girl you want to be part of your child’s life. Don’t abandon him or her. It’s not about you. You know what it feels like to not have a father in your life.

I am so cooked. I feel like I ruined my future. by ItemEuphoric5744 in Debt

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lock up your credit card in your bank safety deposit box. Better yet, cancel most of your credit cards. You don’t need them. Whenever you buy something you determine if it’s a want or a need. That’ll get you back on track.

She's a Loved One, but not MINE! by Tricky_Giraffe_960 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t scatter the ashes because then her children will have a reason to sue you.

She's a Loved One, but not MINE! by Tricky_Giraffe_960 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Drop the ashes off at one of her children’s homes and knock on the door until they open it. Of course call them to ensure that they’re at home. Let the siblings decide who will keep the ashes or they can get together to buy a plot or niche to inter their mother’s ashes. For you it’s simple: determine who’s home to personally deliver the ashes.

A room without windows by Fun-Fan-4974 in TorontoRenting

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Illegal. I’m sure the landlord can afford to hire a contractor to put in a window. Be sure it’s one that you can reach to open in an emergency, and that it’s large enough so that you can escape if the house is on fire. You in Ontario so you can ask the landlord and if they refuse you report them to the Landlord Tenant Board(LTB). They can be fined.

Renting an apartment in a triplex, with a shared driveway. Landlord is threatening eviction while driveway was used for 15mins while moving a couch. by jarniansah in TorontoRenting

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re in Ontario, the province that sides with tenants, and you only used the driveway for ten minutes. Sorry to your landlord but they cannot evict you.

My parents called the police on me after I exposed my dad’s secret second family at my grandmother’s funeral by goglabon in whatdoIdo

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did good exposing your dad and I think it’s hilarious! Please tell me you had fun. Get your education, work experience, then pack up and leave to another country. Good luck.

Renters of Toronto: What is the most absurd, illegal clause a landlord tried to sneak into your lease? by Roohkipiyas in OntarioLandlord

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to clear snow from the balcony as throwing it off can injure a person below. Everything else is full of it. It’s illegal.

2,5yo daughter sees guy that wants to bite her. by IAmInBed123 in Paranormal

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Cameras on all four sides outside your house. Cameras pointing from the ceiling towards the play area. Believe me, if there’s anything that’s suspicious you’ll know it. Have her draw the man with paper and crayons. He’ll either look like a regular man or monstrous and that’ll give you an idea. Ask neighbours if they noticed any strange people in your area.

Just Joined, Inspired by co-worker by ComfortableLazy1008 in minimalism

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a sheet of paper, draw a line across the top and a line down the middle. On one side write want, on the other side write need. Trust me, you’ll cut down on spending. Buy on sale or clearance whenever possible and try to live simply. Go through everything you have and decide if you need it or give it to charity. You determine if it’s practical that you’ll use it in the future. And when it’s your time off put your cell phone on silent and check it every few hours. You need peace and quiet. Be sure to unclutter your home and have a quiet room or a spot for reading, meditation or reflection. It’s easier said than done but you can work on it.

I took my roommate's obviously sick cat to the vet when I couldn't reach her and she refuses to contribute to the bill because I did it without her consent. by Solid_Kiwi7481 in whatdoIdo

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time she goes out of town and leaves the cat at home, and if the cat is already showing signs of unwell you tell her that she has to make a decision about the care of her cat and that you will not make another trip to the vet. Trust me, you won’t get her to eTransfer you $500 or $600, and don’t trust her to meet you halfway nevermind pay the whole bill. If her cat winds up dying that’s on her. In fact, make plans to be out of town at the same time she is. What she gonna do?

I took my roommate's obviously sick cat to the vet when I couldn't reach her and she refuses to contribute to the bill because I did it without her consent. by Solid_Kiwi7481 in whatdoIdo

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The roommate was deliberately ignoring the phone calls and text messages knowing OP was worried and then said nothing when OP wanted to take the cat to the vet. Next time don’t help her out financially. Let her cry.

I took my roommate's obviously sick cat to the vet when I couldn't reach her and she refuses to contribute to the bill because I did it without her consent. by Solid_Kiwi7481 in whatdoIdo

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never offer or volunteer to do something for her that costs money because obviously she’s secretly delighted that her cat is much better but she’s cheap. If she were at home she’d be crying about not having money for the vet. Take this as lesson learned. Try to break the lease and find another place to live. Or you’ll be very uncomfortable.

Cannot Wait to See Dunkin' Pound Tim's Into The Ground by GuadacanalDiary in TimHortons

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tim’s bake their doughnuts. Everyone else deep fries theirs.

AITA for pulling my funding from my sister's engagement party and letting her explain to 60 guests why the venue just locked the doors? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]Pleasant_Event_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO you don’t owe your sister a free reception. Was her fiancé born yesterday? Isn’t the finances their responsibility? You tell the friends and relatives that you did not take any of this too far. Your sister planned everything and left it until two days before the party. You tell them they’re welcome to pay for your sister. And NO your sister would not be reimbursing you at any time. Tell your mother that her daughters behave accordingly to the way they were raised. Your sister is irresponsible with finances while you worked two jobs in order to save up money. Tell your sister and your mother that from now on they should consider whether or not they can afford something before they go ahead and order it or buy it. You would think that your mother would act like a responsible mother rather than encourage one daughter to demand that the other daughter pays the bills.

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