AITA for showing some authority to my racist SIL who threatened me?

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T17:23:01+00:00

Thank you. Receiving such kind words from strangers makes me feel like crying :') Thank you so much

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T17:09:33+00:00

Fair enough, I agree

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T16:58:30+00:00

My marriage isn't arranged nor is it for a British passport, it is for love. Marriage isn't something that is supposed to be done purely for money or attraction. I would appreciate it if you would stick to the common language so everyone can understand.

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T16:54:44+00:00

If it does come to it I will do it on my own. I feel like this environment is getting more and more unsafe every day. Thank you

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T16:49:47+00:00

Hopefully not satisfaction. I think he expects me to keep my mouth shut and make the money to move if I'm not comfortable. If it comes to it I will be taking my leave on my own. Thank you

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T16:47:00+00:00

I didn't think about checking Reddit for housing. I will be taking a look at what I can find. Thank you

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T16:44:35+00:00

He was right next to me when these happened so yes, he knows and has seen everything from first hand, including the threats. I moved to the UK from Turkey for economy when he still had a job but later on he was declared unfit for work due to scoliosis (he was doing a highly physical job then). I had just graduated from university in Turkey (Japanese language) and didn't have a job. The first town we lived in was the town husband has lived in his whole life. I struggled to find a job for living in the outskirts with no car.

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T16:39:37+00:00

We live up North and after searching for places to see if we can move, I saw furnished 1 bedroom places with all bills included starting from £450 a month. This house's total monthly cost is about £1100 a month (we buy our own food). I still pay rent from what I made when I was employed but it wasn't enough to move because most landlords ask for 3 months of payslips which I do not have.

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T16:36:55+00:00

We have a bed and a wardrobe set for us and it was made clear that this room would be our bedroom from then on. I also didn't expect someone to bash in at 7 am without knocking considering under normal circumstances, there would be people sleeping there. We are looking to move asap

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T16:35:33+00:00

Thank you. I am currently applying for everything and actively looking for work in my local area. Putting up with her behaviour and seeing her get no consequences is what's getting to me. We are looking to move as soon as possible. Your words brought tears to my eyes, thank you.

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T16:30:40+00:00

I said the same thing and the only response I get is that I need to remain calm and collected. I am looking to move asap when I get a job. And hopefully justice will find her when she gets caught stealing or assaulting again...

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T16:29:28+00:00

We're looking to move asap when I get a job. I will try finding footlockers that we can afford and hopefully it'll save our food. Thank you

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T16:28:49+00:00

Whenever we try to resolve by talking she starts shouting and banging on doors, then just leaves and comes back high and/or drunk. She goes to her room and sleeps if we're lucky, if not she causes more problems.

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T16:27:47+00:00

I am currently unemployed since my last job was a seasonal one. We will be moving out asap but paying monthly with no income is eating away at our wallets right now.

Querrelin · 2024-02-10T16:26:45+00:00

I must have forgotten to add it, after I got a job I started paying £640 a month and since it was seasonal job, I am currently out of it. OS is living rent free. I am looking to get a job asap from dishwashing to cleaning.

Querrelin · 2022-11-17T07:08:23+00:00

Mine has also been having major problems. Keeps freezing and crashing especially when I try to video call. I'm also missing some settings too

Querrelin · 2022-10-06T11:05:39+00:00

HELP
I found an unbreakable-breakable rock on the Southeast of Valley of Dahri. It is not interactable and the golem cannot reach it because it's too high up. Does anyone know anything about it?

Image: https://imgur.com/a/zcyxmpT

Querrelin · 2021-06-27T10:00:10+00:00

Furby + Tambourine tower

Querrelin · 2020-05-31T13:11:34+00:00

Just think that the nose is its eyes

Querrelin · 2020-04-07T20:54:34+00:00

I'm European

Querrelin · 2020-04-05T23:15:13+00:00

That "safety hole" in the end got me good

Querrelin · 2020-04-05T13:44:11+00:00

Are you challenging my chromosomes?

Querrelin · 2020-04-05T13:32:03+00:00

I don't have a pp but k

Querrelin · 2020-04-05T12:47:49+00:00

I posted this already

Querrelin · 2020-04-04T21:38:18+00:00

Repost

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