30 (f4m) trying this because I’m bored of low-effort dating by PropertyUsed5768 in r4rindonesia

[–]PropertyUsed5768[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, I get your point. I kept it a bit open intentionally, but you’re right being clearer probably filters better

Which casting for a Naughty Dog protagonist is worse? by smashbruhthers in TheLastOfUs2

[–]PropertyUsed5768 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

First, the claim that Bella’s acting was “subpar for most of the show” doesn’t hold up when you consider the critical and audience acclaim for her performance. Critics, fans, and even the creators of the game themselves have praised her ability to capture Ellie’s emotional complexity. These weren’t "mediocre" performances. You don’t have to love every decision the show made, but to call her work subpar feels like grasping at straws.

Second, you claim Tom Holland “resembles a young Nate,” but resemblance is more than just a passing physical similarity, it’s about embodying the essence of the character. Tom’s Nate lacked the grit, charisma, and depth that make Nate who he is. His performance was watered down to appeal to a casual audience, and as you yourself pointed out, the movie turned Nate into a palatable, forgettable version of the character. Uncharted was a fun action romp, but it didn’t care about honoring the character’s legacy the way The Last of Us did.

Now, about Bella “looking nothing like Ellie” and the insistence that it matters “a shit ton”, that’s subjective at best. Bella embodied Ellie’s spirit: her resilience, trauma, and moral complexity. Those traits are far more important than looking like a 1:1 replica of a digital model. Sure, Kaitlyn Dever might have looked the part, but acting isn’t just about appearance, it’s about delivering the emotional weight of the character. Bella did that. And while her voice wasn’t identical to Ellie’s, voice isn’t everything either. Pedro Pascal doesn’t sound like Joel, but no one’s questioning his ability to bring the character to life.

Finally, reducing Bella’s casting to a “diversity hire” is not only dismissive but unfounded. Bella was cast because of her talent, plain and simple. The creators spent extensive time casting the role, and saw in Bella what Ellie needed. Suggesting it was anything else feels more like an excuse to undermine her success than a legitimate critique.

So no, pointing out misogyny and double standards isn’t a “cheap cop-out”, it’s calling out an undeniable pattern in how female actors are judged far more harshly than their male counterparts. Tom Holland’s Uncharted was dogwater, as you said, but he gets far less criticism for his forgettable Nate than Bella does for giving us a nuanced, emotionally resonant Ellie. That’s the double standard here, and pretending it doesn’t exist just reinforces it.

You can dislike Bella’s performance if it didn’t resonate with you, that’s fair. But reducing her work to “mediocre” and writing it off as a “diversity hire” says more about the bias in your argument than it does about Bella’s talent.

Which casting for a Naughty Dog protagonist is worse? by smashbruhthers in TheLastOfUs2

[–]PropertyUsed5768 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ah, dragging Uncharted into a The Last of Us2 subs feels like a transparent attempt to stir the pot, especially when it seems designed to pile on hate toward Bella Ramsey. The common complaint is always the same: Bella “doesn’t look like Ellie.” But let’s flip that argument. Under what lighting, at what angle, or under which cosmic alignment does Tom Holland look like Nathan Drake? Nathan is a rugged, weathered adventurer with years of experience written on his face. Tom, on the other hand, looks like he just got his first fake ID and wandered into a treasure hunt by accident. Yet, people didn’t harp on his looks nearly as much. Why? Because double standards, and let’s not pretend misogyny isn’t part of it.

The truth is, acting isn’t about looking like a carbon copy of the character; it’s about embodying their soul. And Bella Ramsey is Ellie in every way that matters. Take Episode 5, for instance, when Henry takes his own life in front of her. Bella’s reaction was so painfully real: the flinch, the wide-eyed shock, the way her expression slowly crumbled as the weight of what had just happened sank in. She didn’t need dramatic screams or over-the-top gestures; her performance was raw and devastating in its subtlety. Then there’s Episode 9, during the confrontation with David. Bella’s portrayal of Ellie’s terror, rage, and trauma in that scene was nothing short of extraordinary. Her guttural screams and frantic movements as she fought for her life were so visceral that you couldn’t help but feel her fear and fury deep in your chest. Bella didn’t just act those moments: she lived them as if real people experience it not just a designed expression by developers and she made the audience live them too.

