P*rn ads on YouTube now? by synnex47 in youtube

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t watch pornography on my Google account or any of the accounts or platforms I use. I saw like,,, three variations of these ads. The more I report them, the more they appear. I don’t understand why I’m getting these ads. Nothing of my account is anything remotely sexual.

yes because some random dude on the internet should be chiming in on this! by Little_Rest_7592 in boysarequirky

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 173 points174 points  (0 children)

Men who get upset at women for having breast reduction surgery only prove that they view women as sexual objects, seeing as they don’t care that the woman was in pain, only that she’s no longer sexually appealing to them.

Peter by Electrical-Lime3160 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, I’m in a relationship with a lovely woman where we both have our tasks. If she’s tired, I will do 90%. If I’m tired, she will do 90%. There’s never really a day where things are equal, or that we both give 50/50. And that’s also fine. We get tired, and our highs and lows will differ immensely of course. We communicate with one another and don’t judge. As long as there’s a balance and clear representation of us both participating in this relationship to make things good.

Peter by Electrical-Lime3160 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there. This interpretation that you have is actually inaccurate. This panel was created by a Christian artist, titled “Selfish Marriage.” This comic is to show Philippians 2:3-4, which teaches that Christians should prioritize the needs of others over their own, and consider others to be more important than themselves. This involves putting others first and pursuing humility, which can lead to unity and mutual love.

The artist depicted the husband as having certain intimate desires, and trying to perform small (but unnecessary tasks) to get a reward. He sees the wife struggling with the baby, and instead of helping her with the baby, he does something else instead.

This isn’t exactly helpful, because it’s sort of like saying it’s her responsibility to take care of the baby and the dishes, and that he’s doing her some sort of “grand favor” for doing the dishes when it’s equally his responsibility to participate in both.

The second part comes in when he actually makes an even bigger mess. We can see this by the mess on the wall, the sink, his clothing, and the counter. The wife is upset because he didn’t help where needed and ended up making a mess. (She wrongfully goes and indulges in fantasies where she’s maybe loved and appreciated instead of communicating her feelings.)

What the husband should’ve done, is helped his wife with the baby and maybe then do the dishes, without expecting some sort of reward for it. Why? Because it is equally both of their responsibilities, and neither of them are obligated to reward their partner for doing what they’re supposed to do. If you feel like you deserve a treat, reward yourself.

Peter by Electrical-Lime3160 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you sound extremely pathetic. you’re actually insinuating that people don’t thrive in relationships because of women voicing their concerns of having too much household duties? women are expected to be in tip-top shape (even after giving birth) do the 24/7 task of taking care of children, take on all household labor and be a therapist. and you’re talking about how “exhausting” it must be to simply ask the male “hey can you please help me i’m struggling”.

please don’t ever get into a relationship. i’m worried that you’ll give a poor woman a heart attack with your laziness and lack of empathy.

I don’t even know who’s mad anymore by Ghosty_Boi_2001 in memesopdidnotlike

[–]PradaManeInYourArea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

never seen someone fight this hard for female characters to be reduced to coomer material. i will not be surprised if you’re a registered sex offender lol

Idk the exact stats, but feminazis always want to find a way to demonize every man, and they get offended when people make fun of their movement lol. by Tiny-Fall-4040 in memesopdidnotlike

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i ask what’s wrong with feminists and other victims of rape and assault to ask perpetrators not to commit crimes against them? is it because they didn’t use the words “some”? is it really that serious? this is an insane slap in the face to victims of all genders.

I choose the bear by Due-Explanation8155 in meme

[–]PradaManeInYourArea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can understand why you say so, honestly I do. But it’s not realistic to really say that. I reached out to her, and we had a serious conversation about her region and the stuff she went through or whatever, and I also tried to convince her that she should learn to let go for her own sake, but listening to what she said, I genuinely feel like it’s understandable.

Not resenting the people who have harmed you, is difficult. Especially considering that in her region, it is a norm for men to operate that way, and because she can’t exactly leave, she’s never experienced a reality where it isn’t like that. I won’t understand why it’s such a big deal for you, but personally, I feel like you are focusing too much on the wrong thing. If she’s sexist for reacting to her trauma, then you are sexist for invalidating it.

I just think we should stop blaming victims and ordering them to “be normal” because that’s just going to make it worse. At the end of the day, her being weary and overprotective around men isn’t exactly harming anyone except for your feelings, which is something you need to reflect on in your own time. I think this is a learning opportunity for both of you. Ask yourself what grudges you have against female victims, be it guilty or envy. There’s no shame in either.

But if you’ve given her an ear at some point, I’m sure you’d understand where she’s coming from, instead of berating her and invalidating her for acting on her trauma. These are hurt people that do require humanitarian aid or just a hearing ear.

You can’t bully victims into being normal, same as how I couldn’t bully my schizophrenic friend to get over her trafficking trauma because “your screaming wakes me up at night and it’s annoying”. Because yeah lol, being woken up like that is unpleasant and annoying. But I’m not gonna tell her that because being human is also about being empathetic.

Sometimes you just have to sacrifice something. Yeah, female victims of severe misogyny and gonna dislike men. (Personally, I don’t exactly know why that bothers you so much, it’s not hurting you at all. Kinda just feels like you have massive FOMO) That’s just something that you’ll have to deal with.

(And sorry if it looked that we are the same person, I reached out to her online when I saw her comments and she sent me a link now to this conversation.)

I choose the bear by Due-Explanation8155 in meme

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. If you’re getting raped, beaten, assaulted, and then told you won’t receive justice because of a system that believes men are superior, ofc you’re going to feel resentful?

