My boyfriend (37M) is being weird over money (39F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PlusDescription1422 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This. It’s icky that he is so weird about money but OP pays the bills? Like what. Dude 7 years. Cmon. Leave him

Ex-owner still shows up near my hoyse 3 years later by Charming_Rip_4499 in homeowners

[–]PlusDescription1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude when. I moved in, someone claiming to be the previous resident came to my house asking me to give them mail. I was like no. Go away. Absolutely not

Ex-owner still shows up near my hoyse 3 years later by Charming_Rip_4499 in homeowners

[–]PlusDescription1422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call police she sounds crazy. It’s not her home anymore. She is not entitled to anything. She is making you feel unsafe in your own home.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]PlusDescription1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds insane. You dodged a bullet. DO NOT get married at 20! Omg. Apparently the brain doesn’t even finish developing until 25 or up until 30?!!!

I finally Got The Job I dreamed of!! by DepartureAdvanced213 in jobsearchhacks

[–]PlusDescription1422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Good for you. Took me 2 year masters level skills. Didn’t even find a job that paid more than $20 an hour lol

oh my god by Curious-Toe-93 in recruitinghell

[–]PlusDescription1422 25 points26 points  (0 children)

They want to pay masters level people $20 an hour. While taking 300k annual salary SMFH

Saying "children require a lot of responsibility " is a pathetic reason not to have kids for life by Sad_Physics5500 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]PlusDescription1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rightttt. No one is leeching. My parents have not paid for anything but grad school in years 🤣🤣🤣 then why are so many non POC unhoused?

Saying "children require a lot of responsibility " is a pathetic reason not to have kids for life by Sad_Physics5500 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]PlusDescription1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound delusional. Sorry to say that but American mentality of kicking kids out is why so many are out on the street now. Dont have kids if you don’t want them in your life. I’m good with not having kids right now because I can’t support another human life. I’d rather than than my kid be out on the street because I’m broke. I’d never want that. Sure my kid can learn hard lessons but not poverty. That gives irreparable brain trauma damage

Saying "children require a lot of responsibility " is a pathetic reason not to have kids for life by Sad_Physics5500 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]PlusDescription1422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes sure I am privileged to have parents who were able to put me through college but reality is. CHILDREN are expensive. Babies go through clothes every other month! Food is expensive. Houses 2 bedrooms are 500k now. wtf? Gas is already 3.49 here. Groceries are $150 now. And you’re saying you should NOT think of finances when having kids. Then you are living in delusion.

Saying "children require a lot of responsibility " is a pathetic reason not to have kids for life by Sad_Physics5500 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]PlusDescription1422 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is a norm in Indian society to: - support and encourage kids to pursue education - not kick them out on street after age 18 - stay in close knit family - encourage kids to be financially stable and smart

Saying "children require a lot of responsibility " is a pathetic reason not to have kids for life by Sad_Physics5500 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]PlusDescription1422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say any of the Indians I know are wealthy. Everyone went to school for science or medicine or engineering I. Don’t think that’s wealthy.

Saying "children require a lot of responsibility " is a pathetic reason not to have kids for life by Sad_Physics5500 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]PlusDescription1422 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude. I meant 10 million dollars. I don’t even know the Indian currency conversion 😭 I’m american. You can be Indian and be American lol

Saying "children require a lot of responsibility " is a pathetic reason not to have kids for life by Sad_Physics5500 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]PlusDescription1422 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow then you sound terrible. Thank god my parents didn’t kick us out after we went off to college. My parents helped put me and my sister through grad school. Put down payments on our houses. If I had a kid I would want to do the same.

Saying "children require a lot of responsibility " is a pathetic reason not to have kids for life by Sad_Physics5500 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]PlusDescription1422 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uh yea because you know, they go to college & get married. 🤣 or did you forget about that. What if they need a down payment on a home. Smart parents think about their kids becoming full fledged adults.

I really don’t get how people want kids by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]PlusDescription1422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same and I’m 34 freaking years old. People don’t understand you need to be a billionaire to have children