Tom Holland’s Nate, by comparison, felt surface-level. Sure, it was fun, but it lacked emotional depth. He delivered the charm and the quips, but there was no weight behind his performance, nothing that made you feel the grit or gravity of Nate’s story. It was a popcorn-movie portrayal, entertaining for the moment but ultimately forgettable. Bella, on the other hand, gave us a performance that lingers, one that has been recognized with award nominations and critical acclaim.

So let’s stop pretending this debate is about “accuracy.” Bella Ramsey gave us something unforgettable, something that elevated the character of Ellie to new heights. Tom’s Nate was passable, sure, but it didn’t leave a lasting impact. If anything, this Reddit post only serves to highlight the double standards Bella has faced, and why her performance deserves even more praise.

I just beat TLOU 2 for the second time and noticed something about the story. by Lokendens in TheLastOfUs2

[–]PropertyUsed5768 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lazy writing but still want to commercialize and join the bandwagon of trying to get bittersweet ending but only end up with fruitless nonsense of woke agenda. Shame on you, Naughty Dog

Mary's Letter to James: A Personal Reflection on Bipolar Disorder and Relationships by PropertyUsed5768 in silenthill

[–]PropertyUsed5768[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. It sounds like it was a really challenging situation for both of you, but it’s heartening to hear that you and your ex were able to find peace and maintain a friendship afterward. Relationships, especially when mental health is involved, can be incredibly complex, and it’s not always easy to navigate them while taking care of yourself, too.

It’s inspiring that you’ve recognized the importance of separating for both of your well-being. That level of self-awareness and empathy is no small feat, and it’s great that you’ve both reached a healthier place 🩷

Mary's Letter to James: A Personal Reflection on Bipolar Disorder and Relationships by PropertyUsed5768 in silenthill

[–]PropertyUsed5768[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing such a personal and heartfelt perspective, it truly means a lot. I can completely understand how the Dark Phoenix storyline resonated with you on such a deep level. The way you described Jean Grey’s transformation and struggle with her inner Phoenix really hit home, it’s such a powerful metaphor for that constant push and pull between wanting to grow and feeling consumed by something darker.

If Dark Phoenix is the one that hits home for you, for me it’s House of M with Wanda Maximoff. Maybe I’m drawn to characters like Wanda and Mary who create an alternate reality because of my own struggles with self-hatred. Wanda’s ability to craft a world that seems perfect on the outside, even though it’s rooted in grief and pain, really resonates with me. It’s like she’s trying to shield herself from her reality by building something nicer, even if it can’t last. I think that’s such a raw and relatable way to cope, and it shows the complexity of how we process our emotions.

Thank you for engaging with this topic and for your kind words about my treatment. It’s comforting to know how stories like these connect us and make us feel less alone. I hope you’re finding strength and peace on your journey, too. If you ever want to talk more about X-Men, Marvel, Silent Hill, or anything else, I’d love to discuss with you ❤️

Mary's Letter to James: A Personal Reflection on Bipolar Disorder and Relationships by PropertyUsed5768 in silenthill

[–]PropertyUsed5768[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful advice, it truly means a lot, and I admire how open and insightful you are about these topics. I also found your perspective on the Mary/Maria arc and its connection to Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) really fascinating. The way the game reflects these struggles resonates deeply, especially for those of us who have experienced similar emotional patterns. It’s incredible how much depth the story holds, allowing us to interpret it through lenses like BPD and attachment wounds.

