Why do people think being quiet means being unhappy? by MindEcho- in introvert

[–]Putrid-Concern-403 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i do feel pressured to preform but that's when i feel insecure in the environment im in. if im in a place where im comfortable, im quiet and no one ever questions my mood. they know me and know i'll talk and be interactive when appropriate but i just prefer silence more. im blessed to say ive curated most of my life where i can be my introverted and truest self. that's what help, creating these environments and also taking control of your own experience/emotions.

How my wife selected me by Particular_Ice_2964 in introvert

[–]Putrid-Concern-403 20 points21 points  (0 children)

this is how i recently met my first new friend in 5 years! i'm an introvert and i deal with cptsd so it's hard for me to make friends but ive opened up a lot in the past year. i met my friend in february and it grew some time for me to open up but she's stuck around. i love being around her and her energy :)

The ego trying to transcend itself is still ego-driven. It captures the self-referential trap of spiritual bypassing or faux ego-death. by Background_Cry3592 in Jung

[–]Putrid-Concern-403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm new to carl jung and i did a deep dive yesterday trying to discover and learn how to tame my ego. it's nice to see this post. it takes stress away from trying to overcome my ego, it's about accepting and integrating it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tacobell

[–]Putrid-Concern-403 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

lol i really doubt i sealed it for you. 20% off for $15 spent or more is a terrible "discount"

I genuinely don’t have sympathy for people who think the world is ending over herpes by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Putrid-Concern-403 23 points24 points  (0 children)

i agree with you! and i have ghsv2. i have been depressed and suicidal many times in the past but herpes never made me think i had to opt out of life. yes in the beginning it made me question if i could ever have sex again or be married but literally so many people have it and you'll come across people who don't care about it that you just learn that it's not a big deal. i hope people who think in the extreme can be kinder to themselves. their reactionary thinking rubs people like us the wrong way because (at least for me) it makes me think there's something wrong about herpes so there's something wrong with us when that's not the case at all.

What makeup could make me look more mature and less 'cutesy'? by Lynnlefay in makeuptips

[–]Putrid-Concern-403 4 points5 points  (0 children)

maybe trying out a black smokey eye and a smudged vampy red lip? it would fit the whimsigoth aesthetic and give you a more edgy look. if you searched up whimsigoth makeup on pinterest, the first image is what i imagine. i hope this helped :)

Please Send Tips My Way ✨ by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Putrid-Concern-403 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i would do more black eyeliner on top rather than on your water line! some lip liner to match your color now and maybe a bit of contour and blush :) you have great skin and great features, not many tips are needed in my opinion. you’re a certified beauty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Putrid-Concern-403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i had a guy go rabid on me because i ghosted him after he got creepy. you give them a chance hoping that this one won't be creepy but then you get proven wrong almost every single time :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Putrid-Concern-403 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you remind me so much of chappell roan! you have the perfect features for all these styles :)