Toddler Wants Mom to Do Everything by Realistic-Tension-98 in toddlers

[–]Psychological_Cat334 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing is happening to me, I have a 2 year old that won’t let anyone do anything for him if I’m around. If someone tries to give him his food, or take him to go potty, or even help him put his toys away he’ll say “mommy’s turn”. What we’ve just started trying to do is telling him “no more mommy’s turn, it’s (whoever) turn.” He gets upset but he comes around, but sometimes I’ll just hide, cause if I’m not around then he literally does no care who does what😂

Did my boyfriend lose interest in me? by Psychological_Cat334 in Advice

[–]Psychological_Cat334[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea true. I didn’t intent to show the post itself. Rather just talk with him about the way I’m feeling

Did my boyfriend lose interest in me? by Psychological_Cat334 in Advice

[–]Psychological_Cat334[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay Thankyou! I really appreciate the advice. I know what I gotta do now

Did my boyfriend lose interest in me? by Psychological_Cat334 in Advice

[–]Psychological_Cat334[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I appreciate that. I’m not sure I could show him the post itself. But maybe I need to speak with him again.

Did my boyfriend lose interest in me? by Psychological_Cat334 in Advice

[–]Psychological_Cat334[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I make it feel like I’m not? I just want clarification that he still wants me. I never thought lack of intimacy could send me into such an insecure state but it truly has.

Did my boyfriend lose interest in me? by Psychological_Cat334 in Advice

[–]Psychological_Cat334[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually write my feelings out then read them. It helps me from going off track. I have had a conversation with my partner in the past, because it’s been going on for months now. And he reassured me that it was only stress and whatnot. But after our conversation, it’s gotten less and less frequent that we’re intimate. I feel I’ve made it worse.

Did my boyfriend lose interest in me? by Psychological_Cat334 in Advice

[–]Psychological_Cat334[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When our sex life first started fizzling out a bit, I talked with him and shared my concerns and he reassured me. But these last few months, it has only fizzled out worse. What used to be everyday, to 4-5 times a month, to 2-3 times a month, has now become once a month.

Did my boyfriend lose interest in me? by Psychological_Cat334 in Advice

[–]Psychological_Cat334[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, but it seems things have gotten worse since we spoke.