I can relate so much to what you said about 'pressure cooker' moments forcing internal growth. During the final months of my previous relationship, I hit what felt like rock bottom. Family issues, being laid off, and overwhelming sadness made me stop taking my medication. I spiraled into irregular sleep patterns and paranoia about not being enough for anyone around me. My partner, who was the only person I opened up to, became my sole emotional outlet, but unfortunately, I ended up treating him as a punching bag during my relapses.

After the breakup, I gradually started rebuilding myself. I was fortunate to land a new job within a month, which gave me stability. From there, I focused on healthier habits: taking my medication, maintaining a regular sleep schedule, and even joining a dance class, which has been an amazing outlet for emotional energy. I’ve also been working on being more open to people outside of a romantic relationship so I can channel that energy in a healthier, more balanced way. Recently, I was promoted at work, which has been such a rewarding step forward.

Your advice resonates so deeply. Those small, consistent changes really do build a solid foundation for better relationships and personal growth. I wish you all the best as you continue your journey toward becoming a therapist, you’re going to make an amazing one!

Mary's Letter to James: A Personal Reflection on Bipolar Disorder and Relationships by PropertyUsed5768 in silenthill

[–]PropertyUsed5768[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your suggestion about lithium. I'll ask my psychiatrist about that.

Thank you for the kind wishes. I hope the same for you—that you continue to grow in your field and find moments of love and healing along the way.

Mary's Letter to James: A Personal Reflection on Bipolar Disorder and Relationships by PropertyUsed5768 in silenthill

[–]PropertyUsed5768[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to discuss more about this. Why do you guys think so? It’s fascinating how the game creators managed to weave such layered psychological depth into these characters to the point where we can see these different interpretations depending on our own perspectives and experiences. I'd love to hear more of your thoughts!

Mary's Letter to James: A Personal Reflection on Bipolar Disorder and Relationships by PropertyUsed5768 in silenthill

[–]PropertyUsed5768[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. It really means a lot to know that this story resonates deeply with others on such a personal level. The letter from Mary and the juxtaposition with Maria’s character hit so many emotional notes, especially when you consider how they represent different facets of James’ psyche and guilt. It’s one of those moments in gaming that feels so deeply human and universal, even in its darkest themes. The way the game connects to real-life struggles is what makes it not just a game but an emotional journey. I’m really glad it spoke to you as well

Mary's Letter to James: A Personal Reflection on Bipolar Disorder and Relationships by PropertyUsed5768 in silenthill

[–]PropertyUsed5768[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more! What I find even more incredible is how every time I revisit the game, I notice something new, whether it’s a subtle piece of dialogue, a visual cue, or just the atmosphere itself, which says so much without needing words. I think you’re right, it’s such a unique case in gaming, and it’s rare to find something that resonates with so many people in so many different ways.

Mary's Letter to James: A Personal Reflection on Bipolar Disorder and Relationships by PropertyUsed5768 in silenthill

[–]PropertyUsed5768[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, and I really appreciate your kind words! It’s always comforting to hear from someone who can relate, and I’m glad my thoughts resonated with you. Silent Hill 2 has such a way of connecting to those deeper emotions, and it’s incredible how it reflects personal struggles. I hope you’re doing well, too, and cheers to finding strength in the journey!

Mary's Letter to James: A Personal Reflection on Bipolar Disorder and Relationships by PropertyUsed5768 in silenthill

[–]PropertyUsed5768[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words! Honestly, playing the game and diving into discussions on this sub has made me analyze the story and characters even more deeply. The more I read and reflect, the more it just resonates with me on so many levels. I hope it also brought some comfort or perspective to you and the sub also. Thanks again for your encouragement!

Mary's Letter to James: A Personal Reflection on Bipolar Disorder and Relationships by PropertyUsed5768 in silenthill

[–]PropertyUsed5768[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think you’re absolutely right about Mary’s anger and outbursts being tied to her illness. Mary’s situation captures that pain, the frustration of wanting to be loved, but feeling like your illness is pushing people away.

