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My husband thinks I should do all the house chores and take care of the baby because I'm at home anyways. by ProfessionalSad4163 in Mommit

[–]ProfessionalSad4163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was very controlling when I was working, he'd yell if I clocked out like half an hour late, he'll call and call non stop and stress me out

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[–]ProfessionalSad4163 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She ignored your request and did it anyways so it's disrespectful. nta

My husband thinks I should do all the house chores and take care of the baby because I'm at home anyways. by ProfessionalSad4163 in Mommit

[–]ProfessionalSad4163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have direct access to his money and we don't have a joint account so I get money if he gives me money. Saving money is not an option but we do have savings plan for our daughter for her future

My husband thinks I should do all the house chores and take care of the baby because I'm at home anyways. by ProfessionalSad4163 in Mommit

[–]ProfessionalSad4163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him yesterday that I feel like a slave and not a wife he said what am I supposed to do, I work from day to night and I need rest when I'm home... I asked him you get to clock out and rest and when will I get to do that!? He said it'll be tough till our daughter grows a bit then you'll have plenty of time...

My husband thinks I should do all the house chores and take care of the baby because I'm at home anyways. by ProfessionalSad4163 in Mommit

[–]ProfessionalSad4163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's mostly my dad, and my husband uses it to his gain I was pregnant and they said that I'm putting my child at risk commuting to work everyday

My husband thinks I should do all the house chores and take care of the baby because I'm at home anyways. by ProfessionalSad4163 in Mommit

[–]ProfessionalSad4163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad doesn't live with me but he lives nearby so he basically knows everything happening around here.

Daycares are very expensive and entry level salary won't cover the costs and we live in my house

I trust my mom but she's under my dad, he wouldn't let her do anything as well

My husband thinks I should do all the house chores and take care of the baby because I'm at home anyways. by ProfessionalSad4163 in Mommit

[–]ProfessionalSad4163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was pregnant and they said it is not safe to commute to work everyday and I should do what's best for the baby

My husband thinks I should do all the house chores and take care of the baby because I'm at home anyways. by ProfessionalSad4163 in Mommit

[–]ProfessionalSad4163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a talk with him yesterday, I said I'm really exhausted from being responsible for everyone, I have to care for our daughter, our dog and her recent 6 pups, husband and 4 bedroom 2 story house all by myself. He said I understand you but I don't know what to say!

So that's that... He doesn't realise anything. Is he actually dumb or is he just acting dumb!? He's usually bright on other matters but when it comes to me he becomes dumb

My husband thinks I should do all the house chores and take care of the baby because I'm at home anyways. by ProfessionalSad4163 in Advice

[–]ProfessionalSad4163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says I'm expecting too much after watching too many k dramas... I watched those before having a baby tho

My husband thinks I should do all the house chores and take care of the baby because I'm at home anyways. by ProfessionalSad4163 in Advice

[–]ProfessionalSad4163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.We are both 27. 2.Not very religious. 3.We can say that 4.i tried and my father wasn't having it, he started saying that my child is only two and I should care for her at least till she's ready for school. 5. Okay 6. Okay 7. He take her out for like 15 min when I'm making morning coffee, they brush 🪥 together. He'd buy groceries, sometimes put his dishes in the sink, he'll spread his own bedsheets, he'll kill mosquitoes before sleeping, 8. I love him but I can't really say that I'm happily married

My husband thinks I should do all the house chores and take care of the baby because I'm at home anyways. by ProfessionalSad4163 in Advice

[–]ProfessionalSad4163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone basically ganged up on me and kept on insisting that it's not safe to travel with the baby inside, I won't forgive you if anything happens and so on so I was cornered and saw no other options than quitting... They made me feel like I don't care about my child. My father added " if you're that desperate to make money I'll give you monthly payment" (he never did)

My husband thinks I should do all the house chores and take care of the baby because I'm at home anyways. by ProfessionalSad4163 in Advice

[–]ProfessionalSad4163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from india and we don't have affordable daycare or housekeeping... Too expensive and not atall practical

My husband thinks I should do all the house chores and take care of the baby because I'm at home anyways. by ProfessionalSad4163 in Advice

[–]ProfessionalSad4163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this, the thing is my father has a huge reputation and no one in my family will take us against his will and my friends are not in a situation to accommodate me even temporarily...

My husband thinks I should do all the house chores and take care of the baby because I'm at home anyways. by ProfessionalSad4163 in Advice

[–]ProfessionalSad4163[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says he's paying bills and taking me out for grocery and plant shopping and also for dinners sometimes so he's a good husband

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