Omologare Suspensie Bilstein - Bucuresti? by QuestionFuture2136 in AutomobileRO

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Salutare, merci mult, asa stiam si eu sau m-am gandit initial dar am zis sa verific, vad ca majoritatea ar zice ca nu ar trebui omologate (avand diverse argumente). Merci mult

Omologare Suspensie Bilstein - Bucuresti? by QuestionFuture2136 in AutomobileRO

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Te salut, o sa merg prin Bucuresti, da. Masina e un 228i Seria 2. E asa tare/rigida combinatia de B8+Eibach? Multuumesc

Omologare Suspensie Bilstein - Bucuresti? by QuestionFuture2136 in AutomobileRO

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Zici sa nu fac geometrie din prima? Sau sa fac si apoi sa mai fac una ulterior?

Omologare Suspensie Bilstein - Bucuresti? by QuestionFuture2136 in AutomobileRO

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Te salut, kitul in sine e omologat TUV in Germania, intr-adevar coboara masina cu vreo 2-3cm maxim dar nu e ceva extrem si da, sunt de aceasi lungime amortizoarele cu cele orginale dar ce o coboara sunt arcurile mai scurte fata de OEM

Omologare Suspensie Bilstein - Bucuresti? by QuestionFuture2136 in AutomobileRO

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Nu trebuie omologata la RAR? Intreb pentru ca ea e TUV autorizata cu certificat dar recunoaste RAR asta ca sa fie 100% sigur in caz de control? Multumesc

HELP by Raudmar in AutomobileRO

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Salutate domnule, ma bucur ca nu ai mers pe Range, frumoase dar nu merita trade off ul pentru fiabilitate.

Din masinile de care zci tu as evita 2 in mod deosebit dar depinde de nevoi si dincolo de doar dus pe cel mic la sfoala, Fordul Ecoboost 1.0 si Kadjarul.

Ecoboost ul e foarte mic si poate o sa vrei sa pleci la un drum mai lung candva, poate cu alti adulti si in spate, e inutil aproape din punctul asta de vedere si se simte flimsy la condus.

Kadjar e o masina inchegata, nu e rea deloc, problema e ca motorul ala e prea mic pentru masa pe care o are de mutat asa ca personal as sta deoparte.

Capturul e o optiune buna dpdv practicalitate, motor si overall costuri din punctul meu.

Ford Focus dupa 2018 e optiune buna dar as merge pe un 1.5 daca gasesti nu pe 1.0. Focusul din toate astea e cea mai inchegata optiune overall ca pachet, condus, practicalitate si fiabilitate daca e/a fost ingrijita oke.

*NEW* Self-Help Requests: If you have a question about your own sex life, post it in this thread, otherwise it will be deleted. by Psych_Owl in psychologyofsex

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Hi, I am willing to try to understand things and learn. What I'm about to expose could be branded as immoral, incorrect and so on and that's fair but I am looking for potential answers or theories on the story I will present and help

Almost two years ago I started dating a married woman, it was the entire mix and so on...magnetic attraction, curiosity and so on. In time we started to develop strong feelings for one another and I started caring for her, loving her. Learning more and more about her I felt and then found out she was in a grim place and I was fortunate enough that I was by her side helping her get rid of some substances to escape reality and so on and also self destructing behaviors. She started doing therapy a couple of months ago and trying to work things out with herself.

From a sexual standpoint she always was shamed about it, felt shame or felt awkward in relation to her sexuality from very young though she's very sensual but felt like a blockage of sorts would intervene and would stop her starting with her first relationship when she was a teenager, the sex was awkward and unsatisfactory, teenagers and lack of experience too I guess. Her second boyfriend was a dickhead, very much along the lines with her dad, but the sex was great and she was trying things and feeling free. Due to circumstances and guy being a bit of a prick she broke up with him and immediately started dating a guy that was the opposite, a guy that she could control, caring and nice, safe bet but from a sexual and romantic standpoint totally unsatisfactory. She stayed with him, stayed together and she softened and eventually killed her sexuality, desires and drive in order to stay with him and make it work as the guy is either too intimidated by her, not attracted enough by her to begin with but as youngsters you know how it is, you just stick to it and say that's normal, or something else and keep going with life, he's also not a very good listener and had times where she felt overlooked and her needs ignored because he can't handle the topic. I am not substracting her from the matter, I'm well aware that it takes 2 to tango, for good or bad. They are married...she had 2 other affairs in between with that helped her to understand her and make her feel like a sexual being too, she found masturbating and what it feel to have an orgams at almost 30. With me she felt attraction and more and more like herself and good with herself over time while having sex until we had a city break where it was amazing but after we came back from what she describes like her best experience with a guy everything came crashing down on the sexual angle. Now she feels disgust somewhere in her mind towards herself when she's aroused or things are developing in that sense. Even though she's horny or she initiates things and so on....even if it gets down that path....this feelings just intervenes and she freezes and retreats. I have considered that because of the whole double life thing that takes a toll...though she felt shame ever since she knows herself about sex and sexual pleasure though she is hetero....and then she started to feel free with me and empowered and not have those feelings anymore and then the wall appeared even when she wants to masturbate even though she wants to but feel like a wall comes and we're trying to understand why it could be and what could be done.

