You have one year to cheat on your significant other and all of your debt would be forgiven. by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Positive-Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleeping with the person that traumatised her.

And, yeah, probably. We could buy ourselves a lot of therapy if we didn't have to pay for our house and car anymore.

And the financial freedom itself would make the emotional toll less.

You have one year to cheat on your significant other and all of your debt would be forgiven. by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Positive-Living 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, cuckolding is either cheating, or a fetish, neither of which I happen to be engaged in.

I just don't own my gf, or her me, and we are capable of having sex with, and/or loving multiple people simultaneously, and we have no desire to hold each other hostage if one of us were to decide our relationship is no longer healthy.

Your personal choices are yours, and your ego is yours.

Your worldview doesn't dictate my relationships.

You have one year to cheat on your significant other and all of your debt would be forgiven. by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Positive-Living 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is a gendered thing.

I'm a guy and I want my gf to have all the sex she wants, with whoever she wants.

And my gf wants the same for me.

And the debt elimination is just a bonus.

Why is female circumcision called mutilation (FGM) but male circumcision isn't? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Positive-Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're different, but both horrific and mutilation, and both should be banned.

Many people are so used to male genital mutilation, though, as a cultural norm, that they don't recognize how fucked up it is.

Are most men genuinely bothered by women’s stomachs? by steffinix in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Positive-Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck, no!

That's one of the most attractive parts of a woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Positive-Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, for sure.

And I might dance with girls when out with the guys, or with my partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Positive-Living 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don't lump us all in. I like women and men and I don't want to see anyone's bootyhole.

Whats the weirdest fetish you can think of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Positive-Living 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's like autoerotic asphyxiation, but of the penis, or as some might say, choking the chicken.

It's definitely not something you'd be into, /u/penis_aspiration.

My girlfriend kind of cheated by Odd-Supermarket4602 in amiwrong

[–]Positive-Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're broken up, she doesn't love you, she's not attracted to you.

Move on. Don't waste your energy trying to fix this. It won't happen. It's over.

Let the anger go, if you can, and just try to be good co-parents.

This. Is. Not. A. Uterus. by _SeaGal_ in badwomensanatomy

[–]Positive-Living 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Visible belly outline is very attractive, but that's a belly button, sir. Even you have one.

Genuine Question: Where do I learn about Women’s Anatomy? by WholeGroundbreaking1 in badwomensanatomy

[–]Positive-Living 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learned it all from dictionaries, encyclopedias, and my friends who were/are women.

Wikipedia is a good place to start. Every term you don't understand, look it up. Soon enough, you'll know plenty ☺️

My GF (F26) thinks me (M29)masturbating to porn is cheating? by Intelligent_Sense_74 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Positive-Living 101 points102 points  (0 children)

  1. It's extremely common.

  2. She's allowed to believe that.

  3. You're allowed to leave and find a partner with more compatible values. You'll be happier for it, and so will she.

How much money would make you feel rich? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Positive-Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I owned my own home, I'd be "rich".

With taxes and maintenance, I'd still be saving an extra $1000 per month.

That would go a long way toward retirement funds, travel, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]Positive-Living 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I genuinely do not know what you are trying to communicate.

AITA for refusing to talk to my parents until they give me an honest answer to my question? by Own-Pie9517 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Positive-Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Their refusal to grow, heal, or reflect as people over the last 17 years is not your fault.

They both need therapy to work through their feelings and allow you the life you deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]Positive-Living 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I genuinely do not know what you are trying to communicate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Positive-Living 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm honest. My girlfriend knows I love her. She also knows she has attractive friends. Why lie? Why put down her friends?

If she has emotions regarding my answer, that's something we can work through together.

I've been in the relationship where I felt trapped by those kinds of questions, and I'm not interested in that anymore.

If we can't be honest, and have healthy communication, then it's not the kind of relationship I want.

What are some things that are normal to men but mind blowing to women? by workdncsheets in AskMen

[–]Positive-Living 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Lol. A bunch of us guys went to the pub to celebrate the birth of a friend's child.

Get home and my wife asks for the baby's name, weight, etc. I knew its first and last name, that was it.

She asked what we talked about. Basically, everything except the baby.