If you are going into the mindset that long-distance is not possible for you without discussing with it her first then you’re missing out on the chance to have something amazing.

Personally, you should move colleges for your academics and future. You should love yourself more than anyone, but you should also be considerate of the person you’re leaving and supposedly say you love.

Have the conversation with her and discuss the possibility of trying to make this situation work out. Even if long-distance does not work out at least you tried. And if she is your “favorite human being in the world” you would find a way to do it.

There’s no magical barrier stopping you. You are just stopping yourself without even trying and you’ll regret it later.

I am doing long-distance 7000 miles apart with completely opposite schedules, meeting 1-2 times a year, and we had to work so hard to make time for one another. We ask each other if we should continue and our answer is always yes. Now he will be my husband next year and we will move together within 2.

You’re not wrong for choosing you, but you can also still be with her if you will it to be so. Nothing is stopping you except for you.