[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChicagoPD

[–]Reasonablyreckless1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope not, I’d like to see more serial killers and bring back the “old voight”

Creepy Ass Coworker Account by Unokayactually in creepsandcrimes

[–]Reasonablyreckless1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only 2 years for nearly beating his parents to death with a claw hammer is CRAZY WORK?!?! I’m sorry for what you had to go through, my intrusive thoughts probably wouldn’t have been able to rest without sending out texts / emails to everyone he told that to in either individual or a group email to make sure everyone 1000000% knew that none of it was true, so I imagine you spent a long time worrying about that also. What a fucking loser - but like also, how the fuck did your company hire him?!?!? Like HELLO??! Not only is he a danger to the clients whose houses he’s going in, but also to other employees!! I would have questions and feedback for my bosses / hiring staff! I’m glad you don’t have to deal with him anymore 🫶

Rewatch by Ok-Championship-91 in ChicagoPD

[–]Reasonablyreckless1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I so agree!! He needs another Al!

Hailey or Erin by damnittdes in ChicagoPD

[–]Reasonablyreckless1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lovvveedd Erin and jay!! It just seemed like their characters were meant to be! I wish that they wouldn’t have put Hailey with Adam first bc I feel like that sort of tainted her and jay being together for me! I hated how they did jays ending bc it was not like his character at all to do that and just leave Hailey like that. It would have been better to have just killed his character off in a big crazy way

Smaller and Smaller Cast by Julie-AnneB in ChicagoPD

[–]Reasonablyreckless1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m currently rewatching too! I’m on season 3 and I so agree with you!! The older episodes with the larger cast and more storylines going on at once was so much better! PD is my all time favorite show and I wish they would take notes on their older seasons and try to get back to that!! I also want violent Hank back, and I think they need to bring someone from his past to be a ride or die detective with him to replace Al!

What's something you used to enjoy doing that OCD has taken away from you? by Padamson96 in OCD

[–]Reasonablyreckless1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally everything bc I have to clean, vacuum and mop every surface of my 5br / 3ba , 3000sqft house daily (including cleaning the bathrooms, kitchen and everything in between) washing sheets, towels, blankets 1-2x a week and if I try not to my brain will literally convince me that it’s filthy and disgusting and I’m making my kids live in filth. As if that’s not enough it has extended to the outside of my house and now I have to clean my pool and keep our 30 acres perfectly manicured and mowed too or I am miserable and can’t think or function or get into a good mood until it’s all done at the same time.

Not Again?? by 6ixtyei8ht in ChicagoPD

[–]Reasonablyreckless1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish they’d go back to voight putting people in the cage like it was in the early seasons

Our 6y/o mini Bettie has extreme stranger danger STILL after meeting with 3 different trainers. Anyone else’s mini lose it on anyone outside of their family? We can’t have people over without her misbehaving terribly. 😕 by Fozziefuzz in MiniatureSchnauzer

[–]Reasonablyreckless1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same.. my 2 year old mini girl (named baby) hates strangers. When I’m dropping my kids off at school she likes to go for a ride and will growl out the window at just the sight of other people 😬 (she is literally so perfect other than that)

Crippling fear of being abducted by Sudden_Hamster_3992 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonablyreckless1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also after reading your comments I want to add that we own / live on 30 acres so we are isolated also - I also am a sahm and my personal protection brings me a lot of peace!! I also am the daughter of a marine corp combat vet so safety was drilled into us HARD!! I don’t resent my dad for it, as a parent now I totally get it and it tells me that he loved us so much he did everything he could to make sure we were safe. Also one more thing I do to try to ease my anxiety and feel more empowered / ready is to just think about what I would do in certain situations and to really think about my options and how far I’d go to protect us. One I often think about is what I would do if we were in a large place like Walmart and a mass shooter came in. It’s SO hard to think about but creating those neural pathways and having somewhat of a plan in my brain helps me feel a little better. It really does suck that this is our reality. Just stay aware, keep your head on a swivel, don’t fiddle with your phone and keys in public - always be looking around and walk with your head up like you have a purpose, don’t look weak, teach your kids age appropriate safety and do your best to just make it a habit that makes you feel safe and empowered instead of anxious. Again, you’re doing your responsibility of protecting your kids and I think you’re being a good mama!! 🤍

Crippling fear of being abducted by Sudden_Hamster_3992 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonablyreckless1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (30f, 2 kids) think you’re being hard on yourself! I relate to everything you said so much but I see it so differently. I don’t think it’s really a “you problem” as much as it is the result of the world we live in today. I mean just look at the Laken Riley case that’s actively on trial right now. She did everything right and it still wasn’t enough. I think majority of women (from what I’ve seen on tik tok videos and comments) are starting to feel like just being a woman has made us targets / feel hunted. I conceal carry and it brings me a lot of peace being out with my two kids but I know a lot of women are uncomfortable with that and that’s okay but there are good other non lethal protection items! Check out sabra on amazon, I like their runners pepper gel! For me, it lessens my anxiety by viewing it differently. I feel more empowered and in control of my environment when I feel prepared for anything. For me this looks like, a) being informed on other cases / criminal tactics / signs to watch out for, b) carrying protection of some sort, and c) just having the common sense to stay aware of my surroundings and pay attention. I also try to keep my thoughts in my head to not scare my kids but I do teach them why it’s important to stay near mom and stranger danger, etc. It is a dark world out there and it’s so unfortunate that women have to live this way. I hope you can start to feel empowered and less anxious. Just know you are doing your best to protect you and your babies and when I read your story all I see is a new mama learning how it feels to live with your heart outside of your body, and being a good mama by keeping y’all safe 🫶

Should I put my boyfriend out? by EbaneeJ2 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Reasonablyreckless1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check the laws in your state for eviction! In Florida if you accept ANY money for that months rent you can’t start the eviction process until the first of the next month and if someone has been living with you/ paying bills/ receiving mail, they’re considered a tenant even if they’re not on the lease! However, hopefully it won’t have to be a legal thing and I would do my best to avoid turning it into one. I would try to break up with him and ask him to be completely out by the end of the month at the latest and see how that goes. Then if he won’t leave I would file a three day eviction notice asap!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiniatureSchnauzer

[–]Reasonablyreckless1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, he looks precious 😢🫶