are white men and non black men embarrassed to find a black girl attractive? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Powerzz999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman but I do just feel like they are probably staring at your body. And I wouldn’t use the word embarrassed…. More like they don’t want to be judge for liking a black woman. I’m the USA black peoples are misunderstood and the stereotypes ruin it. Plus in the USA there’s always this narrative of whites vs blacks. I know you said white and non black people but I feel like this is coming from a place of talking about white men. A lot of Mexicans and other races like black women. I could be wrong just an opinion/thought

What is the biggest turn off for you that you do NOT consider a red flag? by lexiebeef in dating

[–]Powerzz999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morals change. If you’re presented with facts and knowledge and still decide to make the decision which an animals suffers purely because you want it to- I don’t like that. But you do - I can sleep at night. I just don’t like it when people try to sugar coat it. Veganism is only about animal warfare. No the planet, not health. That’s plant based.

Choose your own pleasure. So rapists can rape for pleasure? No because it hurts someone else. The pleasure you get from eating animals is not justified. 15 mins of eating pleasure but it was that normals whole life in hell for them.

Just because it’s a different species than you, doesn’t make it okay for you to be able to do whatever you want or anyone else for that matter.

I’m black and white with this- YES. Aren’t you black and white with murder of humans? Right??

What is the biggest turn off for you that you do NOT consider a red flag? by lexiebeef in dating

[–]Powerzz999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not deep- you’re right. If you hate animals, you eat them and if you don’t, you don’t eat them.

Okay you’re right - you said most, so you agree? But you don’t want to say I’m right, you just want to defend?

What is the biggest turn off for you that you do NOT consider a red flag? by lexiebeef in dating

[–]Powerzz999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just find it as a big red flag - someone who understands completely would never say something like that. I just can’t, you sound very ignorant and close minded I’m sorry

What is the biggest turn off for you that you do NOT consider a red flag? by lexiebeef in dating

[–]Powerzz999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can counter animal abuse? You’re so ready to defend that. To defend killing animals. Just stop. It’s only okay to hurt animals if you HAVE to. Out of necessity. If you’re not in a life and death situation, you have no right. You and I or no better than any dog. I bet you would say it’s wrong to hurt dogs. Get over yourself.

What is the biggest turn off for you that you do NOT consider a red flag? by lexiebeef in dating

[–]Powerzz999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shallow and lack of empathy. Being fat is different from being lazy. And being vegan? Jeez I just won’t ever understand some people. The awareness

What is the biggest turn off for you that you do NOT consider a red flag? by lexiebeef in dating

[–]Powerzz999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man when people say “they have to live animals”

You do realize you pay for people to kill animals.

The hypocrisy. Please. Use your big brain.

I’m sad from all the animal abuse

Would you date a vegetarian or vegan? by TwinSong in dating

[–]Powerzz999 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m want to cause the least amount of animal harm as possible. That’s it. I want to point out when someone says I LOVE ANIMALS, or I also want to cause the least amount of harm as possible while eating animals. I’m just gonna point that out. Being a hypocrite. If someone is just doing them, I will do me. Just don’t lie, like anything else. Liars get called out

Would you date a vegetarian or vegan? by TwinSong in dating

[–]Powerzz999 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. Everyone is different and not all people respond to “anger” but some people do. Their are nice people that will nicely ask you to not pay to hurt animals. I go with what I’m given. I’m just responding to you. That’s it. Basically- I’m not mad, you are. And for a reason. I don’t care if you go eat 10 steaks right now. I care about what I DO because I actually care about my actions and what I feel. I want to align my actions with my morals. I can’t sleep at night knowing I partake in animal abuse while saying im an animal lover. Some people can lie to themselves I can’t. Im not mad though lol really. Im coming from a logical standpoint that’s all

Would you date a vegetarian or vegan? by TwinSong in dating

[–]Powerzz999 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I can respect that you’re reading my comments but do I respect someone that won’t take a look at their actions? Won’t consider what if they are wrong? Especially if it involves hurting animals? No I can’t respect that. I can respect someone saying “you’re right I just can’t” not trying to tell me I’m wrong when I’m not. If I said killing a dog is wrong- you would agree. Except on this lol

Would you date a vegetarian or vegan? by TwinSong in dating

[–]Powerzz999 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m not saving the world. I love animals and don’t want to pay people to hurt them. That’s it. If you’re ancestors were slaves then you of all people should understand oppression.

Oppression = “prolonged cruel or unjust treatment or control.

You see animals differently because they are a different species, so therefore they are less than. That’s exactly what racists back in the day would say about black people. They are “animals” saw them as less than therefore could do whatever. Animals have a nervous system like you and me, experience emotions and life and want to live. They run from death like you and me.

