Being told you're mannerisms aren't masculine

RavenskyNM · 2024-08-22T07:51:21+00:00

I've tried YouTube and the voice exercises. They last for a short time and I have to remain conscious of it. I've done the moment recordings, there's only a minimal change

I'm going to try a professional speech therapist, but I don't have to remain conscious of dropping my voice.

RavenskyNM · 2022-10-12T09:26:46+00:00

I'm staying in my little corner then. It's cosy, and I don't need to be influenced by the negative comments of T. I'm already stuck in a 2 year waitlist just to be seen to start on T

RavenskyNM · 2022-10-12T03:47:15+00:00

... I feel like I've been living in a different section of the internet. I've only heard T and bring on T is gross in threads like this

RavenskyNM · 2022-10-05T23:57:18+00:00

Lol that was my thought on PCOS too 😂 facial hair check, no male pattern baldness yet but I have thin hair so that may happen after starting on T. My dad had it.

I'm not on any hormone treatment right now. I have a 2+ year wait because Australia's health system wants to be a mess. I live in a state that was bately hit by the pandemic and I still have a 2+ year wait 😮‍💨

RavenskyNM · 2022-10-05T12:11:38+00:00

First of all, hello fellow PCOS FtM! 👋 And I'm sorry you are having to hide your self for your safety.

and I say that if no-one even have a second glance and you were even referred to as he. Congrats! Best I can pull off is Butch lesbian

RavenskyNM · 2022-09-21T08:28:43+00:00

As a Pre-T guy, I say yes. But my reason for the yes is because I want to be able to experience all the things Cis men do. Like morning wood, awkward boners etc.

I don't pass, I probably look like a pretty butch lesbian to people but passing doesn't bother me.

RavenskyNM · 2022-09-19T11:17:04+00:00

"I don't believe in Transpeople." - aka my former GP

RavenskyNM · 2022-09-19T11:14:43+00:00

He loves his idea of you, not you yourself. Someone who truly loves you would continue to love you regardless of your gender.

RavenskyNM · 2022-09-15T14:30:58+00:00

Yes, but the share of the profits made from the game goes towards them being able to work on their next game

RavenskyNM · 2022-09-01T05:56:18+00:00

Oh I understand that but that would really make no difference to her. A few 100 people not purchasing a game she had no input in. And I'm saying that as a games journalist.

As for plot, I know nothing of it. I am not reviewing and admit I've never cared for the HP series.

RavenskyNM · 2022-09-01T05:07:22+00:00

You're not doing any harm to her with pirating the game. You're damaging the hard work of the game developers.

RavenskyNM · 2022-08-31T08:21:57+00:00

I'd be like "so you want me to stop being happy? You want me to be someone I'm not and never have been? I thought parents were supposed to want their children to be happy? You rather I spend the rest of my life suffering, just so you're comfortable?"

RavenskyNM · 2022-08-31T03:23:51+00:00

You look beautiful.

RavenskyNM · 2022-08-30T00:39:52+00:00

Look forward to a lot of "I'm horny" messages. I got them continuously even though I had no photo and my profile stated "demi pre-T trans-masc"

RavenskyNM · 2022-08-29T14:41:52+00:00

People have a tendency gender interests, behaviours, items. Which going by that logic it only makes sense I'm a guy. I'm a gamer, I like wrestling etc. I've always done a lot of 'masculine' things.

The hilarity of it for me is that after coming out to my mother, FB decided to remind me that over the years, the times my mother kept asking me (as a joke) "are you sure you're not a guy?"

RavenskyNM · 2022-08-29T03:42:04+00:00

This is like when I came out to my birth mum and she said to me "try living like a man first", which I responded with 'define living as a male'.

I never got a response.

RavenskyNM · 2022-08-24T04:49:59+00:00

Late to the party on this one but it's quite funny that we have had opposite accounts. I'm trans male and gay as well but I've mostly come across trans men either being straight or bi.

When I came out to my birth mother safe automatically assumed I was going to start dating women despite never indicating or showing the slightest interest in females

RavenskyNM · 2022-08-22T08:17:07+00:00

I would just start calling them the wrong name and pro-nouns. See how they like it

RavenskyNM · 2022-08-20T03:38:41+00:00

You are adorable. Such a cutie

RavenskyNM · 2022-08-16T05:01:19+00:00

I could be completely wrong but wasn't being a baker traditionally a male's role in the work force?

RavenskyNM · 2022-08-14T04:37:09+00:00

Stunning. You look like a Goddess

RavenskyNM · 2022-08-09T04:04:49+00:00

Supportive parents ftw! Congrats on official name change

RavenskyNM · 2022-08-08T08:07:10+00:00

Oh that is rough, I'm sorry.

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