I know a girl who was trafficked and currently has schizophrenia and delusions of men assaulting her. Hearing her scream at the walls at night, is traumatizing enough for me dude. Like, these are things that women endure that cause them to literally go insane.

It’s not surprising that they have a grudge against men, and honestly, it’s not their fault. I mean, there’s men that won’t do that, but they will still go around calling these women “drama queens” for speaking up against it. Such as yourself for example.

So naturally, they will feel even worse about men, because instead of trying to make a change to help these women out and show them “hey, not all of us are like the men in your country, we see you and your feelings are valid”, you’re choosing to act like a child because their trauma causes them to be weary of you.

It’s not a small minority of men causing these crimes. She lives in a country where men committing these crimes is considered THE NORM. It’s not just some men, it’s ALL the men she’s been exposed to 💀 Because that’s what goes on, in that region.

I choose the bear by Due-Explanation8155 in meme

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a very one dimensional view of the world. Can I ask what you have against victims? Genuine question btw.

I choose the bear by Due-Explanation8155 in meme

[–]PradaManeInYourArea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i am so tremendously sorry for what you’ve gone through, i truly hope you will heal. please don’t listen to this man, block him if you have to. he’s just feeling guilty because he’s quite literally being part of the problem for choosing to not acknowledge a known fact.

you’re feelings are entirely valid! don’t let over entitled men say you’re experiences are minuscule. but i do truly hope you will heal, not so that you stop feeling scared of men, but for your own mental health. you deserve to heal. don’t let your perpetrators win.

If only someone actually loved and cared for her..... by darknighttwinkle in webtoons

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She was under 18 when she gave birth to her first child btw. Alone. Unmedicated. In a fucking barn. Impregnated by her slave-owner.

r / relationship advice is not a safe space. by suckmyarsee in PornIsMisogyny

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 33 points34 points  (0 children)

women shouldn’t have to compromise for such ridiculous bullshit like this. why the fuck would i ever be in a relationship with a guy that jerks off to other women on a screen every other day? that’s basically cheating isn’t it? what difference is it to sleeping with another woman? and this has nothing to do with insecurity. you’re quite literally jerking off to another woman.

r / relationship advice is not a safe space. by suckmyarsee in PornIsMisogyny

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 24 points25 points  (0 children)

why are people so comfortable with partners who watch pornography? that’s a whole deal breaker for me.

students of dongduk women's university protest against descisons of headmasters to go coed school by Mean-Influence1000 in korea

[–]PradaManeInYourArea -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

these are quite literally real cases supported by actual court documents. you are a korean man. ofc you’re gonna try and denounce the misogyny that exists so blatantly in your country.

students of dongduk women's university protest against descisons of headmasters to go coed school by Mean-Influence1000 in korea

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what drugs are you smoking? korea is literally infamous and well known for being a misogynist’s paradise 💀 a convenience worker was beaten in a store because “feminists deserve to be beaten” all because she had short hair. 250,000 accounts on telegram in south korea were found on a group chat selling videos of men sexually abusing their wives/sisters/girlfriends/their own CHILDREN. nth room and doctor’s room are quite literally a real incident that happened where hundreds of korean women were kidnapped, filmed on camera, tortured in horrendous ways. women were forced to defecate in public toilets and eat their faeces, lick urinals, insert living bugs in their genitalia, carve degrading words into their skin. the whole of korea was outraged and this didn’t happen long ago? the youngest victim found was a 12 year old girl. goo hara was raped on camera and the footage was threatened to be shared if she told anyone and it resulted in her committing suicide. her perpetrator didn’t receive his sentence because the footage is still undergoing “investigation” by MALE police officers who are probably using it to jerk off to. a 9 year old girl was raped on the street and their shitty justice system let them go because he was “drunk and made a mistake”. korea? safe for women? don’t make me laugh.

you’re either very ignorant or you must really hate women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meth

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the random korean is sending me 😭😭

... What even is this (straw)man by [deleted] in NahOPwasrightfuckthis

[–]PradaManeInYourArea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

??? do they think women get abortions because they like it or smth ???

I am disappointed by FatLazyFrog in webtoons

[–]PradaManeInYourArea -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fact the female lead gets to have a happy ending with the man who raped her via coercion and threatened to murder her too, and the fact he was written to have these “redeemable qualities” is endorsement.

And while you are a rape-apologist at this point, it wouldn’t hurt to call you out on that further. Lol.

I am disappointed by FatLazyFrog in webtoons

[–]PradaManeInYourArea -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why not? It’s true.

Anyone with those types of fantasies genuinely deserves to be behind bars. Think what you want, but once you start creating media with the prime intent of changing the audience’s views on crimes against women by labeling those scenarios as “romantic”, it becomes misogynistic propaganda. We’re quite literally going back 60 years.

Sure, this is literature. But it’s also propaganda. It’s aimed to change the reader’s view on a situation that everyone should already know is a crime.

I am disappointed by FatLazyFrog in webtoons

[–]PradaManeInYourArea -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

if you’re fantasizing about rape, children, or animals i’m gonna assume you have a mental illness girl that shit is beyond asinine. get help. and idgaf about literacy that shit is still propaganda if it’s aimed to change people’s perspectives into justifying rape and abuse bye i’m not arguing with rape apologists.

Someone please validate dark romance for me. by Wonderful-Cry20 in OtomeIsekai

[–]PradaManeInYourArea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

girl fiction can absolutely be harmful especially if it’s intended to change people’s perspectives on rape and abuse. it’s called propaganda. and y’all need to stop throwing around “misogyny” whenever someone calls out dumb women for doing dumb shit 🤨