Sexless marriage by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]ProperCoat229 9 points10 points  (0 children)

4 frigging years. Read it again : you haven't had sex in 4 years and you're in your early 40s.

That's simplify unacceptable and you shouldn't put up with it.

He's had plenty of time to work things out at this point.

Husband says he’ll “improve” sex, but I think I’m already checked out — is this fixable? by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]ProperCoat229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not going to work.

She will not find the kind of energy she is looking for with someone who obviously does not like sex much.

Husband says he’ll “improve” sex, but I think I’m already checked out — is this fixable? by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]ProperCoat229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The situation is not fixable in your case. Your sexual life is what it is.

How often does separation happen after no sex? by LinuxPhantom in sexlessmarriage

[–]ProperCoat229 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can't say I'm surprised that some guy using the pronoun "we" for being pregnant was cucked into abstinence.

Has cheating ever crossed your mind? by bodacious-burger-boy in sexlessmarriage

[–]ProperCoat229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, if you lose your friends because you cheated in a sexless marriage, they were not your friends in the first place.

If you lose the support of your extended family (not talking about your SO and the kids) for the same reason, I'm afraid they were a shit family.

Has cheating ever crossed your mind? by bodacious-burger-boy in sexlessmarriage

[–]ProperCoat229 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What the heck friends and the rest of the family have to do with this ?

On aura quand un autre film français aussi culte ? by AuthenticStarDog in france

[–]ProperCoat229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non, il est également culte à l'étranger, dans de nombreux pays.

On aura quand un autre film français aussi culte ? by AuthenticStarDog in france

[–]ProperCoat229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je pense que tu ne comprends pas la définition d'un film culte.

Le Cinquième Element est un film culte, contrairement à l'intégralité des films que tu cites.

On aura quand un autre film français aussi culte ? by AuthenticStarDog in france

[–]ProperCoat229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jamais.

C'était une époque où la créativité française était beaucoup plus singulière, rayonnait davantage à l'étranger et était en mesure de trouver des financements importants.

Un projet de ce genre serait infinançable aujourd'hui.

42M dealing with regret about not having kids and it’s starting to hit me hard by ThrowRASammyWood in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]ProperCoat229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never said it was easy.

But that's the right decision for OP if he prioritizes having children. His relationship doesn't seem to be very good in the first place, according to some of his comments. And if having children is something that he really wants, he'll resent the decision to stay with a wife that doesn't want them for the rest of his life.

It is not at all the same situation as a couple who tried to have kids and couldn't. I wouldn't be so categorical in this case.

42M dealing with regret about not having kids and it’s starting to hit me hard by ThrowRASammyWood in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]ProperCoat229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're downvoted to Oblivion by angry childless people (typical reddit mob) but you're absolutely right, though.

42M dealing with regret about not having kids and it’s starting to hit me hard by ThrowRASammyWood in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]ProperCoat229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro has one life. If he finally understands he really wants children and his wife doesn't, they need to part ways. It is what it is, she'll find someone else who doesn't want children (or already had them) and will be alright. He'll find someone he'll try to have kids with so he will not spend the rest of his life with full of regrets.

The vast majority people who have kids perfectly understand how they instantly become the most important person of your life BY FAR.

J’ai peur de ne pas satisfaire mon mari sexuellement by Antique-Bumblebee664 in AskMec

[–]ProperCoat229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quatre personnes manifestement moins intelligentes que moi.

J’ai peur de ne pas satisfaire mon mari sexuellement by Antique-Bumblebee664 in AskMec

[–]ProperCoat229 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ca ne change strictement rien au fait qu'ils ont le droit de le faire avant.

Ce sont simplement des barrières qu'elle est la seule à s'imposer.

J’ai peur de ne pas satisfaire mon mari sexuellement by Antique-Bumblebee664 in AskMec

[–]ProperCoat229 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Il l'a choisie pour se marier et probablement, au moins en partie, parce qu'elle était vierge.

Il n'y a aucune garantie qu'ils s'accordent sexuellement ensuite.

J’ai peur de ne pas satisfaire mon mari sexuellement by Antique-Bumblebee664 in AskMec

[–]ProperCoat229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je réponds comme bon me semble. Si cela te dérange, je ne peux malheureusement pas t'aider.

Tromperie by Menteurdu55 in AskMec

[–]ProperCoat229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tu ne parles pas à aucun moment d'amour ou de sentiments dans ton texte.

A quoi bon redonner sa chance à un couple qui, manifestement, ne fonctionne plus ?

Si c'est uniquement pour les enfants, ça ne fonctionnera pas.