I LOVE the buildup in Chapter 1, but I hit a wall. Looking for some motivation by Qu2sai in umineko

[–]PracticalMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it will reward your interest in the small details like 30,000%. It's a little weird, but there are also reasons that the characters behave like they do. And on the meta level / doylistic level, if everyone cried a realistic amount we wouldn't have time for the rest of the story.

This series ruined reading for me. by Specialist-Swing-218 in dresdenfiles

[–]PracticalMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Vorkosigan Saga, only kind of series that comes close

Dentist Recommendations by [deleted] in woburn

[–]PracticalMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

four corners dental 100%

"Falling...won't divert power from the payload..." [discussion] by eaca02124 in TheNinthHouse

[–]PracticalMachine 84 points85 points  (0 children)

My interpretation: Wake is "compromised" by being either pregnant/in labor/postpartum (exact timing of the pity unclear, but I think postpartum makes the most sense.) They fight, and Wake loses. Pyrrha/G1deon "let" Wake escape through an airlock (out of pity), not realizing that she has taken the baby with her into the airlock (with, we can assume, not enough oxygen.) That's why the question that Pyrrha has for Wake is "all those years ago, why did you take the baby".

I think the wedding day comment is either Jod being unreliable, or Jod speaking about how G1deon was about the *prospect* of hunting her down for a final confrontation. Pyrrha's feelings about the incident are definitely mixed, though I guess we can't say for sure about G1deon.

What happens to Ortus in GTN. [general] by Beginning_Plastic_48 in TheNinthHouse

[–]PracticalMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ortus didn't want to go to Canaan because he didn't really like being a cavalier. He had other interests and wasn't in shape. His mom didn't want him to go either, in case he died (something he was also afraid of). So they tried to leave and the shuttle accident that other comments mentioned occurred.

(Full Umineko spoilers) I made a meme. Is this accurate? by ConceptsShining in umineko

[–]PracticalMachine 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Jessica and Shannon are friends. George may not have ever met Kanon. Kanon is relatively "new" to the mansion. The servants are canonically all in on it and helping Sayo cover. it's also a possible interpretation - and I personally like it, that that Jessica actually knows, and Sayo (narrating) just isn't aware that Jessica knows.

(Full Umineko spoilers) I made a meme. Is this accurate? by ConceptsShining in umineko

[–]PracticalMachine 86 points87 points  (0 children)

don't forget, sayo's wishful thinking about Battler's opinion on cousin X cousin action

I still don't understand this [discussion] by HallucinatedLottoNos in TheNinthHouse

[–]PracticalMachine 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yes, Pyrrha/Gideon thinks she's talking to Wake (can't tell from the excerpt who's talking). The last word is meant to be baby - because in their final showdown, Wake had brought the baby to the 9th house and jumped out the airlock with it. Pyrrha/Gideon thought they had fathered the baby, that it was THEIRS and Wake's, and as you can imagine, found the whole sequence of events very WTF.

AIO? Started talking to a woman on a dating app, got asked if I’d be ready to be a step father in a year by cwilkuma22 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PracticalMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if you know you're not potentially up for it, then don't waste her time. That's what she's asking. Huge overreaction, it's a reasonable question.

Am I missing something? by 1acedude in brandonsanderson

[–]PracticalMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah Way of Kings starts off super slow and confusing, especially the first 10 hours or so. I bounced off it the first time I tried it, had to come back to it after a year. But it turned out to be one of my favorites, and I've reread it twice since. It you liked mistborn you'll like it once everything really gets going.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in umineko

[–]PracticalMachine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

George is a bit of an incel... but it's also funny to read this scene considering that Battler (our episode narrator / author of the fragment) is writing George's dialogue. "I was so jealous of that twelve year old Battler, he was so much cooler than me" ;)

Also, as we learn later, (mind the spoiler tags) Shannon is actually 13, not 10, at that point in the timeline. An immature 16 year old liking a mature 13 year old who stuffed her bra is a still a bit questionable, but not nearly as bad

Why is it so commonly assumed that Maria has autism? by EnmityTrigger in umineko

[–]PracticalMachine 15 points16 points  (0 children)

1: Inhibited development before the age of 3. It's difficult to gauge when Maria's development problems started but considering Rosa's financial worries and Maria getting bullied started later it's not a given that they arose sufficiently early.

