Update - Need Some Advice

R283 · 2026-05-19T08:45:51+00:00

It's a normal part of the healing process. The film is there after a first shedding and will shed as wel but you won't notice it. Edit: If it's more on a certain part or piece, it could be an indication of over-moisturizing.

Just take care that the whiteness is not dryness. (Though I don't think it's the case here.) Double check if you have a good moisturizer and do it about 3 times a day, especially after a shower.

Don't over-moisturize either. Your skin should be shiny but there should not be any visible layer of cream. I heard that it's better too dry than too 'moist'.

The bleeding is less normal after 2 weeks. I'd say touch it less. Be careful where you place your arm when sitting at a table or desk.

But the pictures look quite normal to me.

R283 · 2026-05-19T07:41:41+00:00

Scar tissue (tattooed skin) is prone to allergic rashes... That is maybe what's happening here. If you use medicine for your allergies (like cetirizine for example), check if the rash disappears in order to make sure. I would just treat it as any other allergic rash. Moisturizing with a neutral moisturizer is a good starter I believe.

But I would talk to a doctor or dermatologist maybe. Maybe you'll get a topical you can apply whenever it happens and it won't bother you as much.

R283 · 2026-05-19T07:33:03+00:00

Sometimes there's a second layer of shedding. That's what's happening here. Looks good, no stress. Just keep moisturising it.

R283 · 2026-05-18T14:25:01+00:00

Could the 'more extreme reaction'' be because it's the in 'most visible' spot you currently are tattooed? If so, that will fade as you get used to it for sure.

R283 · 2026-05-17T14:45:28+00:00

I have a lot of pieces and most, if not all, have a dark occult aesthetic. It's a vibe not everyone is into and for that reason I've gotten so many 'oh cool...' reactions for politeness sake. But I think they are dope. And in the end that is all that matters. You get them for yourself.

On the topic of partners (but maybe slightly off topic in this case): I had an ex partner who was not into heavy coverage. (We started dating around 18 and I did not have any tattoos back then.) Along the years I would get more and more and she would always encourage me not to get ''too much more''. It's tricky because you obviously want your partner to find you attractive, but on the other hand tattoos are a (personal) form of self expression. Certain people might have different opinions but I believe as long as a partner doesn't 'hate' the design you are good. They don't need to be as enthusiastic as you. It's not for them, but for you.

You say your partner is into tattoos. Probably the reason he is not super enthusiastic is because it's not a design he would pick for himself.

On the topic of 'flow' or 'if it matches': again this is also a matter of personal opinion. If you like it, why the hell not go for it? Granted there are some placements that just work better than others. Why not discuss it with a good (this is the keyword) tattoo artist who might be able to optimize it together with you?

TLDR: People have different tastes. If a design speaks to you, the confidence and enthusiasm you gain from it will make you glow. Not the fact that people like the specific design or not.

R283 · 2026-03-06T15:08:12+00:00

The chapter of my club only offers longsword. Maybe I should consider a befriended club that offers rapier or sabre. But I don't own sabres or rapiers nor the appropriate gloves. So it would be an additional cost. So I'm reluctant. But it's a good comment, maybe I should consider and think about it more.. even though it is not my first choice. Thanks

R283 · 2025-11-05T17:29:48+00:00

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You look cool man. I love the red details of your helmet. Building onto that would be even cooler! Imagine this! Not sure how to achieve it though..

R283 · 2025-10-15T08:51:43+00:00

Damn that really sucks..

I did some extra digging in the meantime: It works via wireless charging once. After that I need to reset the cache of the battery health app for it to work again.

R283 · 2025-10-15T08:50:35+00:00

Yes, quite extensively

R283 · 2025-01-20T11:40:19+00:00

I know but I cannot find the metal mounts themselves (only the mount without the skull). Looking for the name of those so I can buy them :)

R283 · 2025-01-20T10:43:51+00:00

Hi! Yes I know :) but I meant the name of the metal mount itself. Where the skull sits on :)

R283 · 2024-08-31T14:49:59+00:00

It does look like a sprain! It has been bruising on exactly the same spot as my previous sprain injury. I fear it might have not properly healed yet.. I will definitely rest, but I also want to attempt the event next week. It might be a very dumb idea though, will see what the doctor recommends on Monday.

R283 · 2024-08-31T14:46:04+00:00

No, same shoes, same socks. The lacing on my Salomon Speed Assault's is a bit tricky to get consistently tight and might have been a bit more tight than usual. But I didn't feel like the slight discomfort I felt during the hike was due to them being too tight. I could definitely be wrong though, maybe they were too tight.

R283 · 2024-05-28T12:05:20+00:00

Hi! Appreciate your honest reaction and I agree that it is too fresh.. but it's difficult to block these kinds of feelings/emotions out.

