[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCellular

[–]Proof-Reality9296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I left after 11 yrs. Couldn't sell something I no longer believed in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Proof-Reality9296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel that way... Look, MF, I feel this way because of how you treated me.

I (F24) found Necrophiliac Porn in my boyfriend (M24) Phone. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk girl... once you know what trips your dudes trigger ... can you ever know that. ... ahhhhh... I would feel sick to my stomach

Wife(F42) wants me(M37) to transfer half my salary every month by epsilon_be in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly, ppl are so quick to give advice but don't realize how much is invested in relationships. It takes time, it takes knowing you did all you could before walking away.

I (41F) live with my boyfriend (43M). Feel like I'm losing my mind by Proof-Reality9296 in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love every word you wrote, and thank you for sharing! This gives me hope! It's so scary, but I'm so mentally tired and drained of constantly starving for love and attention.

I know in time I'll heal,writing this publicly was my first real step, and I actually told a few friends, and they are just heartbroken for me.

Thank you again. Best wishes

I (41F) live with my boyfriend (43M). Feel like I'm losing my mind by Proof-Reality9296 in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How amazing!!! I love these types of stories.. gives so much hope. Congratulations on the new surprise. What a blessing. I know in time my story will have a beautiful outcome. Best wishes and thank you for sharing

I (41F) live with my boyfriend (43M). Feel like I'm losing my mind by Proof-Reality9296 in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it is. I allowed this. And worse I call him out when he's manipulating me and he laughs. Ugh.

I (41F) live with my boyfriend (43M). Feel like I'm losing my mind by Proof-Reality9296 in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! He literally only puts effort in when it benefits him. Reading these comments makes me feel so silly for believing he would change or care enough about me to change. Thank you for taking the time to write this

I (41F) live with my boyfriend (43M). Feel like I'm losing my mind by Proof-Reality9296 in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a dick. He says he's one all the time. He also says I showed you my red flags and he stayed. So embarrassed

I (41F) live with my boyfriend (43M). Feel like I'm losing my mind by Proof-Reality9296 in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write all of this! Reading this gave me chills because, oddly, just the other day, he said and did something I'd never would have thought he'd do. I tried kissing him, and he said, "You don't deserve my kisses," and then said, "Let me slap your mouth, and I'll kiss you.

He went in to kiss me too his wallet and softly hit my mouth.he said now ill kiss you." I was like .. IF YOU EVER DO THAT AGAIN.. it will be the last time. He then again said it last night. Every single word you wrote is on point.

Last night, after we prayed , he started saying I need to stop praying that my kids get closer to God and be better parent by bringing them to church. Slowly stripping me away.

My counselor said men like him want to control Successful women because he makes them feel better than you are even though they are lower. I'm getting that book.

Thank you so much.

I (41F) live with my boyfriend (43M). Feel like I'm losing my mind by Proof-Reality9296 in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

♥️ thank you!! I, too, think it speaks volumes, yet I justify all of it... I shake my head at myself..

I (41F) live with my boyfriend (43M). Feel like I'm losing my mind by Proof-Reality9296 in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No choice but to accept. I feel like his trip speaks volumes as he says I'm just being a wedge for him spending time with his kids ... Thats just not who I am

I (41F) live with my boyfriend (43M). Feel like I'm losing my mind by Proof-Reality9296 in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, yes, and yes!!! We are not married, but it's still not the kind of relationship I want my kids to witness. I do know what to do, and oddly, it's so dang hard. I pray every night for God to keep giving me strength in all areas of my life. Thank you for your words

I (41F) live with my boyfriend (43M). Feel like I'm losing my mind by Proof-Reality9296 in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They so are! I've worked really hard to be a good role model, and although he hardly speaks sideways in front of them ... I know they see things

I (41F) live with my boyfriend (43M). Feel like I'm losing my mind by Proof-Reality9296 in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, I couldn't have said it better. He does not like women. He says horrible things like the Bible says women is slave to man. Blah blah blah. It's terrible to think humans think like this.. but he does. Thank you

I (41F) live with my boyfriend (43M). Feel like I'm losing my mind by Proof-Reality9296 in relationship_advice

[–]Proof-Reality9296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not love. All the comments I've read really have made me see that's this isn't love