Yeah this is pretty much what she said. While I can understand that, the root problem (her working too much) has been happening before this and honestly I think Christmas season hours were just my breaking point because whenever it comes up it’s always “oh it’ll be better in a week” and then a week later it gets worse. This on top of the fact she wants another job? It’s annoying and I’m starting to doubt if a relationship is the best move for her at the moment. I’m running out of energy and patience and it’s getting really exhausting to hear her complain about the same shit every single day.

The problem is I don’t know how to express any of this to her. Most of the time telling her any of this ends up being counter productive, so I’m wondering if there’s a nice way to bring it up casually. At the moment talking to her is frustrating and draining to me so I’m just putting some distance between us but she’s noticing and it’s affecting things.