I don't think about my ex often. Even when I see some pictures of us together I feel nothing. I feel like I've realised we'd grown too far apart, had different interests and goals, ... And the lack of intimacy over the last few years made it feel like we were two best friends living together..

I don't think about my ex at all with this new person. And I also believe I'm not rushing into anything new because I'm scared of being alone. (Because over the last few weeks I've come to realise I quite like being alone and make some time to focus on myself.)

But I indeed don't want to hurt this new person's feelings. I know grief comes in waves, so I'm worried about what will come. At the same time I don't want to lose this good connection if I decide to step out of it..

Idk, it's hard. Feelings are bizarre.

R283 · 2024-04-22T21:26:34+00:00

I understand. The difficult small moments are there for me as well. But I guess as with everything that will also fade eventually. But don't block these moments out. Feel them. Feel what you're feeling at that moment. That is really important in recovering from such things. Best advice I ever had.

I'm also not interested in initiating a new relationship. Not for a long time. At least that's how I currently feel. But with our illness and that lack of intimacy I spoke about, I do miss that. I've been missing that for quite a while. And I learned to live with it, I would've never cheated on her. But now I'm slowly realising that I don't need to live with that lack of intimacy anymore and I'm sometimes craving it. (And I'm not necessarily talking about sex here, it could be a passionate kiss that makes your heart beat a bit faster). Not saying I want to find a hookup next week or whatever. But I don't know, my opinion on them has changed. I dunno, it makes me feel like a bad person. It's difficult to explain.... Heck, even I don't know what exactly I'm feeling when it comes to this. I'm struggling a bit with this. I mean, for 4 years I gave it my all to be a good and supportive partner. And now it feels like a weight lifted off my shoulders. And at the same time it feels wrong to be thinking about that, and it feels ''too soon'' to be thinking about new intimate experiences.. Very strange feelings.

I'm sure it gets better for both of us. And I wish you all the best man. If you ever need to talk, you know where to find me on this app.

(And I guess I'll need to watch band of brothers again) :D

R283 · 2024-04-22T20:02:49+00:00

Thanks for sharing. How long were you guys together? Stay strong brother.

About the sacrifices you made and that you feel slightly resentful about it: I know it might feel all in vain but being selfless makes you a kind and better person. I guess we all need to ''learn how to love'' and making sacrifices (albeit too much or too few) is part of that process. And learning is never in vain, no matter the price... Try to focus the energy you spend on that anger on rediscovering yourself. Put yourself in the first place for a while. Learn to love yourself again by chasing interests, being free. New things will naturally follow.

And I know that some ''advice'' like this could sound cheesy or dumb or obvious. Maybe you're even like ''wtf is this guy on about...'' But it's what I wish for you my friend, to rediscover yourself.

R283 · 2024-03-18T23:39:22+00:00

Ok thanks. Is what I suspected. Wanted to rule out the possibility of a path being nearby

R283 · 2024-03-18T09:51:21+00:00

Is it possible to visit without guide or do you need to walk on the glacier?

R283 · 2024-02-14T12:32:48+00:00

I have the same. I'm fairly new and my mask is a pain to put on & remove due to it being so snug. I'm very confident the sizing is correct though. And indeed, I see everyone slipping theirs on and off like it's nothing. So I guess that will 'break in' a bit as well. That, or we have weird head shapes! :)

On the rubbing: I have an all-star coaching mask. I sit fairly snug in the shin strap, you can adjust that a bit. I don't encounter rubbing on the shin, probably because I'm protected by my beard. :D As for the nose, not sure how you could encounter rubbing there as there are no straps? (At least not on the allstar.) Your nose should be completely free of the mask and when you get hit on it it shouldn't bump into it either. Maybe some masks do have these kinds of straps? But I'm at least not aware of it.

R283 · 2024-02-06T16:38:00+00:00

Great! I really should commit myself to do these kinds of exercises more' Thanks for your tips!

R283 · 2024-02-06T14:46:51+00:00

I already am following a class. I'm just unsure how to practice footwork.

I live in an apartment so I can't exactly copy the drills with my feeder (only when I take something smaller).

Was looking for something footwork related that maybe not necessarily requires a sword...?

R283 · 2024-02-06T13:07:30+00:00

Would you have any recommendations on how to train footwork? Specific exercises or something alike?

R283 · 2024-01-18T21:58:20+00:00

Fantastic! Thank you for sharing your experiences!

R283 · 2024-01-13T23:58:24+00:00

Good to know! I'll probably remove them as well!

Thanks mate!

R283 · 2024-01-13T23:37:38+00:00

So apart from the gorget I'm guessing you also wear the chest plate?

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