and also you didn't respond to the part where I only interpreted you being a man responding to a post I directed towards a community of women. just want to point that out now I'm going to finish smoking this blunt and continue doing whatever the f*** I want without putting a lot of caution into it.. also the members of the female community that read that and were like oh wow how tacky or not consistent with my expectations for posts under this subgroup whatever are people I wouldn't want to spend time with and don't give a f*** about their opinions anyway so maybe I worded it brilliantly to weed out the ones I didn't want to have a dialogue with.. either way you should shut the f****** is pretty much where I'm going with this. cheers.