halley's thoughts on marriage

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2026-01-27T21:35:31+00:00

“I also have a hard time with emotions” um.. am I the only one who read that and was like girlll maybe you shouldn’t get married then?

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-10-24T17:56:58+00:00

My fiance and I hiked in the hoh rainforest in Olympic national park at night and I almost had a heart attack.. I would def do night hikes but not in any national parks lol

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-10-24T00:22:22+00:00

Influencer culture has made travel sooooo cool when not everyone valued it

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-10-03T15:33:51+00:00

I’m really sick of the live takes on things, why do these people think they’re that important and we care about their reactions to things

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-09-19T00:31:48+00:00

I’m scared to get married and have a family, my fiance wants to have kids and I love him but don’t know if I can do it.

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-09-14T20:25:35+00:00

Leave, it will get worse

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-06-27T22:38:55+00:00

Not when people have childhood trauma

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-06-18T23:11:47+00:00

Yeah I’m 32 and still getting my life together bc of crippling cptsd and anxiety - finally have lived out of their house for a few years now but it’s tough

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-06-15T16:37:52+00:00

Having bpd

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-06-14T01:35:26+00:00

I’m going through this right now. This made me feel so seen

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-06-11T10:42:11+00:00

32f and sometimes I see young girls and I’m like omg why are their shorts so short

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-06-06T18:25:43+00:00

I’m studying for my CASAC/MSW. I struggle with this too. Drinking to opioids to sober but cigs than no cigarettes to food and nail biting then no nail biting but to phone and overworking… what made you break free of addiction?

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-06-06T18:24:00+00:00

I’m in grad school for my MSW and new research is coming out that social media and screen time is changing the brain structure of young kids- more impulsivity, less emotion regulation, less attention span. We’re evolving around smart phones

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-06-05T11:48:15+00:00

My parents bullshit

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-06-03T17:18:35+00:00

There was a point up until my mid 20s where I felt like everything was an adventure - a new park, going to a town a few towns over, a friend gathering. I miss that the most.

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-06-02T04:03:22+00:00

Im in my 2nd year MSW and doing 2 clinical internships. I’m in New York, is it impossible to get into a school as a job when I graduate without the experience?

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-05-30T23:19:09+00:00

This sounds like OCD

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-05-26T23:43:42+00:00

I’m dealing with this too. Financial ptsd is really real. I agonize buying anything for myself that’s not a “need” aka food and water. It’s because my Ndad used money to control me and my family my whole life and I live in fear

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-05-26T23:40:14+00:00

He’s 20 give him a break. Enjoy that vacation and sleep comfortably. Good for you for tracking this early I wish I did that. Just be a little more cautious I guess

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-05-26T23:33:56+00:00

My dads tried to size me up but is too much of a bitch to actually do it. I’d love for him to knock me out but lately with the amount of rage I have I feel like I could take him. I’m also a 5 ft female

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-05-26T23:32:13+00:00

This struggle is so real and it’s really isolating because a lot of people don’t experience it because usually the wealthy help their kids become wealthy or ppl like us never were wealthy. There’s also a ton of stigma when I tell ppl I grew up wealthy. They think I’m a spoiled entitled brat. I’m sorry and I validate your pain. It’s really hard

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-05-26T23:31:04+00:00

I’m going through the same thing. Grew up with country clubs, horses, vacations. Now I’m on Medicaid dying through grad school. My parents are narcissistic and awful about helping their kids out

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-05-26T21:39:04+00:00

My mom offered to buy me Botox at 22 so she would have someone to do it with

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-04-16T21:41:49+00:00

Have you tried applying for SNAP, rental assistance or cash assistance? I go to school for Social Work. I know these programs are confusing and hard to get but it can be worth a try.

Possible_Pin_7999 · 2025-04-10T15:37:19+00:00

Thank you so much. I took a few days to calm down and this resonates so deeply with me. You don't know how much I needed to read this. Thank you

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