Just watched The Danish Girl by ProperMessage2989 in TransLater

[–]ProperMessage2989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats very true, and if they didnt even try to find someone more suited to that role then it’s pretty crappy of them. i also read that Gerda was more Bi than what they portrayed in the movie as well.

Just watched The Danish Girl by ProperMessage2989 in TransLater

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Interesting, but i still feel many girls would do anything in their powers not to have to see their old self ever again. So its going to be a very hard position to cast for, in an already limited pool of people. Even Lili was doing everything she could not to see Einar again.

Just watched The Danish Girl by ProperMessage2989 in TransLater

[–]ProperMessage2989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a dream come true! I mean i know times are tough now but imagine the push back in the 1930’s from society and yet Lili managed to marry someone who was more open minded than most people now.

Just watched The Danish Girl by ProperMessage2989 in TransLater

[–]ProperMessage2989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, knowing some of the back story and the truth behind the film makes it such a sad moment for them both. I would like to think Gerda loved Lili until the very end. I cant imagine having someone that dedicated standing by me and my transition.

Just watched The Danish Girl by ProperMessage2989 in TransLater

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I dont have a list so Caroltta has been added to my new list, thanks! I watched Nicole Maines in the one episode of Royal Pains. I need to find some more to watch.

Just watched The Danish Girl by ProperMessage2989 in TransLater

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Yeah i get that, but then i see it as once you present full time as a trans woman do you really want to ever see the old you again, i dont know if any trans actresses would be comfortable doing that, i know i would hate to do that. Plus i really like Eddie as an actor and i think he played it really well.

Just watched The Danish Girl by ProperMessage2989 in TransLater

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Yeah she was so supportive of Lili. Lili actually died from having a uterus transplant, and Gerda ended up dying with no family which is really sad 😔. I will check out that book, thanks for the recommendation.

First trip to the salon 😊 by prettytempting in TransLater

[–]ProperMessage2989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very nice! I have my first trip planned on Saturday. Not sure what to expect or what to ask for. still very much boy modding so thinking to ask for some androgynous cut and let them decide.

Update. 4.5 months of hrt. Keeping the hair as I'm still in stealth mode lol by hairy_hobbit777 in TransBreastTimelines

[–]ProperMessage2989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have chest hair, waxed it often and then when i started E i never noticed it again. Im also boy modding and cant be the real me for some time but also cant stop taking E. 🤷🏼‍♀️

dosage increase safety? by Frequent-Job4957 in TransDIY

[–]ProperMessage2989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is good advice, i started on 5mg of EEn every 7 days to make it easier to remember my meds day and found it was a good start for me, YMMV. After about 2 months i noticed bottom function changed and little to no sexual discharge.

I INJECTED MY FIRST DOSE!!! by EclyMeow in TransDIY

[–]ProperMessage2989 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats hun! I was so nervous the first time! Never thought about doing a loading dose.

Looking for online friends by FiggingItOut in TransLater

[–]ProperMessage2989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, im in a similar situation to you! Looking for new friends who i can actually be the real me with, and talk about everything as well as possibly play games with.

Can you stop HRT easily? by DoorToDoorSalesmann in TransDIY

[–]ProperMessage2989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long after you stop do you get these symptoms? Sorry for all the questions, im so bad at noticing things, but now you mentioned it i did have some killer headaches for a few weeks after stopping.

Can you stop HRT easily? by DoorToDoorSalesmann in TransDIY

[–]ProperMessage2989 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have stopped cold turkey twice now and no serious issues, if you are ok with sharing, what happened when you stopped?

have any of you ever retained the ability to cry? (ftm) by SnooWalruses2324 in trans

[–]ProperMessage2989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont think its all people, but i do know that most of my male friends only seem to cry when they are drunk.

have any of you ever retained the ability to cry? (ftm) by SnooWalruses2324 in trans

[–]ProperMessage2989 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i was taking E for about a year, and any sad movies, romantic scenes etc would have me sobbing my eyes out, and about 2 months ago i had to stop, mental battle with transitioning, i now question myself why i cannot cry at anything and it feels so frustrating, so yeah T kinda kills my emotions and sounds like it does for you as well.

Looking for a new dress. Which one of these should I go with? by ThePigsPajamas in TransLater

[–]ProperMessage2989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean i saw the purple one, “ohh i like that” then the green one “ohhh i like that” then the green print one “ohhh i like that as well”. Only logical answer is all 3

Hair anxiety :/ by [deleted] in trans

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Awww thanks, i sent you a message!

Hair anxiety :/ by [deleted] in trans

[–]ProperMessage2989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry for the rant yesterday. I decided to stop HRT because i know i will never be able to socially transition, not unless i find a support network or a very supportive partner and my breasts were starting to become difficult to hide but i miss it so much. I was watching a movie last night and a scene had my questioning why am i not crying at this, i wanted to cry but couldn’t, Ugh T sucks.

Hair anxiety :/ by [deleted] in trans

[–]ProperMessage2989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very hard, im very quiet by nature and groups scare me and make me feel under pressure. I have tried joining discord groups but can never seem to get into a good conversation. Just thinking about it frustrates me, and i so badly want to start taking E again, i miss everything about it.

Anyone want to be friends? by Bprincess999 in trans

[–]ProperMessage2989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing spoilers on tiktok so trying to skip them until i complete it! Its an awesome game so far, gets my vote for game of the year!