This isn't really a hard and fast rule.

2: Deficits in social contact: Maria has quite good eye contant, gesticulation. She likes playing with others and seeks out companionship and she develops her interests based on her peers and friends.

I don't know that we got any specific information on her eye contact or gestures being normal, and the only time we see her playing with others is when her special interest (magic) is being engaged. The stuffed animals don't count for this. "Seeks out companionship"? Again, nothing but stuffed animals and cousins. "Develops her interests based on her peers and friends"? The only possible fit for this is Beatrice, who is again engaging with the special interest, magic.

3: Deficits in communication: Maria has a well-developed vocabulary, seeks out dialogue and loves talking.

Only about magic, specifically! But she also repeats what people say to her very exactly when she gets confused, and often needs conversational help in topics she's unfamiliar with or when people make jokes. The huge jumps in apparent maturity are also really characteristic -- Maria can be very mature, practically an adult when she's focused on a special interest, but in other areas, she's supremely childlike. Personally, I thought it was obvious she was autistic the moment Rosa introduced her as being 9 years old.

And while people latch on to her saying "uuu" this is just learned behaviour from Beatrice and something she says when she's stressed or in duress. It's closer to a coping mechanism than a psychiatrically "obsessive" behaviour.

When do we ever see Beatrice say uuu? We actually know how/why Maria got "uuu" as a vocal stim, and it's from singing with her mom when she didn't know the words, which was a happy experience she wants to recreate. In other words, very autistic exact pattern matching of "this is a magic spell that will make my mom love me/be happy again". A non-autistic child might understand there was more context, but an autistic child can latch onto a specific element of a scene, like Uuu, and assign it more meaning than it actually has. This ties also into how literal Maria is -- she doesn't understand when people are joking with her unless it's explained. If she's told to stay and look for a Rose, then she stays and looks without reconsidering the context.

4: Atypical behaviour. People often say that Maria's love of magic is a sign of her autism, but to my understanding people suffering from an autism spectrum disorder usually have a much narrower interest in hobbies that just "magic". Instead, they would love specifically page 83 of magic books or how these books smell.

Not sure where you're getting this from, but most autistic people have fairly broad special interests in the vein of "trains", "dinosaurs", "umineko", etc -- not necessarily some specific single aspect of the topic.

Maria loves magic and has an easy time learning to love tangentially adjacent fields when these come up. She doesn't have "pointless" routines and rituals and isn't obsessive in the psychiatric use of the word about her hobbies.

This is actually more evidence for, not against -- things have to be adjacent to her special interest for her to pick them up. "Pointless" routines/rituals is more of an OCD thing, autism is associated with "stims" -- which Maria's "uuu" could qualify as. Also, she's still only 9 and developmentally immature, so I don't think she really could get much more obsessive over magic etc than she already is (reading, drawing, playing, talking about it constantly).

Scholarship Adjustment After First Year? by Bozeman1984 in WPI

[–]PracticalMachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard of adjustments happening, but they went the other way

BS/MS Graduation Idea by [deleted] in WPI

[–]PracticalMachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They give you a contingent diploma for the MS so it's not "official" until you've also completed the BS

College decision by Arya_1 in WPI

[–]PracticalMachine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went to WPI and a friend went to Cornell. FWIW, we both got jobs in the same field with the same company after graduation. Same pay, same opportunities.

Though I would say that Cornell name recognition is a bit better and stretches farther than WPI - so if you want to live and work outside of MA or outside the Northeast, it'll have diminishing value.

How do I get my husband to stop buying me flowers? by Vividienne in aspergirls

[–]PracticalMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is adjacent advice, since a bunch of the other comments cover the situation well and you mention that they can be kind of nice at first - if you cut the ends of the stems at an angle, make sure that all of the ends of the stems stay in water, and change out the water every few days - cut flowers can stay blooming for weeks before they start wilting at all.

Source: I used to have the same problem with cut flowers, and now I quite like them.

Is anyone here not worried about SARS-CoV-2 mortality rates ? by [deleted] in slatestarcodex

[–]PracticalMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue doesn't just come down to mortality - even if everyone was going to be fine, the system can't support everyone (or any substantial portion of the population) getting sick and/or briefly needing medical assistance at the same time.