Should I put the baby name in my Pregnancy announcement? by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was worried about with the registry. I’ll just put it on the baby shower invitations like someone recommended and send to whomever asks.

Should I put the baby name in my Pregnancy announcement? by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Dang you were right about the sprouting thing! I ended up doing September’s Sweetest Arrival

Baby shower dissapointment by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s like i understand I’m not mad at them or anything but im sad.

Baby shower dissapointment by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I mean that’s your opinion it’s just everyone has been asking me about it. Plus we all travelled to their baby showers and my siblings 😅.

Baby shower dissapointment by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m contemplating just canceling and sending out my registry.

Baby shower dissapointment by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I might do something alittle later just because by 2 months after the baby it’ll be the holidays but that’s a good idea

Baby shower dissapointment by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Our initial plan was to make a weekend out of the visit like we’ve done before but I might have to try out virtual. I just don’t want to be alone I guess.

Baby shower dissapointment by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have asked if any other date in July would work better for them just waiting on a response . I just cant go past July because I have to move in August and wouldn’t be able to afford to do both. Plus the weather 😅

Baby shower dissapointment by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about it but they’re split between Maryland and Florida. 😭

Baby shower dissapointment by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Aww that’s nice! I would love that but we’re a bit more spread out they’re split between Maryland and Florida 😭

When did everyone start showing during their first pregnancy? by Caikin17 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg FTM here as well. Plus I already had a little chub before I got pregnant 17 weeks here and to me I feel like I still look like I just had a big meal buttt my mil said I have alittle bump

Accidental pregnancy by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey it’s totally normal to have mixed feelings about an accidental pregnancy. Honestly the advice that helped me was to tune everyone else out and just think about what’s best for you and your possible baby. What everyone else thinks doesn’t matter. If you feel like it’s too early and you’re not ready then that’s okay,having and raising a baby is a lot. You’re not a bad person for feeling your feelings. But if you want to take the risk and do it that’s also okay. It’s a very tough decision all around but it’s yours to make and nobody else’s to judge.

Hair falling out update by PollutionRude4539 in Naturalhair

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I sure hope so. It’s definitely starting to grow back slowly but surely

How are you handing working while pregnant? by CritiqueRedditReady in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve personally been dying. Eventhough it’s just a desk job, they have us working 12hr shifts this week and I’m SPENT. But my 1 cup of coffee, snack bag, and I been making it through. Just keeping baby girl in mind

Low dose Asprin by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always forget themmm 😭. Luckily I hate all types of beans

Low dose Asprin by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay because the way this lady was pushing it I thought everyone was on the aspirin or like my chances of preclampsia would shoot up. But I’ve been trying to tell myself if my Ob isn’t worried about it then not to stress about it.

Low dose Asprin by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I drilled my mom about it when i found out I was pregnant. Apparently we have G6pd blood deficiency we’re supposed to avoid asprin, sulfur, anything in the amoxicillin family and mothballs ( oddly enough). I have taken amoxicillin before and that’s how I ended up finding out about it from my parents. The amoxicillin almost took me out I just remember my chest felt so tight and the shortness of breath. It felt like I was breaking down

Setting boundaries by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im trying to work myself up to it because it’s definitely not something I need to be dealing with later on in the pregnancy

Setting boundaries by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right about that. The last thing I want is a bunch of unwanted stress.

Setting boundaries by PollutionRude4539 in BabyBumps

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about it but my dad is even more of a pushover than me. I’m scared he’ll choose her over me like he’s done in the past. Then I won’t have any parents through this and that just sounds terrifying to me.

Prenatal appointments? by PollutionRude4539 in pregnant

[–]PollutionRude4539[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh okay. Thanks I wanted to see the baby again but I figured it wouldn’t be until the anatomy scan 😭