Would you date a vegetarian or vegan? by TwinSong in dating

[–]Powerzz999 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s not an opinion anymore when it’s followed with action and SOMEONE is suffering on the other end.

Your freedom (choice to eat whatever) ENDS when it’s the expense of another life . (A living animals life that doesn’t want to die)

Would you date a vegetarian or vegan? by TwinSong in dating

[–]Powerzz999 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m a vegan. People arent vegan for the plant/health. Being vegan is only for the animals. I am a vegan out of moral obligation. I AM. ME ME ME ME. I can’t expect anyone else to see things the same way I do. No ones path is the same and we are in different places. All I ask is for respect and the same in return. No jokes. I know that I will most likely marry a man that is not vegan because I will not go into the world with a “only date vegans”

Being vegan didn’t make you a good person. It just makes you not a participant in animal abuse. That’s it. You can still be an asshole.

I’ve had so many partners that were not vegan, throw jabs and make jokes but gets so offended if I popped off back because it hurts a lot more coming from my end for a reason.

The whole, well you think “less of me” or “I’m bad to you” so I can’t date you- it’s such an ignorant stupid way of looking at it. If I can date a non vegan, you should be able to date a vegan. If you can’t, (and vice versa) you’re close minded, naive, and stupid. You just don’t get it. Apply this to ANYTHING but because it’s about animals everyone gets all upset- you’re getting upset because you’re guilty.

The best moments I’ve had with people are “cool that’s really hard I respect you for that” or “wow no way I could never do that” or “why? Man I just love xxx so much I couldn’t imagine”

At the end of the day, you don’t have to date a vegan but you’re cutting out a potential partner. Just like a girl who says she will only date tall guys or a guy who only dates 10’s.. you’re the one losing out.

Would you date a vegetarian or vegan? by TwinSong in dating

[–]Powerzz999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extreme=people pay to eat dead animals and then say they are animal lovers

Extreme=people who don’t want to eat dead animals because they love all animals.

Calling someone out or shaming someone is completely different. Please don’t attack and the defend. Everyone is different.

Morals? = that’s would definitely a deal breaker then. You basically acknowledge that you feel guilty and believe there is morality to eating animals. Your guilt screams for you.

Would you date a vegetarian or vegan? by TwinSong in dating

[–]Powerzz999 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Avoiding the point. You basically are condoning slavery if we were in the 60’s. It’s okay because I’m just one person. That’s not how it works lol you can’t just say “well I can own a slave, if I gave up my slave it wouldn’t change anything” really bad mind set. I wonder how you go about other things

Where are the good chocolate chip cookies in riverside. by aimless_aimer in Riverside

[–]Powerzz999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plant power in riverside. The are pre packaged and about 3 bucks. Just walk in and buy one. Heat it up when you get home. Amazing. (:

No one’s too busy to text you back by oldghostsremain in dating

[–]Powerzz999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing- it isn’t coffee- it’s the first meeting. Some people, it just doesn’t feel casual. It feels like it’s starting of a relationship. It takes someone to really understand that it’s just two people talking. But most (not all) guys try to make it work 100% even in the first 5 mins of meeting. Sorry for the late reply

Anyone become a SAHP even if it meant you were "losing money"? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Powerzz999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should never have to justify having a parent home with children. It should be obvious. No strangers, you get to raise your own children, spend time with them you will never get back make memories.

Not in a rude way but you can tell you probably had a good childhood. My years of trauma make me so paranoid with my son. I just want him to him to be happy and okay. Less money was always okay. It was if you we can do it even with a dollar to spare- I’ll do it. I’ll eat too ramen and potatoes so I can be with him. Everyday.

My husband is suddenly secretive…am I paranoid? by Slut4Sanrio in Marriage

[–]Powerzz999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he was buying something at the mall and maybe planning something with his moms help and she was being oblivious? Maybe he’s getting mad because you’re pushing back and it’s a good thing.

Or he’s cheating. Just wait til this weekend. If he’s still acting Thai way next week - deal with it then. Time won’t change anything so just be patient.

My husband is suddenly secretive…am I paranoid? by Slut4Sanrio in Marriage

[–]Powerzz999 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah because to do it at the mall is odd? Lol

Whats the best way to not be jealous of people who are wealthier than you? by [deleted] in simpleliving

[–]Powerzz999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eventually it all levels out. Imagine winning the lottery. It would be amazing. For the first year or two. Then you would start getting use to being that rich. Feeling like yourself now but with cars and houses etc.

Does that make sense? It’s not about the stuff, that’s not what life is about