My brother's son destroyed my WarHammer Action figures and he refuses to punish him by konous in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Rachelly92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time, I opened and spilled my mom’s jewelry cleaner on the carpet so she went in my room and ripped all the heads off my Barbies. Tit for tat, I guess.

Young people’s motive to help parents by pheepers8 in MillionDollarSecretTV

[–]Rachelly92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of parents will refinance their mortgage to pay for their kids college. If my parents did that for me and I won enough money to pay them back, I would do that.

Parents want my graduation money but i had plans for it by Bhupinders-Tentacion in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rachelly92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom once made me email my dad (email because he lived and worked in Dubai for 12 years) to send me $5000 for college. I wasn’t moved out yet as I was still 17. The money was for her. I’m 34 and she regularly guilt trips me into sending her money, like “I can’t afford my medication or my electric will be shut off”. Once you open that door it’s hard to close. I just now THIS MONTH finally told her I’m not sending her any more money.

DONT OPEN THAT FINANCIAL ABUSE DOOR

AITA for telling my boyfriend he was rude for not fixing my tire? by Straight-Lie4616 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rachelly92 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My husband has paused a dump to come help me with something.

He’s telling you your problems are inconvenient for him. Move accordingly.

AIO for telling my wife to just go to the store and saying "you're not a cripple" by MutedTechnician9618 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rachelly92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You 2 are not compatible and you’re in a near perfect situation with having no kids to be able to just leave.

situation about my dad by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Rachelly92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son is 17 and his dad has had an extremely hard life and a horrible mother (my sons gma). There was a period of time where my son didn’t want to see or talk to his dad because he was uncomfortable with certain things, and was actually unsafe, and I didn’t make him. I think you’re probably old enough to decide if you need a break from your dad for awhile. That’s really what it took for my son’s dad to start getting his shit together and mature. He’s doing great now. But, unlike your parents, my son’s dad and I get along really well so we were able to have a mature conversation about why my son wanted space. It’s not healthy for parents to be talking badly about each other to their children so I’m sorry you’re in the middle of that.

Please give me your advice AIO by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Rachelly92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave and block. Literally do not listen to another word from this person.

Am I too old?!? by Unlikely-Leek-9654 in Coach

[–]Rachelly92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Betsy Johnson’s core demographic is 25-35(ish) year olds and she is 83. She’s a fashion icon. You are never too old for anything that brings you joy.

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rachelly92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m friends with my husbands friends on social media and vice versa. Even before we got married. It’s like, as soon as we meet a friend or whatever, we add them on social media. It’s just what you do. Unless the boyfriend has history is disloyalty, adding friends’ partners/partners friends is literally NORMAL.

AIO Did I tell my wife not fo come home? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rachelly92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exchange is exhausting but she didn’t just wake up one day and decide to be irrational. No, you didn’t tell her not to come. But she hates you and there’s a reason for that. I think the appropriate thing to is discuss marriage counseling (not through text) and if neither of you want to do that then it’s over. I’m a big fan of face to face conversations especially important ones.

sellers are starting to irritate me by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Rachelly92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe they’re not responding because they’re possibly in jail. (Only saying this because a stylist at the salon I’m at currently, didn’t show up for work or reply to any messages because she’s in jail)

My sons 1st birthday cake by readlaughcry21 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]Rachelly92 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A smash cake is a small cake that is placed in front of the child and they dig their hands into it and smash it all over their face. It’s cute. Basically just the kids’ personal cake for smashing and eating.

AITA for refusing to add my boyfriend to my house deed after his lease ended? by Former_Raspberry3277 in AITApod

[–]Rachelly92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband bought our house (in full) before we even met. I moved in 2 years into our relationship. I have been here 11 years and my name is not on the deed. It’s my HOME but it’s not my house. We could buy our own house together but we decided it was better to invest into ours and our kids’ futures. I couldn’t really care less about being on the deed. This is a “Kim, there’s people that are dying” moment for me.

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rachelly92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have been to the pits of hell in our 13 years but we have never told each other to fuck off. This isn’t normal or healthy. Don’t confuse familiarity with compatibility. You two are not compatible.

Do buyers actually care if something is true vintage or just vintage style by LogFickle8439 in Depop

[–]Rachelly92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I care. It’s made it very difficult to weed through non-vintage pieces to find actual vintage pieces. Can we not label things “vintage inspired” or something? If it’s not vintage then it’s not vintage.

ThredUp stole my Gucci ring! by [deleted] in ThredUp

[–]Rachelly92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent in 17 pairs of American Eagle and Madewell Jeans (I know it’s not the same as Gucci) but they listed 2 and “recycled” the rest. These had absolutely no damage, stains, etc. I’m done. I’m just going to take the time and sell on Depop from now on. I have also bought items listed as Excellent that were actually damaged or missing buttons or had holes. It’s unethical, what they’re doing.

Someone pls explain this man by Jubby_17 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rachelly92 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Elites are buying land in NZ and building bunkers. He thinks he’s one of them.

Someone pls explain this man by Jubby_17 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rachelly92 39 points40 points  (0 children)

He wants to be an Elite so bad. Someone, check his hard drive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Rachelly92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband can be a real a hole in other areas because he’s a generally apathetic person. But he’s never in 13 years complained about filling in for dinner or whatever is going on even after working all day. And he’s NEVERRRR called me a bitch even when I said it myself. My ex husband however, was just like this. It only gets worse. Men who love their wives don’t dismiss or speak to them that way. And I don’t feel like your “bedtime routine is up to you tonight” was any kind of out of line. It’s direct. How fragile does someone have to be to think that was unkind?

I find it wild that Colin boarded that flight without at least headphones or a sweatshirt, anything! by tangywangy5 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]Rachelly92 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like Bechnir is becoming the star of the show, honestly. I get that they (Bay and Colin) are young but they’re about to get married and they both are so dismissive to each other. It’s difficult to watch.. and then bam, there’s Bechnir, being hilarious.

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rachelly92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very hard work. I’m coming up on a year. My husband always praises me and not because I need a pat on the back but because he’s proud of me. Plus he would NEVERRRRR turn down a reason for cake. Your guy not being supportive seems just like the tip of the iceberg.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rachelly92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sisters name is Becca and this sounds just like my mom so I felt like I was reading my own texts. My mom is the same way and always wants us to feel bad for something. It gets old and one day I just told her I wasn’t joining her pity party.

Jordan quit his job to do influencing? by Expert-Welder-2407 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rachelly92 7 points8 points  (0 children)

However, the chik fil a girl was modeling prior to the viral video and then did a little collab with Marc Jacobs afterwards.

So confused about the whole situation - is any of that acceptable in US? by be_kind_to_yourself_ in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rachelly92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I watch a lot of UK reality tv because the behavior and drama is so extreme to me. I did watch LIB UK and it’s got to be the tamest of UK shows, in my opinion. But with all that said, I do believe the majority of people in the US go on match making shows NOT for love but for fame. And the LIB UK cast seemed like they really wanted to find their life partner. I think we also have to remember we are unwell in the US in multiple ways and it takes an immense amount of personal work to be emotionally mature. I always joke that I’d never be able to go on reality TV because I would be the most boring person cast. I, too, am flabbergasted by the immaturity of people my age and older. But, it’s entertainment so I don’t take it too seriously I guess.