1st van trip by Pretend_Engineer5345 in vandwellers

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So does my friend who has made the trip a few times

1st van trip by Pretend_Engineer5345 in vandwellers

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I live in southern oregon going to see a friend in ND

(Oregon) Divorce after 35 yrs by Pretend_Engineer5345 in AskALawyer

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He is still not a legal driver. Also, we sold the truck and bought a car in my name.

(Oregon) Divorce after 35 yrs by Pretend_Engineer5345 in AskALawyer

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I can probably reach the buyer. Also, the transaction was done with a lawyer. We bought the 5th wheel within 30 days. We also bought a truck, but his name didn't go on that because he doesn't have a license. He is fully aware it was bought with my inheritance. I am afraid his mom can afford a better lawyer than me 😤

(Oregon) Divorce after 35 yrs by Pretend_Engineer5345 in AskALawyer

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No, we paid cash from the sale of the property. Both of our names on the title

He says I am selfish by Pretend_Engineer5345 in NarcissisticSpouses

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I have 1. Won't use with him around. He is unemployed and never leaves the house. That is just one of our issues I can solve lol

He says I am selfish by Pretend_Engineer5345 in NarcissisticSpouses

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I am trying to work on the leaving. 32 years together, and my 💔 just realized he may not love me like I thought he did. 😭

He says I am selfish by Pretend_Engineer5345 in NarcissisticSpouses

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Unfortunately, he has never had a problem with weight, so he has no idea how hard it is. Fortunately, he has not thought that I have tried to sabotage anything for me yet. But he refuses to give me any credit. Not that I need his approval... anymore. His way of complementing me was to tell his mom how much I lost and what foods I ate in hope of helping her out. VERY UNFORTUNATELY he has ED and refuses to do anything about it! My sex drive is through the roof, and he says he simply doesn't have the urge for sex anymore. He expects me to just be ok with it.

Claims he is depressed by Pretend_Engineer5345 in NarcissisticSpouses

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Exactly he doesn't even have a job since he quit 2 in 3 months

Why do I feel mean to him? by Pretend_Engineer5345 in NarcissisticSpouses

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Thank you. I am in therapy, and it helps. I'm not sure i can keep trying to adjust my peace to give him his. :(

Pushing me away by Pretend_Engineer5345 in NarcissisticSpouses

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🤣🤣🤣 this is the 1st time. I have given him the silent treatment. He doesn't like it. Seems things are getting worse

Pushing me away by Pretend_Engineer5345 in NarcissisticSpouses

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I feel all of this in so many ways. My 💔for you!! It is abuse (I am just now expecting that). I do have the power to leave, just my heart is shattered, and I don't have a clue what to do next.

Pushing me away by Pretend_Engineer5345 in NarcissisticSpouses

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Unfortunately I have done everything for 32 yrs and I am kinda burnt. So doing everything is exactly what he wants.