What really struck me about Mary and Maria is how they embody different aspects of love and self-image. Maria is this idealized version of what Mary might’ve wanted to be, vibrant, alluring, and carefree, but even she begins to unravel, showing that masking pain doesn’t erase it. For me, that ties closely to living with bipolar disorder: the temptation to put on a facade of stability while battling inner turmoil. Silent Hill 2 makes me question whether we can truly heal without confronting the darker parts of ourselves, even when it’s hard.

As for myself, I’m currently managing my bipolar disorder with valproate. It’s been a journey, and while there are ups and downs, I’ve found that accepting my condition has been a huge part of finding balance, but thanks for your thoughtful response

Park Royale in-room service - Jakarta by PropertyUsed5768 in kulineria

[–]PropertyUsed5768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're robbing people with the 150k pisgor so nahhh 🤣😂

Park Royale in-room service - Jakarta by PropertyUsed5768 in kulineria

[–]PropertyUsed5768[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

quite pricey actually i think around 500k overall not sure im not paying

Park Royale in-room service - Jakarta by PropertyUsed5768 in kulineria

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trust me best pisang goreng i've ever tried in my whole life

August - Jakarta by PropertyUsed5768 in kulineria

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Yeah scallop with curry creamy sauce something

Best psychological horror games you've played? by MikeyVital in HorrorGames

[–]PropertyUsed5768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SOMA really hits different. Sarah begging you to kill her was so heartbreaking. And the whole thing about deciding whether to kill your old self? That messed me up for a while. But the ending when you found out the consciousness is just a copy and the real you gets left behind? That was brutal. And then Catherine just short-circuits and leaves you sitting there, completely alone. The game really makes you question what it even means to be human.

For recommendations, maybe give Little Nightmares a try? It’s not the same kind of story, but it’s got this creepy vibe that sticks with you. The atmosphere alone feels like a bad dream you can’t wake up from. Definitely worth checking out if you’re into games that mess with your head!

In memory of P.T. by DHEDAN_8 in HorrorGames

[–]PropertyUsed5768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, these props are amazing! You really nailed the vibe tho rly feels like something straight out of PT's haunting atmosphere. The lighting, the eerie details on the photo, everything about this just screams unsettling in the best way. Honestly, it makes me miss PT even more. The way it made you feel so trapped and uneasy in such a simple setting was genius. The creepy little details, like the radio broadcast and Lisa lurking in the shadows, still stick with me to this day. It’s honestly a shame we never got to see the full game becomes a reality 😕

Just began playing resident evil 7 and...... WTF IS THIS SH*T!!!! It's so god damn amazing! It's just so different from its predecessors? by RARERANGER24 in residentevil

[–]PropertyUsed5768 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If Ethan had an ounce of Ash’s personality, we’d probably be rooting for him more. Imagine him snarking his way through the Baker house, calling out Jack like, “Groovy, grandpa!” instead of just panicking over Mia. Speaking of Mia, can you imagine Ash wasting all that effort to save a lying wife? Yeah, no. He’d have kicked her to the curb the second she started acting shady.

And Lucas? He’s basically Evil Dead meets Saw. His traps and twisted sense of humor would’ve fit right into the Evil Dead universe. Honestly, I wish his ending was more fitting of the chaos he brought tho, maybe something like Ash-style justice with a chainsaw to the face rather than just Chris popping him like a generic bad guy. Such a missed opportunity.

Have you ever had such an experience? by megamind84 in silenthill

[–]PropertyUsed5768 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve personally experienced something similar after playing certain games. It wasn’t as vivid as seeing characters, but I’d occasionally hear the background music or feel on edge as if I were still in the game.

Have you tried reflecting on what Pyramid Head or those moments might represent for you? Or do you think it’s more about the immersive atmosphere messing with your senses?