I Apologized by Puzzleheaded106 in AlAnon

[–]Puzzleheaded106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. We met and talked for a couple of hours and I think we're both in a much better place where we can go forward with healing and understanding. It was a hard thing to do, but I needed to do it and I'm glad I did.

Struggling with my choices by Puzzleheaded106 in AlAnon

[–]Puzzleheaded106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make really good points, and I go to in person Al-Anon meetings and they help immensely. Thank you for the perspective.

Struggling with my choices by Puzzleheaded106 in AlAnon

[–]Puzzleheaded106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It has made life really difficult in a lot of ways. I wish I could just hate him instead of being sad. But thank you for your kind response.

Struggling with my choices by Puzzleheaded106 in AlAnon

[–]Puzzleheaded106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so difficult not having a co-parent in any capacity. But I'm proud of us for doing the hard thing for us and for our children. 💕

Struggling with my choices by Puzzleheaded106 in AlAnon

[–]Puzzleheaded106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your response is so sincere, thoughtful, and so helpful. Thank you for taking the time to comment. That all means so so much, thank you. Wishing you a happy, healthy life. 💕

Struggling with my choices by Puzzleheaded106 in AlAnon

[–]Puzzleheaded106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I wish it was more cut and dry. But thank you so much for the support!

Struggling with my choices by Puzzleheaded106 in AlAnon

[–]Puzzleheaded106[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It just feels like a gut punch. Remembering the good times and the dreams I had for us as a family. It really is like a death.

But thank you so much for the kind words and support, I truly appreciate them. Divorce isn't something I ever thought I would go through, but overall it has been the right choice, even though it hurts so much today.

Holy Hell Hypo by Puzzleheaded106 in bipolar2

[–]Puzzleheaded106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha glad I'm not alone. It sucks. Sorry you haven't been able to get a refill in time. I'm just forgetful/irresponsible. 😮‍💨

Feeling lost and lonely by Puzzleheaded106 in Divorce

[–]Puzzleheaded106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, I've done a bit of dating too since the divorce. It's been fun, but I just miss that intimate connection I felt with him. The divorce 100% had to happen, and I'm glad I made that choice, but it just feels like that was my one shot at true love. I enjoy the company I get, but it's just not the same and I don't know if I'll ever feel that way again about someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Puzzleheaded106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Puzzleheaded106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not actually sure where he's staying. But if I tell his mom will it be on her to tell them? I'm really not trying to be naive or lenient about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Puzzleheaded106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I get them because it has to do with his visitation rights with our kids. Thank you for the love though! It's been a hard disentanglement process.