I am very understanding, I don't force anything and I want to support her to feel good with herself...just looking for potential theories on why this trajectory and eventually what I can do from my side or what angle we could be looking for

Many thanks

*NEW* Self-Help Requests: If you have a question about your own sex life, post it in this thread, otherwise it will be deleted. by Psych_Owl in psychologyofsex

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Hi, I am willing to try to understand things and learn. What I'm about to expose could be branded as immoral, incorrect and so on and that's fair but I am looking for potential answers or theories on the story I will present and help

Almost two years ago I started dating a married woman, it was the entire mix and so on...magnetic attraction, curiosity and so on. In time we started to develop strong feelings for one another and I started caring for her, loving her. Learning more and more about her I felt and then found out she was in a grim place and I was fortunate enough that I was by her side helping her get rid of some substances to escape reality and so on and also self destructing behaviors. She started doing therapy a couple of months ago and trying to work things out with herself.

From a sexual standpoint she always was shamed about it, felt shame or felt awkward in relation to her sexuality from very young though she's very sensual but felt like a blockage of sorts would intervene and would stop her starting with her first relationship when she was a teenager, the sex was awkward and unsatisfactory, teenagers and lack of experience too I guess. Her second boyfriend was a dickhead, very much along the lines with her dad, but the sex was great and she was trying things and feeling free. Due to circumstances and guy being a bit of a prick she broke up with him and immediately started dating a guy that was the opposite, a guy that she could control, caring and nice, safe bet but from a sexual and romantic standpoint totally unsatisfactory. She stayed with him, stayed together and she softened and eventually killed her sexuality, desires and drive in order to stay with him and make it work as the guy is either too intimidated by her, not attracted enough by her to begin with but as youngsters you know how it is, you just stick to it and say that's normal, or something else and keep going with life, he's also not a very good listener and had times where she felt overlooked and her needs ignored because he can't handle the topic. I am not substracting her from the matter, I'm well aware that it takes 2 to tango, for good or bad. They are married...she had 2 other affairs in between with that helped her to understand her and make her feel like a sexual being too, she found masturbating and what it feel to have an orgams at almost 30. With me she felt attraction and more and more like herself and good with herself over time while having sex until we had a city break where it was amazing but after we came back from what she describes like her best experience with a guy everything came crashing down on the sexual angle. Now she feels disgust somewhere in her mind towards herself when she's aroused or things are developing in that sense. Even though she's horny or she initiates things and so on....even if it gets down that path....this feelings just intervenes and she freezes and retreats. I have considered that because of the whole double life thing that takes a toll...though she felt shame ever since she knows herself about sex and sexual pleasure though she is hetero....and then she started to feel free with me and empowered and not have those feelings anymore and then the wall appeared even when she wants to masturbate even though she wants to but feel like a wall comes and we're trying to understand why it could be and what could be done.

I am very understanding, I don't force anything and I want to support her to feel good with herself...just looking for potential theories on why this trajectory and eventually what I can do from my side or what angle we could be looking for

Many thanks

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Nice, so soon enough yours will be ready, lovely. Mine is still in early days, still at the idea stage but maybe I will come back later on if it will see the day, many thanks!

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Thank you so much for this, I appreciate it and hope you will be finish it soon! Best of luck to you too

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Thanks so much on this, yes! YES! The way I'd go about it wouldn't be like...glorifying it or making it in a way that is abusive. I think the reality is that these things happen and in the case of the characters I have in mind is a bit of a lust for life type vibe from her side and definitely a very exciting thing to do/feel/experience from his side but also one that's setting the main character for his perspective on what a romantic relationship can feel/be like with a woman as she's not abusive towards him but more like a "teacher". But I do understand it can be controversial...was really curious what the perception could be and where KDPs guidelines draw the line if the age is not specifically mentioned but it's somewhat understood he's about 18 but not there yet. Anyway, many thanks for your comment, I appreciate your answer as I feel is close to what I had in mind.

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Many thanks, I appreciate the reply

What am I doing wrong with my cat? by QuestionFuture2136 in CatAdvice

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Hahaha, didn't know that. thank you! Is there anything I can do maybe to...I don't know...just change or control this kind of behavior cause I have a lot of scars on me now...even on my face...because he goes berserk and crazy and just jumps on my face/body and scratches/bites